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Rulie · 02-28-2003, 01:42 AM

Are there any Gay, lesbian or bisexual members on the board? I'm bisexual myself. I've yet to come out to my mother though. She'd probabaly disown me. lol.

pandora_spocks · 02-28-2003, 01:49 AM

Okay, I'll step up. I'm really pretty much struggling through lesbian or bi. Don't know exactly-my feelings change so freakin' much it's not even funny. Although, I did come out to my brother-he was the first one I told and then my mom. Both of them don't really care so thats good. My dad would kill me if he knew and I just came out to my cousin today. He seemed a little shocked. He reacted very strangely to the news more than my mom did.

I'm a little worried about him though because I'm really close to him and for some reason I think he sees me differently now. Oh well, what can you do?

Chocoholic · 02-28-2003, 01:49 AM

Yes, there are a few openly gay and bisexual members here. I think you'll find that many of us here are open-minded and welcoming when it comes to homosexuality

Unwanted Angel · 02-28-2003, 01:50 AM

I'm Bisexual (but don't tell no one

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pandora_spocks · 02-28-2003, 01:52 AM

Nice to know other people are too.

Rulie · 02-28-2003, 01:59 AM

Pandora I know how you feel. The hardest thing I've ever done is come out to people I care about. My friends were completely shocked because you really wouldn't ever suspect I was bi unless I told you. I'm sure you'll get up the courage to tell your dad, just like I will with my mom......eventually......when I'm in college......in another state.....miles and miles away.

Thanks Kristen.

Joyce I won't tell if you won't.

pandora_spocks · 02-28-2003, 02:02 AM

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Originally posted by Rulie
Pandora I know how you feel. The hardest thing I've ever done is come out to people I care about. My friends were completely shocked because you really wouldn't ever suspect I was bi unless I told you. I'm sure you'll get up the courage to tell your dad, just like I will with my mom......eventually......when I'm in college......in another state.....miles and miles away.

Well, I've said it plenty times in front of him guess it hasn't sunk it yet. But then again, it's not like he ever listens to me anyway. Of course, if my cousin go blabs to his dad and mom then i'm in some serious crap-well, not really, but if word gets back to my dad he'll either kill me or throw me out of the house. He's tried choking me before I was maybe 9 or 10. But it had nothing to do with sexual preference. He just hates me, case closed.

Janice · 02-28-2003, 02:04 AM

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Originally posted by pandora_spocks
Okay, I'll step up. I'm really pretty much struggling through lesbian or bi. Don't know exactly-my feelings change so freakin' much it's not even funny. Although, I did come out to my brother-he was the first one I told and then my mom. Both of them don't really care so thats good. My dad would kill me if he knew and I just came out to my cousin today. He seemed a little shocked. He reacted very strangely to the news more than my mom did.
I'm a little worried about him though because I'm really close to him and for some reason I think he sees me differently now. Oh well, what can you do?

I'm glad your mother and brother are accepting of the situation. Sooner of later, it might be a good idea to tell your father. He'll come around eventually.
My brother is gay. He's 33 now, but didn't come out until he was 25. He said it was the best thing he ever did. He was tired of living a lie. I swear he gets gayer and gayer everyday. Nobody could tell a few years ago, now he acts like Jack on Will & Grace, lol.
I truly wish you the best of luck. It's good you found the courage to reveal the truth because it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Unwanted Angel · 02-28-2003, 02:10 AM

My mom is getting suspicious because everytime i see a cute gurl or something and i F*ck up and say ohhh she's hot...My mom looks at me like i am a freak or sumthing...I'm afraid to tell her that i am bi.

pandora_spocks · 02-28-2003, 02:11 AM

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Originally posted by Janice

I'm glad your mother and brother are accepting of the situation. Sooner of later, it might be a good idea to tell your father. He'll come around eventually.
My brother is gay. He's 33 now, but didn't come out until he was 25. He said it was the best thing he ever did. He was tired of living a lie. I swear he gets gayer and gayer everyday. Nobody could tell a few years ago, now he acts like Jack on Will & Grace, lol.
I truly wish you the best of luck. It's good you found the courage to reveal the truth because it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah, I felt I've always knew, but never really dawned on me until the middle of 11th grade. Of course, I didn't tell my mom until I graduated and her mom was in the hospital and she was going on about this secret I know about her can't say what it is because I don't know who all reads this board, but anyway I told her right then and there. She said something like 'no?' and I said a serious 'yes' and she said, 'okay.' And that was it. My brother on the hand I told him maybe a month after I confirmed it. He said that he always suspected that I was. He knew before I did!

LucyFan · 02-28-2003, 02:12 AM

I have no clue what I am at the moment but one of my friends says I am "bi-curious".

Rulie · 02-28-2003, 02:12 AM

Are you serious? That sucks! He has no right to do that to you.
Maybe he knows but would rather live in denial than face the fact that you could be anything other than hetero.
My mom is kinda like that. I have this guy I'm dating (well sleeping with) and he used to come over all the time and hang out in my room. I'd even make comments just to see if she'd catch on but she never does. Or she has but just won't admit it to herself.
Anyways, I hope you can work things out with your dad, babe. Living closeted is the worst feeling in the world.

pandora_spocks · 02-28-2003, 02:13 AM

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Originally posted by Joyce Dewitt's#1 Fan
My mom is getting suspicious because everytime i see a cute gurl or something and i F*ck up and say ohhh she's hot...My mom looks at me like i am a freak or sumthing...I'm afraid to tell her that i am bi.

I'm lucky my mom is really supportive far from what I expected! Now, when she goes through old magazies like allure, etc. she gives me photos of celebrities that I like. The other day she found a nice pic of Angelina Jolie and gave that to me because she knows I'm a fan of Angie.

Faith · 02-28-2003, 03:01 AM

I am Bisexual... The only people that know about it are my friends, none of my family knows because I am pretty sure most would disown me..

Ian · 02-28-2003, 03:14 AM

I'm not gay, but I don't have a problem with anyone who is. As long as you're not an a$$hole, I'll be cool with you.

02-28-2003, 01:42 AM	#1
Rulie Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: My room Posts: 25	Any Gay Members? Are there any Gay, lesbian or bisexual members on the board? I'm bisexual myself. I've yet to come out to my mother though. She'd probabaly disown me. lol.
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02-28-2003, 01:49 AM	#2
pandora_spocks Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Nov 30, 2002 Posts: 21,532	Okay, I'll step up. I'm really pretty much struggling through lesbian or bi. Don't know exactly-my feelings change so freakin' much it's not even funny. Although, I did come out to my brother-he was the first one I told and then my mom. Both of them don't really care so thats good. My dad would kill me if he knew and I just came out to my cousin today. He seemed a little shocked. He reacted very strangely to the news more than my mom did. I'm a little worried about him though because I'm really close to him and for some reason I think he sees me differently now. Oh well, what can you do?

02-28-2003, 01:49 AM	#3
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	Yes, there are a few openly gay and bisexual members here. I think you'll find that many of us here are open-minded and welcoming when it comes to homosexuality

02-28-2003, 01:50 AM	#4
Unwanted Angel Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Dec 17, 2002 Posts: 12,658	I'm Bisexual (but don't tell no one )

02-28-2003, 01:52 AM	#5
pandora_spocks Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Nov 30, 2002 Posts: 21,532	Nice to know other people are too.

02-28-2003, 01:59 AM	#6
Rulie Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: My room Posts: 25	Pandora I know how you feel. The hardest thing I've ever done is come out to people I care about. My friends were completely shocked because you really wouldn't ever suspect I was bi unless I told you. I'm sure you'll get up the courage to tell your dad, just like I will with my mom......eventually......when I'm in college......in another state.....miles and miles away. Thanks Kristen. Joyce I won't tell if you won't.

02-28-2003, 02:10 AM	#9
Unwanted Angel Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Dec 17, 2002 Posts: 12,658	My mom is getting suspicious because everytime i see a cute gurl or something and i F*ck up and say ohhh she's hot...My mom looks at me like i am a freak or sumthing...I'm afraid to tell her that i am bi.

02-28-2003, 02:12 AM	#11
LucyFan Still Loving Lucy! Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 23, 2001 Location: In the Wonderful World of Lucy! Posts: 8,198	I have no clue what I am at the moment but one of my friends says I am "bi-curious".

02-28-2003, 03:01 AM	#14
Faith Internet Junkie Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 07, 2002 Location: HELL Posts: 9,879	I am Bisexual... The only people that know about it are my friends, none of my family knows because I am pretty sure most would disown me..

02-28-2003, 03:14 AM	#15
Ian Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 03, 2000 Posts: 1,235	I'm not gay, but I don't have a problem with anyone who is. As long as you're not an a$$hole, I'll be cool with you.