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¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 10:55 PM

Ok so you all know Amanda is my best friend. Well, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me. Just like that. She wouldnt tell anyone either why she was mad at me. I just dont get it. I did nothing wrong- we had no fight. There were possibilities as to why (jealousy and some other lamo things that werent true) and I guess tonight her excuse was (to her mother) that she got 'sick' of me. WTF? I just dont understand. *explodes* I didnt do anything wrong!!

Suggestions?

Hollow · 02-03-2004, 11:01 PM

just confront her i guess. my friends hate me now and i dont know why, i'm just gonna stop hanging out with them.

robyrob · 02-03-2004, 11:02 PM

become a full-time STALKER

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 11:11 PM

Well.. I IM'd her now. Evidently she feels betrayed that everything she tells me, her family finds out. Umm.. ok? And she doesnt have any examples.

david&maddie4ever · 02-03-2004, 11:12 PM

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Originally posted by robyrob
become a full-time STALKER

Now, I don't know if this is the best thing to do, but it's what I'd do.

I'd sorta get in with another group of my friends. (My friends aren't all friends with each other.

) Then, just wait until Amanda comes around. That way, you'll have friends to hang out with while you wait.

My number one rule:

ALWAYS HAVE A FRIEND AVAILABLE.

When you get into situations like this, it makes things a lot easier.

~Lauren

Rhiannon · 02-03-2004, 11:12 PM

The best thing you can do is talk to her, not talk to your other friends because rumors will get started. I've had problems like this before and sometimes the case just is that people change; get over it. It really is frustrating though, especially when you have no clue as to why it happened.

Hollow · 02-03-2004, 11:15 PM

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Originally posted by robyrob
become a full-time STALKER

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Krisalicious · 02-03-2004, 11:21 PM

That's a tough one. I had a similar problem a long time ago with my best friend, she made me pretty mad/upset because she lied to me, and I knew she did, and at the time I asked her if she was lying and she said she wasn't. And we didn't talk for about a week. Then she felt bad and talked to me about it and I was still pretty mad at her after she apologized but eventually I got over it. So, I think that if this girl has been your best friend she might just tell you the way she was acting was only temporary and she'd apologize to you.

Or, if that doesn't happen, you should just talk to her, and if she doesn't want to listen you make her listen. If you've been best friends for however long you have, she should at least listen to your point of view. *shrug*

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 11:23 PM

Thanks guys!

Well, we're talking now.. Im trying to understand it all. Still dont understand what she's getting at. I mean, I got the silent treatment for a week for no real reason.

robyrob · 02-03-2004, 11:24 PM

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Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Thanks guys!

Well, we're talking now.. Im trying to understand it all. Still dont understand what she's getting at. I mean, I got the silent treatment for a week for no real reason.

just blame the whole misunderstanding on YOUR mom silly !

david&maddie4ever · 02-03-2004, 11:30 PM

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Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Thanks guys!

Well, we're talking now.. Im trying to understand it all. Still dont understand what she's getting at. I mean, I got the silent treatment for a week for no real reason.

Glad you're talking!

Yay!

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 11:36 PM

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Originally posted by robyrob
just blame the whole misunderstanding on YOUR mom silly !

Damn, I wish!

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by david&maddie4ever
Glad you're talking! Yay!

Thanks! Had I not broke the ice, we probably never would have for a long time.

From what Im getting from what shes saying, she never hated me or anything.. just felt like she couldnt come to me with her problems because Im not that type of person who talks about my personal problems. She felt betrayed.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 02-03-2004, 11:46 PM

Aww... Im gonna cry.

And I dont cry!!!

dawsongirl · 02-03-2004, 11:59 PM

My HS friends did that to me. I think they thought I was selfish or something. Who knows.

I have trouble keeping friends anyway.

02-03-2004, 10:55 PM	#1
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	WTF?! Im having a friend problem. . . Ok so you all know Amanda is my best friend. Well, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me. Just like that. She wouldnt tell anyone either why she was mad at me. I just dont get it. I did nothing wrong- we had no fight. There were possibilities as to why (jealousy and some other lamo things that werent true) and I guess tonight her excuse was (to her mother) that she got 'sick' of me. WTF? I just dont understand. explodes I didnt do anything wrong!! Suggestions?
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02-03-2004, 11:02 PM	#3
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02-03-2004, 11:12 PM	#6
Rhiannon oh, snap! Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jul 19, 2002 Location: middle of nowhere Posts: 11,097	The best thing you can do is talk to her, not talk to your other friends because rumors will get started. I've had problems like this before and sometimes the case just is that people change; get over it. It really is frustrating though, especially when you have no clue as to why it happened.
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02-03-2004, 11:01 PM	#2
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	just confront her i guess. my friends hate me now and i dont know why, i'm just gonna stop hanging out with them.

02-03-2004, 11:11 PM	#4
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	Well.. I IM'd her now. Evidently she feels betrayed that everything she tells me, her family finds out. Umm.. ok? And she doesnt have any examples.

02-03-2004, 11:21 PM	#8
Krisalicious Archie FTW! Forum Veteran Join Date: Jun 27, 2001 Location: NJ Posts: 5,775	That's a tough one. I had a similar problem a long time ago with my best friend, she made me pretty mad/upset because she lied to me, and I knew she did, and at the time I asked her if she was lying and she said she wasn't. And we didn't talk for about a week. Then she felt bad and talked to me about it and I was still pretty mad at her after she apologized but eventually I got over it. So, I think that if this girl has been your best friend she might just tell you the way she was acting was only temporary and she'd apologize to you. Or, if that doesn't happen, you should just talk to her, and if she doesn't want to listen you make her listen. If you've been best friends for however long you have, she should at least listen to your point of view. shrug

02-03-2004, 11:23 PM	#9
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	Thanks guys! Well, we're talking now.. Im trying to understand it all. Still dont understand what she's getting at. I mean, I got the silent treatment for a week for no real reason.

02-03-2004, 11:46 PM	#14
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	Aww... Im gonna cry. And I dont cry!!!

02-03-2004, 11:59 PM	#15
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	My HS friends did that to me. I think they thought I was selfish or something. Who knows. I have trouble keeping friends anyway.