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Old 09-18-2023, 05:27 AM   #1
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Growing Pains revolves around a family led by psychiatrist Dr. Jason Seaver and his journalist wife Maggie. They make the decision to move so that Maggie can pursue a career. Much like every other successful 80s sitcom, it follows particular tropes. Airing from 1985 to 1992, it is well-remembered as it covered a variety of serious topics while still keeping a sense of humor; there was even a reunion in 2004.

While this show is not controversial, it is exceedingly dated. It also blends into the background with many of the other shows. Unlike ALF which stands out for its hideous portrayal of an alien, Growing Pains is just another sitcom. The children are stereotypical portrayals of a girl-crazy teenage boy and a studious daughter too focused on her books. Honestly, if they were to create this now, it wouldn’t receive any traction ⁠— primarily because it’s simply boring.
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Growing Pains featured a classic 80s sitcom staple - role reversal. In this case, the family matriarch, after years of putting her career on hold to raise three children, returns to the workforce while dad takes his turn staying home to mind the store.

Growing Pains was a funny show that also had its share of "very special episodes" dealing with serious topics such as suicide, alcohol-related car wrecks, teenaged runaways, and drug use. However, as soon as ratings began to drop the show was guilty of yet another tired sitcom staple - a new baby. It's hard to pinpoint what ruined the show- the birth of the fourth Seaver or Kirk Cameron finding Jesus.
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A long-running sitcom can certainly be beneficial for an actor — it pays well, it makes them well-known to millions of viewers — but it can also be a curse. In its first few years, Growing Pains was a massive hit. Placing in the top 20 of the ratings chart in season one, it climbed to #5 by season three. In many ways, it was the definitive '80s family sitcom, utilizing that familiar formula of the era which mixed equal parts corniness, sarcasm, and treacly sentimentality.

Tastes change over time, and audiences fell out of love with Growing Pains. By 1991-92, it had fallen to 75th in the ratings, and ABC canceled the series after seven seasons. This left Jeremy Miller in a bind. As of 1992, the teenaged actor was closely associated with a popular sitcom, but one which was regarded as past its prime and really passé. Hollywood might not have been interested in aligning itself with the star of an '80s relic.

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I haven't seen this show in a while, so I can't offer my opinion about it.

How does this show Growing Pains compare with the Valerie/The Hogan Family?

Were some shows "watched" because they were new and "on" ? I ask this because I remember visiting friends homes (I was the target demographics 14-18 at the time) and we never sat down to watch TV but shows would be on in the living room with nobody watching. In high school, we talked about music and movies. I don't remember anyone talking about TV, save for a bunch of us geeks admitting that we enjoyed Unsolved Mysteries with Robert Stack.

Added: I recently looked to stream Growing Pains, but it's unavailable at the moment or is watchable for 1.99 per episode. I'm looking for a free watch with ads.

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Does Growing Pains at this point in time, almost over 30 years after it ended and almost 40 years since it debuted, have any real or legitimate cultural staying power? It has been suggested that among the family sitcoms of the '80s with a cheesy opening credits theme, Family Ties and Who's the Boss? are more fondly remembered.

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1992 was 32 years ago, yes.
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I haven't seen this show in a while, so I can't offer my opinion about it.

How does this show Growing Pains compare with the Valerie/The Hogan Family?

Were some shows "watched" because they were new and "on" ? I ask this because I remember visiting friends homes (I was the target demographics 14-18 at the time) and we never sat down to watch TV but shows would be on in the living room with nobody watching. In high school, we talked about music and movies. I don't remember anyone talking about TV, save for a bunch of us geeks admitting that we enjoyed Unsolved Mysteries with Robert Stack.

Added: I recently looked to stream Growing Pains, but it's unavailable at the moment or is watchable for 1.99 per episode. I'm looking for a free watch with ads.
The early days of ‘Valarie’ are better than any era of ‘Growing Pains’. The later ‘Hogan Family’ seasons are more comparable, though Bateman > Cameron!
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I was reading this comment about the 1983 Michael Keaton movie Mr. Mom and about how it likely couldn't be made today:
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Mr. Mom treats a stay-at-home dad as a novel and comical concept, showcasing the outdated gender roles that would struggle to find acceptance in today's society. The film's portrayal of Michael Keaton's character as a hapless father who is overwhelmed by the challenges of child-rearing and household management reinforces stereotypes that have long been recognized as problematic. In an era where the traditional family structure has evolved, and gender roles are no longer rigidly defined, the film's reliance on these tropes would likely be met with criticism, making it difficult for modern audiences to connect with it.
Growing Pains along with Who's the Boss? with Tony Danza was a part of that trend in the 1980s of sitcoms involving men (in this case, Jason Seaver) staying at home while the women were out being the breadwinners.
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7 Classic TV Shows That Are Difficult To Rewatch Now

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As a whole, Growing Pains hasn’t aged as poorly as other past titles. However, there were many moments throughout the show that made it nearly impossible to see it in a positive light. Growing Pains followed the day-to-day life of psychiatrist Jason Seaver (Alan Thicke) and his family, but ironically, the show’s portrayal of mental health was far from appropriate.

Jason’s approach to dealing with his patients was baffling, and his words weren’t exactly well-thought-out. At one point, the show mocked one of his patients, who threatened to kill themselves by jumping down Jason’s chimney. However, the reason why Growing Pains is so hard to watch now is because of Tracey Gold’s character, Carol.

The other characters frequently made jokes about Carol’s weight in Growing Pains, and it was awful to witness the young girl experience them. But behind the scenes, it was even more heartbreaking. Gold later revealed she developed an eating disorder, which impacted her weight fluctuation, but this didn’t stop the show from implementing similar storylines for Carol.
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Yes — Growing Pains (1985–92) is, by most reasonable measures, a television show that feels “too dated” to work today, both in tone and in structure. It isn’t just old-fashioned in surface details (clothes, slang, décor); its entire worldview, rhythm, and humor style come from an era of TV that modern audiences have largely moved past.

Here’s why.

📺 1. It Embodies the “Template” ’80s Sitcom

When Growing Pains debuted, it was almost a model example of what an ’80s family sitcom should be:
  • Two working parents juggling family and career
  • Lovable, mildly rebellious kids
  • Warm moral lessons at the end of each episode
  • Soft laugh tracks, three-camera setups, and predictable jokes

That formula worked beautifully in the Reagan era — it offered comfort, middle-class aspiration, and reassurance. But viewed today, it comes across as extremely generic.

There’s nothing to distinguish it from its peers (Family Ties, Who’s the Boss?, Just the Ten of Us, Mr. Belvedere). The writing, pacing, and tone are all so similar that Growing Pains almost feels like a prototype of 1980s sitcom television rather than a standout within it.

🧠 2. Its “Progressive” Element Is Now Outdated

At the time, Growing Pains had a mildly subversive twist: Maggie Seaver returning to the workforce while her husband, Jason, worked from home as a psychiatrist. That “role reversal” was framed as modern and even feminist for 1985.

But now? That premise wouldn’t even raise an eyebrow.

Dual-career households are the norm, and the show’s occasional emphasis on Jason’s “babysitting” or Maggie’s “struggle to balance” work and motherhood feels quaintly condescending today. What once seemed forward-thinking now plays as outdated gender commentary.

🧃 3. Its Tone Feels Too Gentle for Modern Tastes

Modern sitcom audiences — even family audiences — expect:
  • Sharper dialogue (Modern Family, Black-ish)
  • Meta or self-aware humor (The Goldbergs, Abbott Elementary)
  • Emotional authenticity (Parenthood, This Is Us)

Growing Pains relies on clean, corny setups and moral wrap-ups — “Mike learns his lesson,” “Carol forgives herself,” etc. That “moral-of-the-week” style feels too polished, too earnest, and too predictable for modern sensibilities.

It’s not that the show lacked heart — it’s that it never risked emotional depth beyond safe, sitcom-level sentimentality.

💥 4. The “Very Special Episode” Formula Doesn’t Age Well

Like many 80s sitcoms, Growing Pains tried to handle serious issues (teen drinking, drug use, suicide) — but always in the tidy, network-safe way.

These episodes were praised at the time for showing “depth,” but they now seem clumsy and didactic. The issues are simplified, the resolutions too pat. Viewers raised on Euphoria, 13 Reasons Why, or even Boy Meets World (which later did that format better) find them almost unintentionally corny.

🧓 5. Its Decline Symbolized the End of a Sitcom Era

By its final season (1991–92), Growing Pains was out of sync with television’s shift:
  • The Simpsons had debuted (1989), parodying the very family values Growing Pains embodied.
  • Seinfeld and Roseanne were redefining sitcom realism.
  • Younger viewers were turning to Saved by the Bell, Beverly Hills, 90210, and Fresh Prince.

Adding a baby and a new kid (Leonardo DiCaprio’s Luke Brower) were desperate network moves straight out of the “jump the shark” playbook — proof the show didn’t know how to evolve.

🧍 6. Offscreen Luggage Didn’t Help

Alan Thicke’s smug persona and Kirk Cameron’s very public evangelical transformation made the show harder to celebrate nostalgically.

Cameron’s later controversies and Thicke’s uneven reputation gave Growing Pains a faintly awkward aftertaste — not scandalous enough to intrigue, but uncomfortable enough to alienate.

📉 7. Its Afterlife Never Materialized

Unlike Full House, Family Matters, or The Wonder Years, Growing Pains:
  • Never got consistent syndication after the 1990s
  • Has no major streaming presence
  • Never inspired memes or nostalgic revivals
  • Had two TV movies (2000, 2004) that failed to reignite interest

Without reruns or streaming availability, entire generations have simply never seen it. So even if it weren’t “too dated,” it’s now too invisible to matter.

⚖️ Final Verdict: “Too Dated,” But Not Worth Reimagining

Growing Pains is the textbook example of a show that captured its moment but can’t transcend it.

It’s too formulaic for modern comedy, too sanitized for drama, and too generic to reboot without irony.

It’s not a bad show — it’s just so firmly a product of its time that bringing it back today would feel like a parody of 1980s wholesomeness.

If someone wanted to update Growing Pains for today, it would need a complete tonal overhaul — sharper humor, modern family dynamics, more emotional complexity. Otherwise, yes: time has completely passed it by.

Would you like me to sketch how a modern reboot of Growing Pains could actually work (in tone and premise)? It’s an interesting thought experiment.
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Yes — Growing Pains (1985–92) is widely regarded today as a show that feels too dated to translate effectively for contemporary audiences, though it remains a snapshot of 1980s family TV values. Several cultural and structural reasons explain why it wouldn’t “work” in a modern context.

Narrative and Tone

Growing Pains embodied the formulaic middle-class sitcom of its era — a two-parent suburban household, serialized family lessons, light humor, and “very special episodes.” While that balance of warmth and lesson-telling defined family television in the Reagan–Bush years, its predictable moralism and neatly resolved storylines contrast sharply with the irony-driven or serialized storytelling styles that dominate today.

Modern sitcoms such as Abbott Elementary, Modern Family, or The Conners rely on mockumentary or single-camera formats, faster pacing, and self-awareness; Growing Pains functions in a slower, multi-camera, laugh-track rhythm that feels nostalgic but static to modern viewers.

Thematic and Cultural Limitations

The show’s central hook — a stay-at-home father and working mother — was fresh in 1985, paralleling shifts in gender roles. But in 2025, this once “progressive twist” is no longer remarkable. Similarly, its episodic “issue tackling” (teen drinking, suicide, drugs) was important then but now plays as oversimplified or preachy, since audiences expect moral complexity and ongoing arcs rather than afterschool-style resolutions.

Additionally, Growing Pains reflects an idealized, white, upper-middle-class lens typical of 1980s network family comedies (Family Ties, Who’s the Boss?, The Hogan Family). This narrow social scope reads as dated and out of step with current expectations for diversity, realism, and nuance in family portrayals.

Industry and Structural Shifts
  • Sitcom pacing and aesthetics have changed: The live-audience structure, lighting, and production style immediately “lock” the show in its era.
  • Serialized streaming storytelling rewards continuity and progression over the stand-alone episodic format Growing Pains used.
  • Audience sensibilities have evolved: today’s viewers gravitate toward authenticity and edge rather than formulaic wholesomeness.

Reboot Viability

A revival in the Fuller House mold might provoke nostalgia but would need heavy updating — sharper writing, modern family configurations, and less moralizing tone. Without such reinvention, a Growing Pains reboot would likely be dismissed as sentimentally out of touch rather than warmly nostalgic.

In short, Growing Pains is a cultural time capsule — poignant for its era but too conventional and sanitized to find new traction. It helped define the 1980s sitcom family, yet that very identity now makes it feel like an artifact instead of a template.
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Whether Growing Pains (1985-1992) is too dated to work today depends on how we evaluate its relevance, appeal, and adaptability to modern audiences. Based on the provided quotes and broader context, here’s an analysis:

Why Growing Pains Might Feel Dated:
  1. Tropes and Stereotypes: The show leans heavily on 1980s sitcom conventions, like the role-reversal premise (working mom, stay-at-home dad) and stereotypical characters (girl-crazy teen boy, studious daughter). These archetypes, while relatable in their time, may feel cliché or overly simplistic to modern viewers who expect more nuanced, diverse portrayals.
  2. Formulaic Storytelling: The sitcom’s reliance on predictable formats—humorous family dynamics mixed with "very special episodes" tackling issues like drug use or suicide—might not resonate today. Contemporary audiences often prefer serialized narratives or more subversive humor, as seen in shows like Modern Family or The Good Place.
  3. Cultural Context: The show reflects 1980s suburban, middle-class American values, which may not align with today’s diverse, globalized audience. Topics like the role-reversal premise, while progressive then, are now commonplace, reducing its novelty.
  4. Production Style: The multi-camera sitcom format with a laugh track can feel outdated compared to single-camera, cinematic shows like Ted Lasso. The pacing and humor delivery might not land with viewers accustomed to faster, snappier content.

Why It Could Still Work:
  1. Universal Themes: Growing Pains tackles timeless family dynamics—parental struggles, sibling rivalry, and growing up—which remain relatable. With updated writing, these themes could connect with new audiences.
  2. Nostalgia Factor: The show’s reunion in 2004 and its fanbase on platforms like Sitcoms Online suggest enduring appeal. A reboot could capitalize on nostalgia, as seen with successful revivals like Fuller House.
  3. Adaptability: The core premise (balancing career and family) could be modernized to reflect current issues, like remote work or blended families. Serious topics it addressed (e.g., mental health, substance abuse) are still relevant and could be explored with greater depth today.
  4. Casting Potential: The original show’s success was partly due to likable actors like Alan Thicke and Kirk Cameron. A fresh, charismatic cast could revive the concept, especially if tailored to modern sensibilities.

Challenges for a Modern Revival:
  • Competition: The quotes note Growing Pains blends into the background of 1980s sitcoms, lacking a unique hook like ALF’s alien premise. Today’s crowded TV landscape demands distinctiveness to stand out.
  • Creative Risks: The addition of a new baby and Kirk Cameron’s religious influence were cited as diluting the show’s quality. A revival would need to avoid tired tropes and maintain consistent writing.
  • Audience Expectations: Modern viewers, especially younger ones, may find the show’s earnest tone and moral lessons “boring” compared to edgier or more diverse content on streaming platforms.

Conclusion:

Growing Pains is dated in its execution—its tropes, style, and cultural context reflect the 1980s—but its core themes of family and personal growth are timeless. A revival could work if reimagined with fresh characters, modern issues, and a less formulaic approach, but it would need a unique angle to compete in today’s market. Without significant updates, the original format might struggle to gain traction, as the quotes suggest. If you’d like, I can search for recent discussions on X or the web to gauge current sentiment about a potential Growing Pains reboot.
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