Dean Butler discusses age gap kiss with co-star Melissa Gilbert

[TMC]

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...a-Gilbert.html

By SONIA HORON FOR DAILYMAIL.COM

PUBLISHED: 19:21 EDT, 3 April 2024 | UPDATED: 19:30 EDT, 3 April 2024

Little House on the Prairie's Dean Butler revealed that he wished he and teenage co-star Melissa Gilbert were 'closer' in age while filming their kiss scene.

The actor, 67, discussed the age gap with Gilbert, now 59, and how it proved to be a hindrance.

Gilbert was 15 while he was 23 when they shared their first on-screen kiss on the show, which they starred on from from 1979 to 1983.

'I've often said to Melissa, "I wish we could have been a little closer in age when we were doing this." But that's not the way it really happened,' he told People at the Little House on the Prairie 50th Anniversary Cast Reunion and Festival in March.

'Laura (Gilbert) was 10 years younger than Almanzo (Butler). But from the perspective of playing it, I thought, wouldn't it be great if we could have [had] … a little more common ground, so we would've been able to play the loving side of this in perhaps a little bit more interesting way.'

Almanzo Wilder met Laura Ingalls in the season 6 episode 'Back to School (Part 1)' and they would share their first kiss on the episode 'Sweet Sixteen.'

'When I met Melissa in "Back to School," there was no sign of a woman there,' Butler explained.

'She really was a little girl: bright, incredibly capable, spunky, vibrant, very extroverted,' he said.

'Now, I don't know how much more of a woman there was there at the end, but she was being asked to go there at the end of that season. And I think she did it amazingly well when you look at how little life experience she had.'

Butler discussed the 'anxiety' they both felt before filming the kiss.

'I think that there was anxiety on both sides of that kiss and how is this going to go? But we stepped up to it,' he said.

Butler went on to state that the love angle was 'heartfelt' and 'simple' which is why it has resonated with many people.

'I think that's one of the reasons why people continue to love this, because it gives you this idyllic view of what a romance could be, what young love could be.'

'Because the audience loved her [Laura] so much … If she'd chosen this guy, then this guy must be really good. And so I got the benefit of a lot of all of that. The audience just came right with me, because she did.'

Last month Butler told the U.S. Sun of the kiss: 'If it had not been handled the way Michael (Landon) had envisioned it being handled, it could have been a very dicey situation with the age difference and the size difference.'

'I don't know that you could make that today. Melissa and I have talked about this a lot over the years. You couldn't do that casting.'

'There'd never been a casting like that before, and there's never been a casting like ours since. And you absolutely could never do it today. That would be impossible. And it would be appropriate that you couldn't do it today.'

Last month there was a Little House On The Prairie reunion on Good Morning America.

Gilbert, Karen Grassle (Laura's mother Caroline) and Alison Arngrim (Laura's nemesis, Nellie Oleson) were all side by side to look back fondly on the TV series.

The ladies are shocked it has already been 50 years. 'It's overwhelming, actually,' Gilbert shared.

'I'm remembering so much, and so much of my childhood and so many wonderful experiences and emotional experiences attached to all of these people.'

Grassle added, 'People are finding values, comfort and a message that they long for,' she said. 'And I think, you know, it's just simple human decency.'

And Arngrim added that the show's continued popularity is 'absolutely mind-blowing' to her.

They also remembered the film's star, writer, producer and director Michael Landon, who died in 1991 at the age of 54.

Gilbert called Landon 'magnetic,' saying he 'drew me in but he also played with me right away.'

'Our relationship immediately became parental,' she continued. 'But he treated us when he worked with us like contemporaries, not like kids.'