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TVFactFan · 12-20-2003, 02:26 PM

MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS

Mr. Stefani · 12-20-2003, 02:43 PM

Well seeing how the majority of SO posters are teens, i'd say we'd be a little creeped out.

Mijada · 12-20-2003, 02:45 PM

Well I sometimes bring that up on first dates. I like to know if the guy wants the same things out of life that I want. I don't want to waste my time with someone who just wants to live together or doesn't like kids.

TVFactFan · 12-20-2003, 03:04 PM

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Originally posted by Nirvana
Well seeing how the majority of SO posters are teens, i'd say we'd be a little creeped out.

It was obvious that the post was directed at someone who is NOT A TEEN. 20 and over

mcgwirefan · 12-20-2003, 03:09 PM

I'm so glad I don't have to do the whole dating scene since I've been married longer than some of the kids on here are old.

I wouldn't think talking about marriage and kids on the first date would be too cool. We certainly didn't do it way back when. LOL That topic can wait until later; at least a month isn't too much time to invest in dating if he/she turns out to not be suited to you.

Mr. Stefani · 12-20-2003, 03:58 PM

I'm sure theres a "Dating For Dummies" book you can buy, Sitcom Analyzer.

Ewan's My Man · 12-20-2003, 04:43 PM

If someone were to mention kids to me on a first date, I'd be like, "subtle way to get me in bed..."

I'm 14, so OBVIOUSLY that topic wouldn't come up. I don't want kids...at all.

Nanny Fine · 12-20-2003, 04:56 PM

Wouldn't bother me. I'd like to know what someone's long term intentions in general might be. A lot of guys just want 1 thing and bolt. I may not be talking marriage that night but I'd like to know in the future if there are plans for something like family/kids. No sense in wasting my time.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 12-20-2003, 10:42 PM

Its one thing to be curious what theyre interests are, but if they have everything all planned out and stuff.. then I dont want to hear it.

Lady T · 12-20-2003, 11:48 PM

That would be a major turn off for me if a man brought up Marriage and Children on the first date......

Lady T · 12-21-2003, 12:07 AM

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Originally posted by Mrs. R.N.HARRIS
That would be a major turn off for me if a man brought up Marriage and Children on the first date......

my reason since I do not want any children in the future

spunkygirl · 12-21-2003, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by Nirvana
I'm sure theres a "Dating For Dummies" book you can buy, Sitcom Analyzer.

Hollow · 12-21-2003, 12:17 AM

i dont go on dates.. but that would turn me off

robyrob · 12-21-2003, 10:59 AM

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Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS

i dunno about turn-offs, but I would want to know if you are going out with someone who is married and/or has kids

12-20-2003, 02:26 PM	#1
TVFactFan Member Forum Junkie Join Date: Aug 17, 2002 Posts: 99,105	Who hates to hear about this on a FIRST DATE?? MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS

12-20-2003, 03:09 PM	#5
mcgwirefan Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Apr 03, 2003 Posts: 458	Seems like a "no-no" to me. I'm so glad I don't have to do the whole dating scene since I've been married longer than some of the kids on here are old. I wouldn't think talking about marriage and kids on the first date would be too cool. We certainly didn't do it way back when. LOL That topic can wait until later; at least a month isn't too much time to invest in dating if he/she turns out to not be suited to you.
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12-20-2003, 04:43 PM	#7
Ewan's My Man I'll Cover You Forum Veteran Join Date: Sep 29, 2001 Location: Beneath the opera house... Posts: 5,682	If someone were to mention kids to me on a first date, I'd be like, "subtle way to get me in bed..." I'm 14, so OBVIOUSLY that topic wouldn't come up. I don't want kids...at all.
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12-20-2003, 04:56 PM	#8
Nanny Fine Justine and Holden.. Senior Member Join Date: Jan 01, 2003 Location: Watching The Ellen Degeneres Show and luvin' it Posts: 2,852	Wouldn't bother me. I'd like to know what someone's long term intentions in general might be. A lot of guys just want 1 thing and bolt. I may not be talking marriage that night but I'd like to know in the future if there are plans for something like family/kids. No sense in wasting my time.
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12-20-2003, 10:42 PM	#9
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12-20-2003, 02:43 PM	#2
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	Well seeing how the majority of SO posters are teens, i'd say we'd be a little creeped out.

12-20-2003, 02:45 PM	#3
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	Well I sometimes bring that up on first dates. I like to know if the guy wants the same things out of life that I want. I don't want to waste my time with someone who just wants to live together or doesn't like kids.

12-20-2003, 03:58 PM	#6
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	I'm sure theres a "Dating For Dummies" book you can buy, Sitcom Analyzer.

12-20-2003, 11:48 PM	#10
Lady T Member Forum Star Join Date: Apr 20, 2003 Posts: 17,361	That would be a major turn off for me if a man brought up Marriage and Children on the first date......

12-21-2003, 12:17 AM	#13
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	i dont go on dates.. but that would turn me off