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~*Belle N'Shawn forever~* · 02-17-2004, 12:04 PM

Hi i was wondering if you guys on the board can help me out i am having boyfriend problems ....the other day he was treating me bad when i talked to him online , and he didnt wanna meet for valentines day he decided to fight instead, and i got mad and i left him, then last night he asked me back out but i am not sure what i wanna do !!!! Can you guys help me out?? i would really appreicate it! but my heart tells me to go back to him b/c i love him and the other part says no b/c im tired of getting hurt alot.

Brian Damage · 02-17-2004, 12:28 PM

I wouldn't make it so easy for him. Let him sweat it out. Let him work to get you back. Nobody should be treated like dirt. To be honest, I would say screw it and look for someone else. He should've been with you for Valentine's day if he really loved you. I say move on, but obviously I can't tell you what to do.

EricIdlefan · 02-17-2004, 01:40 PM

If he doesn't, I mean doesn't want to get back together with you, tell him he can take his attitude problem and shove it up his you know what and flip your middle finger at him!!

*Marilyn Monroe* · 02-17-2004, 02:14 PM

I'd say screw it...you don't need him. Just go look for someone else. Or not. You don't need a guy to be happy.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-17-2004, 02:35 PM

Ive never been in this situation, but I know how hard it must be to walk away from someone you love. I agree with Brian.. make him work to get you back. If he doesnt try hard enough, he wasnt worth it.

phoebe7165 · 02-17-2004, 03:01 PM

It is hard to walk away from someone you love, even if he is treating you bad. I know, I had to do it. It took me forever to break up with my boyfriend, and I finally did.

Belle, it's hard listening to your head, but you know you're mainly getting hurt. As long as he knows he has you, he'll continue to treat you the way he had.

You don't know how he's going to be the next time you talk to him. Do you really want that kind of relationship?

Mijada · 02-17-2004, 03:16 PM

It seems to me that he just wants to be with you when it is convenient for him, otherwise he wouldn't act like such a jerk. Don't give in to him. Do what Brian Damage says and make him sweat it out. If you make it easy for him he will just go on treating you badly.

~*Belle N'Shawn forever~* · 02-17-2004, 04:20 PM

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Originally posted by Mijada
It seems to me that he just wants to be with you when it is convenient for him, otherwise he wouldn't act like such a jerk. Don't give in to him. Do what Brian Damage says and make him sweat it out. If you make it easy for him he will just go on treating you badly.

Thank you so much for your advis's i think i might do that make him suffer and wait for my answer... im sick of being treated like crap .. I wanna stay single for alittle while i do love him...maybe if i take a break from online at nights when he is on and not come on and only come on in the day time when im at work i think i might do that and make him wonder what is going on.. I have one more thing! He save's the conversation's that him and I have and he sends it to his sister...what do you guys think about that??? i think thats kinda wrong...and plus i do not like to have any1 eles knowing about what we do in our relationship ad convos! idk im confusedddddddddddd lol help me

Brian Damage · 02-17-2004, 04:25 PM

Dump him! Sure it'll be hard, but he sounds like a little wuss. How could you trust a guy like that?

I am Him · 02-17-2004, 04:30 PM

I don't think Belle Black provided all the nessessary information. I believe there is more to this story than is being revealed.

Ewan's My Man · 02-17-2004, 05:20 PM

Ahh, my favorite quote..."Men aren't worth your tears, and the ones that are, will never make you cry"

or something along the lines of that...

I say dump him, however, I've never been in a relationship so I dunno how hard that would be.

Rhiannon · 02-17-2004, 06:43 PM

I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

Rhiannon · 02-17-2004, 06:44 PM

didn't mean to double post....sorry

I am Him · 02-17-2004, 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vera Wang
I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?

keep your body in shape
Wear nice clothes (no jeans!)
wear perfume
Smile
Don't get any tatoos
Be nice

EricIdlefan · 02-17-2004, 11:32 PM

If he dumps you, you aren't probably the first nor last woman he has dumped!! He is a cad if he does this to other women!!

02-17-2004, 12:04 PM	#1
~Belle N'Shawn forever~ Member Forum Regular Join Date: Aug 12, 2002 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 873	i need advise about bf problems??? Hi i was wondering if you guys on the board can help me out i am having boyfriend problems ....the other day he was treating me bad when i talked to him online , and he didnt wanna meet for valentines day he decided to fight instead, and i got mad and i left him, then last night he asked me back out but i am not sure what i wanna do !!!! Can you guys help me out?? i would really appreicate it! but my heart tells me to go back to him b/c i love him and the other part says no b/c im tired of getting hurt alot.

02-17-2004, 01:40 PM	#3
EricIdlefan USA 250th! Forum Addict Join Date: Oct 12, 2003 Location: East TN Posts: 68,236	If he doesn't, I mean doesn't want to get back together with you, tell him he can take his attitude problem and shove it up his you know what and flip your middle finger at him!!
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02-17-2004, 02:14 PM	#4
Marilyn Monroe Diamonds... Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 24, 2001 Location: Where gentlemen actually prefer brunettes Posts: 4,811	I'd say screw it...you don't need him. Just go look for someone else. Or not. You don't need a guy to be happy.
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02-17-2004, 02:35 PM	#5
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	Ive never been in this situation, but I know how hard it must be to walk away from someone you love. I agree with Brian.. make him work to get you back. If he doesnt try hard enough, he wasnt worth it.
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02-17-2004, 03:01 PM	#6
phoebe7165 Pop Culture Goddess Forum Fanatic Join Date: Apr 15, 2003 Location: US of A - the country of "really bad music" lovers Posts: 11,600	It is hard to walk away from someone you love, even if he is treating you bad. I know, I had to do it. It took me forever to break up with my boyfriend, and I finally did. Belle, it's hard listening to your head, but you know you're mainly getting hurt. As long as he knows he has you, he'll continue to treat you the way he had. You don't know how he's going to be the next time you talk to him. Do you really want that kind of relationship?
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02-17-2004, 12:28 PM	#2
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	I wouldn't make it so easy for him. Let him sweat it out. Let him work to get you back. Nobody should be treated like dirt. To be honest, I would say screw it and look for someone else. He should've been with you for Valentine's day if he really loved you. I say move on, but obviously I can't tell you what to do.

02-17-2004, 03:16 PM	#7
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	It seems to me that he just wants to be with you when it is convenient for him, otherwise he wouldn't act like such a jerk. Don't give in to him. Do what Brian Damage says and make him sweat it out. If you make it easy for him he will just go on treating you badly.

02-17-2004, 04:25 PM	#9
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	Dump him! Sure it'll be hard, but he sounds like a little wuss. How could you trust a guy like that?

02-17-2004, 04:30 PM	#10
I am Him Six Senior Member Join Date: May 15, 2003 Posts: 1,529	I don't think Belle Black provided all the nessessary information. I believe there is more to this story than is being revealed.

02-17-2004, 05:20 PM	#11
Ewan's My Man I'll Cover You Forum Veteran Join Date: Sep 29, 2001 Location: Beneath the opera house... Posts: 5,682	Ahh, my favorite quote..."Men aren't worth your tears, and the ones that are, will never make you cry" or something along the lines of that... I say dump him, however, I've never been in a relationship so I dunno how hard that would be.
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02-17-2004, 06:43 PM	#12
Rhiannon oh, snap! Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jul 19, 2002 Location: middle of nowhere Posts: 11,097	I need b/f advice too. How do you get a hot, smart guy that actually has a job and a car?
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02-17-2004, 06:44 PM	#13
Rhiannon oh, snap! Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jul 19, 2002 Location: middle of nowhere Posts: 11,097	didn't mean to double post....sorry

02-17-2004, 11:32 PM	#15
EricIdlefan USA 250th! Forum Addict Join Date: Oct 12, 2003 Location: East TN Posts: 68,236	If he dumps you, you aren't probably the first nor last woman he has dumped!! He is a cad if he does this to other women!!