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.:Illusion:. · 11-26-2003, 07:32 PM

So for over a week now, my boyfriend hasn't talked to me, looked at me, or noticed me. I wrote him a note asking him about this about a week ago, and for all i know he hasn't LOOKED at it. Can someone give me advice as to what to do about this? I don't want the answer "Dump him b/c he doesn't notice you, therefore it's not worth your time" b/c I haven't been going out w/ him very long and I still like him.

Thanks for the advice.

Mr. Stefani · 11-26-2003, 07:36 PM

I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?

DianeChambers87 · 11-26-2003, 07:39 PM

Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card

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Mijada · 11-26-2003, 07:42 PM

Just walk up to him and ask what's going on. Since you haven't been seeing him that long you shouldn't let this bother you too much. He doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend anyway. Take DianeChambers advice. School is more important.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 11-26-2003, 07:47 PM

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Originally posted by DianeChambers87
Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card .

I agree...you don't need a boyfriend when you're still a kid...

Babes_Cat · 11-26-2003, 07:58 PM

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Originally posted by Nirvana
I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?

Hollow · 11-26-2003, 08:27 PM

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Originally posted by Nirvana
I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?

see what watching lizzie mcguire can do to you?

thank god i never went to a "middle" school with people whining about these kinds of things.

MonarC · 11-26-2003, 08:43 PM

You shouldn't have to chase after this guy. If a guy likes you he will be going after you. Maybe he just doesn't want to be your boy friend and is too much of a shy guy or a jerk to tell you this. Don't make yourself look foolish by obsessing over him. You should just try to concentrate on your school work. There will be pleanty of time for boys later.

good luck.

CheersChild4life · 11-26-2003, 08:47 PM

Boys suck and they are stupid they don't know how to treat weman! If he can't talk to you talk to him! Make him talk to you make him tell you whats going on!

MaydayMalonesGirl · 11-26-2003, 08:50 PM

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Originally posted by sArAh123¼
see what watching lizzie mcguire can do to you?

thank god i never went to a "middle" school with people whining about these kinds of things.

I do. It sucks

bandito · 11-26-2003, 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DianeChambers87
Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card .

Great advice! I agree 100%

CheersChild4life · 11-26-2003, 10:53 PM

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Originally posted by MaydayMalonesGirl
I do. It sucks

I do too it sux I used to whine about not having a boyfriend and I'm super ahsamed of myself! Now I think I don't need a guy all I need is friends I'm to young for them!

.:Illusion:. · 11-26-2003, 11:13 PM

Thanks, guys. You're right. School is more important than my b/f, and if he really likes me, he'll chase after me, not vise versa. He is kinda shy, NEVER a jerk. Maybe he's too shy to chase after me and admit how much he likes me (he's halfway there, I can reassure you of that), and that's okay. I like shy people anyway. Thanks a lot. I hope it works...

CheersChild4life · 11-26-2003, 11:15 PM

So what are you gunna do?

fr00ti · 11-26-2003, 11:22 PM

OMG and b/f shouldn't be used in the same sentence.

11-26-2003, 07:32 PM	#1
.:Illusion:. The Weird One Forum Regular Join Date: Aug 16, 2003 Location: Don't look behind you... Posts: 503	OMG i need b/f advice can someone help me? So for over a week now, my boyfriend hasn't talked to me, looked at me, or noticed me. I wrote him a note asking him about this about a week ago, and for all i know he hasn't LOOKED at it. Can someone give me advice as to what to do about this? I don't want the answer "Dump him b/c he doesn't notice you, therefore it's not worth your time" b/c I haven't been going out w/ him very long and I still like him. Thanks for the advice.
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11-26-2003, 07:39 PM	#3
DianeChambers87 Elizabeth B. Malone Forum Veteran Join Date: Feb 16, 2003 Location: Swampland USA Posts: 5,178	Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card .
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11-26-2003, 11:22 PM	#15
fr00ti Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 16, 2002 Posts: 12,846	OMG and b/f shouldn't be used in the same sentence.
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11-26-2003, 07:36 PM	#2
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?

11-26-2003, 07:42 PM	#4
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	Just walk up to him and ask what's going on. Since you haven't been seeing him that long you shouldn't let this bother you too much. He doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend anyway. Take DianeChambers advice. School is more important.

11-26-2003, 08:43 PM	#8
MonarC The truth will set you free Forum Fanatic Join Date: Dec 05, 2002 Location: 3rd Stone From The Sun Posts: 9,525	You shouldn't have to chase after this guy. If a guy likes you he will be going after you. Maybe he just doesn't want to be your boy friend and is too much of a shy guy or a jerk to tell you this. Don't make yourself look foolish by obsessing over him. You should just try to concentrate on your school work. There will be pleanty of time for boys later. good luck.

11-26-2003, 08:47 PM	#9
CheersChild4life Absolutely Fabulous Senior Member Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Somwhere Fabulous Posts: 2,814	Boys suck and they are stupid they don't know how to treat weman! If he can't talk to you talk to him! Make him talk to you make him tell you whats going on!

11-26-2003, 11:13 PM	#13
.:Illusion:. The Weird One Forum Regular Join Date: Aug 16, 2003 Location: Don't look behind you... Posts: 503	Thanks, guys. You're right. School is more important than my b/f, and if he really likes me, he'll chase after me, not vise versa. He is kinda shy, NEVER a jerk. Maybe he's too shy to chase after me and admit how much he likes me (he's halfway there, I can reassure you of that), and that's okay. I like shy people anyway. Thanks a lot. I hope it works...

11-26-2003, 11:15 PM	#14
CheersChild4life Absolutely Fabulous Senior Member Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Somwhere Fabulous Posts: 2,814	So what are you gunna do?