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isiahthomas · 05-02-2003, 08:39 AM

I swear man i try to deal with women the best way i can but most of the time they make me wanna slap them. I try to refrain from getting mad at them but i see why so many men beat their women cause women will cause u to do that if u let them. Their attitudes are like night & day. I just met this black woman who works at a bank. I talked to her yesterday & she seemed like she didn't wanna be bothered. I called her when she got off work yesterday & she told me she would call me back as soon as i got on the phone with her. What's that about? She never did call me back. I never believe a woman when they tell me they're gonna call me back. I'm gonna call her today one last time & if she acts like she doesn't wanna be bothered again, i'm gonna leave her alone. There's this other black woman i met who likes me but she's involved with another man who is her baby daddy. She doesn't really wanna be with him but she says she has to cause they have a daughter together. Is that a lame excuse or what? There's plenty of women out here who have kids & they're not with their baby fathers. If a man makes u unhappy, leave him. Just because u have a child with him doesn't mean u have to stay together. I don't talk to her anymore either cause she's wasting my time. She said she was gonna give me her cell number but whenever i ask for it, she can't seem to remember what it is. I deal with black women a lot but i think i'm gonna stop talkin to them period cause black women are a trip. White guys on here, if you've never dealt with a black woman before, don't start cause you'll wish u didn't. I see why a lot of black men are dating a lot of white girls today cause white girls seem easier to get along with & they seem cool to deal with. To be honest, i don't like dealing with women period cause they're a pain in the ass. If i don't talk to them, my peers will think i'm strange or gay which isn't the case at all. I love women especially black women but i get tired of the same old bulls**t. I could be alone for the rest of my life & it wouldn't bother me none if i hadn't had any sex for a long time. There's things that i like to do such as watching tv & movies, watching football & basketball, listening to rap music besides thinking about a woman so not having a girlfriend doesn't bother me. It bothers my father. I don't know why it should. I think women like guys who are quiet like myself cause it shows them that i'm not trying to make the first move & i'm pretending like i don't have a interest in them. Most women like guys who make the first move but a lot of women also like guys who don't approach them cause it makes a woman wonder whether that guy is interested in her or not.

Pitooey · 05-02-2003, 09:00 AM

Isiah - Do you have any sisters? I'm just wondering.

Some woman when they don't like a guy gently try to make excuses. If you phone that 1st gal today and she doesn't respond "Forget aboout it"! There are so many fish in the sea. Don't let one or two gals get you down.

As far as your father is concerned he only tells you things because he's your parent and wants the best for you. Parents don't want to see their children alone. They think like "If anything happens to me..... Isiah will be alone"... The best time of your life is "now" so have fun! He probably doesn't want you to stay home all the time. He wants you to live your life. If you see a gal you like "invite her to the movies." If she says "No" then you say "NEXT"....................

Pitooey · 05-02-2003, 09:04 AM

Oh and Isiah - When you talk about slapping them that's not a good thing you know......... That may be the problem. Be COOL....................

isiahthomas · 05-02-2003, 09:20 AM

No i don't have any sisters & i'm glad i don't. It's just my brother & i.

Tuesday Weld · 05-02-2003, 09:27 AM

You sound very bitter and intolerant.

isiahthomas · 05-02-2003, 09:54 AM

Please explain how i sound bitter & intolerant.

Pitooey · 05-02-2003, 09:54 AM

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Originally posted by isiahthomas
No i don't have any sisters & i'm glad i don't. It's just my brother & i.

The reason why I asked you this is..... Having grown up without sisters it would be harder for you to deal with a woman. My hubby didn't grow up with sisters so it's a constant struggle for him to understand me sometimes. After many years he may have it down packed... First off....... Woman go through many hormonal changes that men don't get. That's alot of the reason why they change their mind so often.

For you....... You have to keep your temper under control with them. Realize that they go through their changes and they are very sensitive and you'll be okay. Just keep that in mind. Also remember If you have a short Fuse............ No one will tolerate you........ least of all a Woman!

Tuesday Weld · 05-02-2003, 10:04 AM

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Originally posted by isiahthomas
Please explain how i sound bitter & intolerant.

You sound like you have a lot of bitter,hostile feelings towards women.When you talk about wanting to slap them,that's not good.Maybe the women can sense this and that's why they act this way towards you.

isiahthomas · 05-02-2003, 11:19 AM

I've never hit a woman in my life & i don't intend to. I've also never argued with a woman cause i don't believe in two people arguing about nothin & neither one's point is getting across. Pitooey that girl i told u about who works at the bank that i met, she returned my call last night after i left. I checked my caller id & saw she called so i guess that's a good thing but that means nothin really. If a girl calls u on her own, now that's a good thing.

Kristina · 05-02-2003, 11:47 AM

Then maybe you should start ****ing men.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 05-02-2003, 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Then maybe you should start ****ing men.

!!

How was Avril? I noticed your sign.!

Kristina · 05-02-2003, 11:53 AM

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Originally posted by •Shotz|NYC•

!!

How was Avril? I noticed your sign.!

She was awesome live. I posted my little story on the music board to a thread Brandon made.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 05-02-2003, 11:59 AM

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Originally posted by Avril Lavigne

She was awesome live. I posted my little story on the music board to a thread Brandon made.

Oh ok! Thats awesome!!

Mijada · 05-02-2003, 12:24 PM

I am a woman and I can understand some of the things you are saying but it is very difficult for some women to come right out and say what we feel. We don't want to hurt the guys feelings or anything by telling them we are not interested. Girls in general are raised to be nice and polite and considerate of others feelings more so than boys are. It seems to me that this woman sort of lead you on by saying she would call you. If she is not interested she should have told you but probably didn't want to make you mad or hurt your feelings.
As far as her not calling you when she said she would, I can't tell you how many guys have done that to me so it isn't just women who do things like that. Guys are just as guilty.

*PinkLady* · 05-02-2003, 01:01 PM

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Originally posted by vintagetvgirl
You sound very bitter and intolerant.

Yeah, I have to agree.

05-02-2003, 08:39 AM	#1
isiahthomas Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	Women Are Strange Species I swear man i try to deal with women the best way i can but most of the time they make me wanna slap them. I try to refrain from getting mad at them but i see why so many men beat their women cause women will cause u to do that if u let them. Their attitudes are like night & day. I just met this black woman who works at a bank. I talked to her yesterday & she seemed like she didn't wanna be bothered. I called her when she got off work yesterday & she told me she would call me back as soon as i got on the phone with her. What's that about? She never did call me back. I never believe a woman when they tell me they're gonna call me back. I'm gonna call her today one last time & if she acts like she doesn't wanna be bothered again, i'm gonna leave her alone. There's this other black woman i met who likes me but she's involved with another man who is her baby daddy. She doesn't really wanna be with him but she says she has to cause they have a daughter together. Is that a lame excuse or what? There's plenty of women out here who have kids & they're not with their baby fathers. If a man makes u unhappy, leave him. Just because u have a child with him doesn't mean u have to stay together. I don't talk to her anymore either cause she's wasting my time. She said she was gonna give me her cell number but whenever i ask for it, she can't seem to remember what it is. I deal with black women a lot but i think i'm gonna stop talkin to them period cause black women are a trip. White guys on here, if you've never dealt with a black woman before, don't start cause you'll wish u didn't. I see why a lot of black men are dating a lot of white girls today cause white girls seem easier to get along with & they seem cool to deal with. To be honest, i don't like dealing with women period cause they're a pain in the ass. If i don't talk to them, my peers will think i'm strange or gay which isn't the case at all. I love women especially black women but i get tired of the same old bulls**t. I could be alone for the rest of my life & it wouldn't bother me none if i hadn't had any sex for a long time. There's things that i like to do such as watching tv & movies, watching football & basketball, listening to rap music besides thinking about a woman so not having a girlfriend doesn't bother me. It bothers my father. I don't know why it should. I think women like guys who are quiet like myself cause it shows them that i'm not trying to make the first move & i'm pretending like i don't have a interest in them. Most women like guys who make the first move but a lot of women also like guys who don't approach them cause it makes a woman wonder whether that guy is interested in her or not.

05-02-2003, 09:00 AM	#2
Pitooey Member Forum Star Join Date: Feb 15, 2001 Location: Rocking in Transylvania. Posts: 15,042	Isiah - Do you have any sisters? I'm just wondering. Some woman when they don't like a guy gently try to make excuses. If you phone that 1st gal today and she doesn't respond "Forget aboout it"! There are so many fish in the sea. Don't let one or two gals get you down. As far as your father is concerned he only tells you things because he's your parent and wants the best for you. Parents don't want to see their children alone. They think like "If anything happens to me..... Isiah will be alone"... The best time of your life is "now" so have fun! He probably doesn't want you to stay home all the time. He wants you to live your life. If you see a gal you like "invite her to the movies." If she says "No" then you say "NEXT"....................
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05-02-2003, 09:27 AM	#5
Tuesday Weld I missed you all. hugs Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 02, 2003 Location: Having a great time. Posts: 22,285	You sound very bitter and intolerant.
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05-02-2003, 09:04 AM	#3
Pitooey Member Forum Star Join Date: Feb 15, 2001 Location: Rocking in Transylvania. Posts: 15,042	Oh and Isiah - When you talk about slapping them that's not a good thing you know......... That may be the problem. Be COOL....................

05-02-2003, 09:20 AM	#4
isiahthomas Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	No i don't have any sisters & i'm glad i don't. It's just my brother & i.

05-02-2003, 09:54 AM	#6
isiahthomas Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	Please explain how i sound bitter & intolerant.

05-02-2003, 11:19 AM	#9
isiahthomas Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	I've never hit a woman in my life & i don't intend to. I've also never argued with a woman cause i don't believe in two people arguing about nothin & neither one's point is getting across. Pitooey that girl i told u about who works at the bank that i met, she returned my call last night after i left. I checked my caller id & saw she called so i guess that's a good thing but that means nothin really. If a girl calls u on her own, now that's a good thing.

05-02-2003, 11:47 AM	#10
Kristina Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 27, 2001 Location: CaLiFoRnIa, UsA Posts: 8,890	Then maybe you should start ****ing men.

05-02-2003, 12:24 PM	#14
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	I am a woman and I can understand some of the things you are saying but it is very difficult for some women to come right out and say what we feel. We don't want to hurt the guys feelings or anything by telling them we are not interested. Girls in general are raised to be nice and polite and considerate of others feelings more so than boys are. It seems to me that this woman sort of lead you on by saying she would call you. If she is not interested she should have told you but probably didn't want to make you mad or hurt your feelings. As far as her not calling you when she said she would, I can't tell you how many guys have done that to me so it isn't just women who do things like that. Guys are just as guilty.