Unrequited Love

[Chocoholic]

Has anyone here loved someone, but that person didn't love you back, or vice versa?

I remember back in middle school, I had this huge crush on this kid, Jesse. He was such a funny guy and I was nice to him and even hinted a few times that I liked him. I later found out that he thought I was ugly and ******** I've had similar experiences since then. I feel that I'll never find a guy who loves me, that I'll die alone.

[Brandon]

there's a certain someone at my school who doesn't know that i love that person. i don't think that person loves me (unless if that person secretly loves me, like i secretly love that person)

[julian bozo]

There was a person in high school I really really cared about. I still have feelings for them, I just don't see us together though.

[Mossopp]

Originally posted by Snoopy
Has anyone here loved someone, but that person didn't love you back?

Yeah, everyone I've ever had feelings for! I dunno what's wrong with me - I keep falling for straight women!
Most of the time I don't really care - they're just crushes and I'm used to my feelings not being reciprocated. I think if a women actually did return my feelings I wouldn't believe her cos I'm so used to being ignored.

Originally posted by Snoopy
I feel that I'll never find a guy who loves me, that I'll die alone.

I feel like I'll probably be alone for the rest of my life aswell. I certainly have no hope of entering into a serious relationship while I'm still living at home with my parents.
Even when I move out and get a place of my own in the city I still can imagine myself with a girlfriend. I guess I'm just so accustomed to being alone I can't actually imagine anything else.

[Titania]

Originally posted by Snoopy
I feel that I'll never find a guy who loves me, that I'll die alone.

join the club sometimes i doubt anyone will be able to stand me long enough.
but as one of my friends tells me, "someday you'll find your scum" (not too comforting maybe, but it says it all..lol) and you will too.

Originally posted by Snoopy
Has anyone here loved someone, but that person didn't love you back, or vice versa?

with my friends it seems im constantly having one in love w/ me who i just like as a friend or wanting one to love me but instead i get to be the friend (or worse "one of the guys") who he talks about the girl he does like w/.

[ABlairican Pie]

Originally posted by Snoopy
Has anyone here loved someone, but that person didn't love you back, or vice versa?

I remember back in middle school, I had this huge crush on this kid, Jesse. He was such a funny guy and I was nice to him and even hinted a few times that I liked him. I later found out that he thought I was ugly and ******** I've had similar experiences since then. I feel that I'll never find a guy who loves me, that I'll die alone.

Gee, funny how the song "Creep" by Radiohead is on the radio right now...

That punk Jesse wasn't even worth the Doublemint gum stuck to your shoe. The hell with all of those dirtbags. You'll find that special someone.

Having said that, I'm still waiting...................it's been a looooooong while since I had that problem in junior high......

and I'm at the Big Four-Oh, now.... I wish I had learned to accept rejection and not let it cripple me in the pursuit of the Ever-Available Female...but it was just too traumatizing...

[Mysty Eyes]

Unrequited Love: My Life Story

I never seem to succeed at love. I'm 48 and still waiting. To top if all off, I recently met a man that I fell head-over-heals for, only to find out that he's gay!

Yep! My life story.

[*GoodMorningCalgary*]

Yeah a few times. one time I really liked this girl at school, Like ALOT and this crush lasted for over 2 years (I was pretty good friends with her at that time) and I wanted her to know so I got her a Boquet of Roses and I wrote her a poem and I left it on her door step. The next day I got a Note from her and she shut me down faster than a Mcdonalds in India. So from now on whenever I like her a girl I just don't bother anymore cause I know I'll get shut down.

[Liza]

I think it's happened to everyone at some point - that you've cared for someone and they didn't feel the same. But you can't dwell on it - so this person's not the one - there will be others. My friend who got married last summer gave me the advice: you'll never be happy with someone else until you're happy with yourself. I believe it.

I'm pretty happy with myself. 20 years old, single, havin' a grand old time. I've dated guys, but I don't think I'd say I've ever been *in love* before. As we say over here, Eines Tages kommt meinen Prinz.

[Kay Scarpetta]

Originally posted by Mossopp


Yeah, everyone I've ever had feelings for!

That's what's hapening to me now. I tell them I like them, and they all give me that bull***** of "Oh, well, you're a really good friend, but". Yeah.... but nothing. What makes it even worse? Half of them like my 'friend' in school, and she loves every minute of it. Screw them. I'm alone in everything else in life, I might as well be alone in love.

[DetectiveGriffin]

When I first started university i was infatuated with a premed student. Im not one to really have relationships, though. They dont interest me much at all. He was really smart and really handsome. He used to come to the microbiology lab when i was in class and i'd look at him for a minute. One day, he came in and announced he was getting married soon. I was really happy for him.
I think a lot of people feel like they will be alone "forever". I know i would rather be than to waste years of my life with someone who turns out not to be the one. Im just real skiddish about that kind of stuff, though. I bet most folks are. I dont just want a boyfriend - anybody can get one of those. I want to be thick as thieves with someone and have a good time. Ive had no luck finding someone as uptight as i am. <G>

[AnaheimPMWitch]

Heck I'm 30 and STILL looking for the right guy
I ALWAYS fall for guys that dont love me back or dont know I exsist its my special Gift I guess I guess someday My Handsome Prince will show up though

[Mossopp]

Originally posted by Liza
My friend who got married last summer gave me the advice: you'll never be happy with someone else until you're happy with yourself. I believe it.

My friend tells me that all the time aswell.
It's easy for her to say! She's out of the closet, has a girlfriend, loads of friends, great social life and her parents love her no matter what. I wish I was that lucky!
Yeah, she always says "You've got to be comfortable and love yourself before anyone else can love you, Lorna".
The sad thing is I don't think I ever will be comfortable with myself. Where does that leave me?

Originally posted by Miss Karly
That's what's hapening to me now. I tell them I like them, and they all give me that bull***** of "Oh, well, you're a really good friend, but". Yeah.... but nothing. What makes it even worse? Half of them like my 'friend' in school, and she loves every minute of it. Screw them. I'm alone in everything else in life, I might as well be alone in love.

Yeah - "I like you as a friend, but...." - possibly the 7 most painful words in the English language.
At least you have the guts to tell people that you like them Karly - I don't even have the balls to do that! It's more difficult when you're gay. Some women get extremely freaked out if they think another woman finds them attractive. I just try to hide my feelings for fear of upsetting the woman in question. I'd rather just be friends with her and have it go no further than have her freaked out by the thought of being around me and never want to see me again.

[Polniaczek033]

omg yes yes yes yes yes
2 many times 2 many times 2 many times

but dayum ****!! i am happy with the realationship i am in now, it is kewl ****!

[Georgia's on my Mind]

yeah, this would be my problem aswell... all the people i like i can never tell if they would want to go further in a relationship so i just stay as friends and it makes things less complicated... and usually the people who like me, i dont like at all....