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Chad22 · 02-13-2004, 09:11 PM

Ok I Have a bit of a problem, And I Figured Maybe some of you can help. Ok...The past 7 years (Yes 7 Years) I Have had a crush on this girl. I Used to go to School with her and still see her around because her Mom is friends with Mine. We're not really close friends or anything but Shes generally Nice to me (Although In 5th and 6th Grade we tended to Be a little meaner to each other, I Liked her even than). Anyways, I Have never been able to bring Myself to tell her how i feel. Believe me, I Have planned to In My Head Millions and MILLIONS Of times and Even tryed to On a few occasions....But it just never comes out when shes around.

I Told my Mom about it just a few Months ago and she seemed surprised, And My Best friend has known about it for years but he always tells me theirs not much chance. She Has a boyfriend that i know about, But i still cant help But want to try. Shes always On My Mind and Im afraid if i dont say something soon i may never get anouther chance. Just the thought of That makes me feel Nautious and Thats not something i want to live with the rest of my life. What should i do?

Brian · 02-13-2004, 09:13 PM

If I were you, I'd just tell her. I've done that with girls numerous times and I had no problems. It'll just keep bothering you until you get it out of your system. Trust me.

Rhiannon · 02-13-2004, 09:28 PM

Tell her. The worst that can happen is she laughs at you so prepare yourself for that. It'll be ok!

Janice · 02-14-2004, 01:50 AM

I agree with Brian and Vera. Simply tell her how you feel. I would take it slow at first...to see her reaction. Don't pour your heart out unless she seems interested in what you're telling her.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out. You may be pleasantly surprised. She may feel the same way about you.

Krisalicious · 02-14-2004, 02:24 AM

Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-14-2004, 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by Krisalicious
Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

Im with her. I think you should def. tell her, but IMO now is not the best time. How long has she and her bf been dating? Is it serious? If its not too serious, I dont think it would be that long of a wait. Just give it a little time and youll be all set. If youre really too nervous to tell her, maybe you could have your best friend tell her. Sometimes its a bit easier having a friend do it for you and then pretending like you had nothing to do with it LOl. Either way, good luck Chad!!!

EricIdlefan · 02-14-2004, 02:47 AM

Tell her your true feelings about the way you have been feeling about her and how you have felt about her for the past seven years and hopefully she will understand and if she doesn't buy it, it's her loss but your gain!! Good luck and God bless and let us know how it turns out!!

phoebe7165 · 02-14-2004, 04:37 AM

Wow, a 7 year crush. I'll have to go with telling her, even if she has a boyfriend. At least she would know, and if she doesn't feel the same way, then at least you'd know. Do you really want to go through life pondering "What if?" With any luck, maybe things won't work out between her & her boyfriend.

Chad22 · 02-14-2004, 05:47 PM

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Originally posted by Krisalicious
Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

Your right. I Dont want to start any problems or anything.

Im Just gonna wait off and hope for the best.

Thanks for the advice everyone.

robyrob · 02-15-2004, 07:34 PM

maybe you should take the opportunity to get comfortable just talking to her now, while she has a boyfriend, and maybe just get closer to her and then talk to her about yer crush when youre ready to

Penny Lane · 02-15-2004, 09:43 PM

Ok Chad, tell her to visit us here on Chit Chat and we will all tell her how cool you are!

Seriously, I only wish you the best and I really know how difficult things can be at your age!

Yay Chad!

Hollow · 02-15-2004, 09:56 PM

i say become a nosexual like me. then you wont have to worry about anything.

EricIdlefan · 02-16-2004, 04:56 PM

I have had a crush on somebody for nearly five years but he is now married with kids!!

Chad22 · 02-16-2004, 06:35 PM

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Originally posted by EricIdlefan
I have had a crush on somebody for nearly five years but he is now married with kids!!

Thats...Not Making Me feel any better.

TVFactFan · 02-16-2004, 06:54 PM

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Originally posted by Captain Juke "N" Jive
Ok I Have a bit of a problem, And I Figured Maybe some of you can help. Ok...The past 7 years (Yes 7 Years) I Have had a crush on this girl. I Used to go to School with her and still see her around because her Mom is friends with Mine. We're not really close friends or anything but Shes generally Nice to me (Although In 5th and 6th Grade we tended to Be a little meaner to each other, I Liked her even than). Anyways, I Have never been able to bring Myself to tell her how i feel. Believe me, I Have planned to In My Head Millions and MILLIONS Of times and Even tryed to On a few occasions....But it just never comes out when shes around.

I Told my Mom about it just a few Months ago and she seemed surprised, And My Best friend has known about it for years but he always tells me theirs not much chance. She Has a boyfriend that i know about, But i still cant help But want to try. Shes always On My Mind and Im afraid if i dont say something soon i may never get anouther chance. Just the thought of That makes me feel Nautious and Thats not something i want to live with the rest of my life. What should i do?

Stop being a WUSS and get her phone number. BE A MAN!!!!!!

02-13-2004, 09:11 PM	#1
Chad22 Captain Juke N Jive Moderator Forum Addict Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Caribou, Maine Posts: 71,661	Love Advice Needed Ok I Have a bit of a problem, And I Figured Maybe some of you can help. Ok...The past 7 years (Yes 7 Years) I Have had a crush on this girl. I Used to go to School with her and still see her around because her Mom is friends with Mine. We're not really close friends or anything but Shes generally Nice to me (Although In 5th and 6th Grade we tended to Be a little meaner to each other, I Liked her even than). Anyways, I Have never been able to bring Myself to tell her how i feel. Believe me, I Have planned to In My Head Millions and MILLIONS Of times and Even tryed to On a few occasions....But it just never comes out when shes around. I Told my Mom about it just a few Months ago and she seemed surprised, And My Best friend has known about it for years but he always tells me theirs not much chance. She Has a boyfriend that i know about, But i still cant help But want to try. Shes always On My Mind and Im afraid if i dont say something soon i may never get anouther chance. Just the thought of That makes me feel Nautious and Thats not something i want to live with the rest of my life. What should i do?

02-13-2004, 09:28 PM	#3
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02-14-2004, 02:47 AM	#7
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02-14-2004, 04:37 AM	#8
phoebe7165 Pop Culture Goddess Forum Fanatic Join Date: Apr 15, 2003 Location: US of A - the country of "really bad music" lovers Posts: 11,600	Wow, a 7 year crush. I'll have to go with telling her, even if she has a boyfriend. At least she would know, and if she doesn't feel the same way, then at least you'd know. Do you really want to go through life pondering "What if?" With any luck, maybe things won't work out between her & her boyfriend.
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02-15-2004, 07:34 PM	#10
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02-13-2004, 09:13 PM	#2
Brian Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jun 23, 2001 Posts: 20,451	If I were you, I'd just tell her. I've done that with girls numerous times and I had no problems. It'll just keep bothering you until you get it out of your system. Trust me.

02-14-2004, 01:50 AM	#4
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	I agree with Brian and Vera. Simply tell her how you feel. I would take it slow at first...to see her reaction. Don't pour your heart out unless she seems interested in what you're telling her. Good luck and let us know how it turns out. You may be pleasantly surprised. She may feel the same way about you.

02-14-2004, 02:24 AM	#5
Krisalicious Archie FTW! Forum Veteran Join Date: Jun 27, 2001 Location: NJ Posts: 5,775	Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest. I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that. So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

02-15-2004, 09:43 PM	#11
Penny Lane Butter Pie Forum Icon Join Date: Jul 03, 2001 Location: Beneath the blue suburban skies Posts: 51,269	Ok Chad, tell her to visit us here on Chit Chat and we will all tell her how cool you are! Seriously, I only wish you the best and I really know how difficult things can be at your age! Yay Chad!
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02-15-2004, 09:56 PM	#12
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	i say become a nosexual like me. then you wont have to worry about anything.

02-16-2004, 04:56 PM	#13
EricIdlefan USA 250th! Forum Addict Join Date: Oct 12, 2003 Location: East TN Posts: 68,236	I have had a crush on somebody for nearly five years but he is now married with kids!!