Why Friends is more enduring after 25 yrs than greater sitcoms like Seinfeld & Cheers

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"Plenty of sitcoms have lasted 10 seasons or more, enjoyed sky-high ratings and featured beloved and talented casts always associated with their roles. But no sitcom has endured in the pop-culture firmament the way Friends has," says Kelly Lawler, in marking Sunday's 25th anniversary of Friends' premiere episode. "Although many aspects of the series are clearly dated – from its frequent homophobic and transphobic jokes to its lily-white depiction of New York – Friends endures as a cultural touchstone for multiple generations. Seinfeld lives on in reruns, but nobody is asking Julia Louis-Dreyfus 10 times a day whether she'd do a revival. So what is it about Friends that prevents time (or even its own shortcomings) from erasing it from our collective consciousness?" Other sitcoms like Seinfeld, Cheers and M*A*S*H were simply better than Friends at being knee-slappingly hilarious and consistent, says Lawler. Designing Women and The Mary Tyler Show hold up just a little bit better on a modern-day rewatch, Lawler adds. "And even if you want to call Friends the greatest sitcom of all time, that doesn’t explain why it has no counterpart in drama that has endured as much," says Lawler. "What’s the greatest drama of all time, and why doesn’t it have a piece of furniture in front of the Eiffel Tower? Is it NYPD Blue? The Sopranos? ER? ER is celebrating its 25th anniversary this week, too, but you’d never know it. The advantage of Friends is that its greatness stems from a different place than its peers. It wasn’t so much the gang's antics that made the show great, although there were plenty of those, and they were often hilarious. It was the love fans have for the people who got into trouble. Friends was funny and familiar, but the familiarity was the real draw. It operated from a place of love and joy, rather than cynicism and sarcasm. Watching the series was, as the cliche goes, hanging out with some friends. And it's more comforting to settle into the couch with Phoebe and a rousing rendition of 'Smelly Cat' than hang out with Jerry Seinfeld.

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