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FonzesLeatherJacket · 01-21-2003, 06:50 AM

I'm deeply sorry everyone for all my negetiveness, I really truely am. I'm deeply sorry to those I PM'ed too. I'm really just having some tough times, right now. I wish everyone would accept what I'm saying, and believe me. If I post negetively again you can yell at me all you want, and report me to TJ. But, please be considerate and understanding, and give me a chance. I'm really really just having rough times right now. Again I'm very very deeply sorry, and I just want peace between me, and you all and no more arguments. Please please please try to forgive me, believe me, and give me a chance to be positive. I'm going to try to get out and make some friends, and do more activities then maybe I'd be more positive and self-confident of myself and others. I just want to drop this whole thing, and forget about it. I may come back sometime if I have anything, to say about HD. But, for now I'm going to do other things. I know I apologize too much, but I just want you all to give me a chance to stop writing, negetive things. The thing that is important is that I'm sorry, and know I did wrong and have learned a lesson. I'm just so deeply sorry and please please please everyone, accept what I say, believe it, and give me a chance to stop being negetive. I'm just having some rough times now. But, I'll be ok don't worry. I just want peace, and all those wonderful things between us. If this apology is'nt good enough then, I'm sorry. I tried.

I'm going away now for awhile, and would more than appreciate everyone's understanding, kindness, and consideration. I'm sure you all are, wonderful people. Please give me a chance to stop being negetive, and don't be against me, please.

Barnabas1 · 01-21-2003, 08:46 AM

I accept your apology.

angelscott · 01-21-2003, 11:51 AM

Dear FLJ,

I haven't known you for very long, but I want to say hi and send you a bouquet of real white roses and easter lilies.

I also give you a sand dollar from Florida, a guardian angel feather to let you know someone loves you...

The strength to search your own soul and spirit even in yang incomprehensible....

The strength to face raw facts about people around you IRL/OL and including your own self...even if it hurts with the pain of two hundred and twenty millennia...

of all the people of all the past civilizations of this world and even in the fictional world...

The heart of a lion, the soul of a knight of the round table...

and a hug to make up for all lost time, 777 decades ago and 777 decades forward.

Read every book by a man called David Pelzer. I swear I recommend him to everyone in HDO.

May this prayer be sent to FLJ, wherever she may be. Amen.

Chad22 · 01-21-2003, 03:39 PM

Oh come on...We've already heard this 30 times! Yet you continue to send people PMs and turn on us again. Why dont you just make it easy on yourself and everyone and just leave? You've done this so many times i dont trust you.

White_Daisy · 01-21-2003, 03:41 PM

No comment

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 01-21-2003, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Oh come on...We've already heard this 30 times! Yet you continue to send people PMs and turn on us again. Why dont you just make it easy on yourself and everyone and just leave? You've done this so many times i dont trust you.

Ya. I was right... she PMd me this morning. I dont do her sob stories anymore.

Chad22 · 01-21-2003, 05:16 PM

Whatd she say this time?

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 01-21-2003, 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Whatd she say this time?

I deleted it.

LOl. But yea.. nothing we havent heard before.

Im sorry. I had a bad day. Youre my friend. Please forgive me. Ill be fine, dont worry. Blah blah blah.

Barnabas1 · 01-21-2003, 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

I deleted it. LOl. But yea.. nothing we havent heard before.

Im sorry. I had a bad day. Youre my friend. Please forgive me. Ill be fine, dont worry. Blah blah blah.

Poor girl, every day is a bad day.

Fonzie87 · 01-21-2003, 06:40 PM

This doesn't sound like something I want to be involved in, but I think what I have to say may help.

First off, FLJ, I have chacked back and seen some really 'not nice' posts of yours. Now I know I can be a pain in the a$$, but so far no one has ever been mad at me (or if they have they have never posted it) so I have no reason to believe they would get made and un-appreceative with you. One think I have noticed with your temper tantrums is that you get real mad at the fact that people don't reply to your posts, but thats not true. I have had many posts where no-one has replied, but on the other hand I have had lots of replys. It's the same with you. Sure, some don't get answered, but lots do. Anyways, instead of getting all upset (which you have done many times, and thats why no-one ever believes you anymore) I suggest you talk about your problems with either me or any other member on the board... and do so nicely. If we know the problem, we can help you. But, don't go around with an "I have a problem, I want help, I feel so useless" routine, I have seen people do that alot in the past. Instead, try and figure it out on your own, and if you really can't get through it, ask for help. And one last thing... no-one has ever back stabbed you, we have all stood behind you when you needed it.

Secondly, everyone else, I understand why you all are getting annoyed. I suggest we give another chance to work things through. I think FLJ has become part of the family here, and family members do have fights, and bothers, but they always work through it. I think, as I posted above, that we should try and talk to FLJ and get to understand the problem. Perhaps make a new thread for the topic? That way we can prevent things like this from happening in the future. Now, this is all under the promise that FLJ won't post any more of this kind of stuff, and that there will be no more PMs sent, unless there is a problem and she requires help. If FLJ does this again, I say fine, give up. But one more chance may do the trick if you all go by what I am trying to do.

Atleast, just consider what I said, and when you think about it, it makes sense. I know that I like FLJ, and I think it would be a shame to lose a friend when you can work it through and find a solution. Thanks.

CollegeGirl · 01-21-2003, 06:59 PM

Here's my two cents. Granted, they're not worth much, but I thought I'd share anyway.

This reminds me of an episode of Cheers (wrong show for this board, I know...but go with me for a second, if you will). Carla had a problem with her temper. She was a fiesty little woman with a huge mouth. Sure, she was a great person. She was actually one of my favorite characters on the show. But she couldn't control her temper and it got her into trouble. One day, she went off on a customer who got highly irrate and threatened to sue the bar if Sammy didn't fire her. Carla even apologized, but the apologies were of little use after the guy realized they weren't sincere. So, Carla had to take anger management classes and meet with a phsychologist. She had to work through her problem and show some real progress before the guy agreed to drop his grievance. She had to prove that she had actually changed.

FLJ, if you're reading this, you need to seek real help. I'm sure it must be difficult for you. Personally, I have nothing against you except the fact that you went off on some truly awesome people. Make an appointment with a reputable psychologist. Work your problems out. Then, come back and prove that you're a nice person. I have confidence in you. I know that you will be able to come out on top of this whole thing if you want to.

angelscott · 01-21-2003, 11:23 PM

FLJ, I hope you're still listening...

Yes, like I told you...life don't need a reason, hon, it can lift you or leave you bleeding.

But just because life, by nature, can often really make like a Euro Pro Bagless Stick Shark by sucking like it's the apocalypse...well it doesn't mean the person who has it needs to give people, OL or offline, the wrong impression...which, I hate to give it to you raw, is what you've done w/most of these good folks.

But just hang on and wait, no matter how long it takes. Don't do anything drastic or dramatic...it'll bring you to ruin no matter how heavy-duty your Bagless Stick Shark may be.

Other good books to read:

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale
The Power of Positive Living by the same guy

Any book by SARK

I would not recommend any therapists or psychologists. They have been known to be very emotionally/verbally abusive and can work in reverse. A project I did a long time ago in school has shown that many can work in reverse,

It's like playing Russian Roulette, which is the last thing you want.

*gives FLJ the strength and courage of twenty lions to be her own therapist and be unashamed, and the endurance of the Starship Enterprise to take the pain of whatever she may find...to see hope and light...and be rebuilt to suit a brighter future.*

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 01-22-2003, 03:03 AM

I just thought Id share the PM she sent me LOl. Made me laugh..

Stormtracker TF · 01-22-2003, 03:05 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
I just thought Id share the PM she sent me LOl. Made me laugh..

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 01-22-2003, 03:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheFonz

LOl I know huh!! I mean.. shes serious about it! Thats what makes it so funny!!

01-21-2003, 06:50 AM	#1
FonzesLeatherJacket Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Nov 08, 2001 Location: In Milwaukee with my true love Richie Cunningham Posts: 239	Sorry for the last time I'm deeply sorry everyone for all my negetiveness, I really truely am. I'm deeply sorry to those I PM'ed too. I'm really just having some tough times, right now. I wish everyone would accept what I'm saying, and believe me. If I post negetively again you can yell at me all you want, and report me to TJ. But, please be considerate and understanding, and give me a chance. I'm really really just having rough times right now. Again I'm very very deeply sorry, and I just want peace between me, and you all and no more arguments. Please please please try to forgive me, believe me, and give me a chance to be positive. I'm going to try to get out and make some friends, and do more activities then maybe I'd be more positive and self-confident of myself and others. I just want to drop this whole thing, and forget about it. I may come back sometime if I have anything, to say about HD. But, for now I'm going to do other things. I know I apologize too much, but I just want you all to give me a chance to stop writing, negetive things. The thing that is important is that I'm sorry, and know I did wrong and have learned a lesson. I'm just so deeply sorry and please please please everyone, accept what I say, believe it, and give me a chance to stop being negetive. I'm just having some rough times now. But, I'll be ok don't worry. I just want peace, and all those wonderful things between us. If this apology is'nt good enough then, I'm sorry. I tried. I'm going away now for awhile, and would more than appreciate everyone's understanding, kindness, and consideration. I'm sure you all are, wonderful people. Please give me a chance to stop being negetive, and don't be against me, please.

01-21-2003, 08:46 AM	#2
Barnabas1 Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 01, 2001 Posts: 4,598	I accept your apology.
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01-21-2003, 11:51 AM	#3
angelscott Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Jan 18, 2003 Location: Milwaukee, Wi Posts: 30	Dear FLJ, I haven't known you for very long, but I want to say hi and send you a bouquet of real white roses and easter lilies. I also give you a sand dollar from Florida, a guardian angel feather to let you know someone loves you... The strength to search your own soul and spirit even in yang incomprehensible.... The strength to face raw facts about people around you IRL/OL and including your own self...even if it hurts with the pain of two hundred and twenty millennia... of all the people of all the past civilizations of this world and even in the fictional world... The heart of a lion, the soul of a knight of the round table... and a hug to make up for all lost time, 777 decades ago and 777 decades forward. Read every book by a man called David Pelzer. I swear I recommend him to everyone in HDO. May this prayer be sent to FLJ, wherever she may be. Amen.
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01-21-2003, 03:41 PM	#5
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01-21-2003, 06:40 PM	#10
Fonzie87 Avatar By: TheFonz Frequent Poster Join Date: Nov 14, 2002 Location: Workin On Irene... A 1970 Mercury Cougar XR7 Posts: 222	This doesn't sound like something I want to be involved in, but I think what I have to say may help. First off, FLJ, I have chacked back and seen some really 'not nice' posts of yours. Now I know I can be a pain in the a$$, but so far no one has ever been mad at me (or if they have they have never posted it) so I have no reason to believe they would get made and un-appreceative with you. One think I have noticed with your temper tantrums is that you get real mad at the fact that people don't reply to your posts, but thats not true. I have had many posts where no-one has replied, but on the other hand I have had lots of replys. It's the same with you. Sure, some don't get answered, but lots do. Anyways, instead of getting all upset (which you have done many times, and thats why no-one ever believes you anymore) I suggest you talk about your problems with either me or any other member on the board... and do so nicely. If we know the problem, we can help you. But, don't go around with an "I have a problem, I want help, I feel so useless" routine, I have seen people do that alot in the past. Instead, try and figure it out on your own, and if you really can't get through it, ask for help. And one last thing... no-one has ever back stabbed you, we have all stood behind you when you needed it. Secondly, everyone else, I understand why you all are getting annoyed. I suggest we give another chance to work things through. I think FLJ has become part of the family here, and family members do have fights, and bothers, but they always work through it. I think, as I posted above, that we should try and talk to FLJ and get to understand the problem. Perhaps make a new thread for the topic? That way we can prevent things like this from happening in the future. Now, this is all under the promise that FLJ won't post any more of this kind of stuff, and that there will be no more PMs sent, unless there is a problem and she requires help. If FLJ does this again, I say fine, give up. But one more chance may do the trick if you all go by what I am trying to do. Atleast, just consider what I said, and when you think about it, it makes sense. I know that I like FLJ, and I think it would be a shame to lose a friend when you can work it through and find a solution. Thanks.
	__________________ God Bless America __________________

01-21-2003, 03:39 PM	#4
Chad22 Captain Juke N Jive Moderator Forum Addict Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Caribou, Maine Posts: 71,661	Oh come on...We've already heard this 30 times! Yet you continue to send people PMs and turn on us again. Why dont you just make it easy on yourself and everyone and just leave? You've done this so many times i dont trust you.

01-21-2003, 05:16 PM	#7
Chad22 Captain Juke N Jive Moderator Forum Addict Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Caribou, Maine Posts: 71,661	Whatd she say this time?

01-21-2003, 06:59 PM	#11
CollegeGirl Spike Loves Buffy Senior Member Join Date: Nov 07, 2002 Location: Sunnydale: The Land of The Vamps, Monsters, And Things That Go Bump Posts: 1,517	Here's my two cents. Granted, they're not worth much, but I thought I'd share anyway. This reminds me of an episode of Cheers (wrong show for this board, I know...but go with me for a second, if you will). Carla had a problem with her temper. She was a fiesty little woman with a huge mouth. Sure, she was a great person. She was actually one of my favorite characters on the show. But she couldn't control her temper and it got her into trouble. One day, she went off on a customer who got highly irrate and threatened to sue the bar if Sammy didn't fire her. Carla even apologized, but the apologies were of little use after the guy realized they weren't sincere. So, Carla had to take anger management classes and meet with a phsychologist. She had to work through her problem and show some real progress before the guy agreed to drop his grievance. She had to prove that she had actually changed. FLJ, if you're reading this, you need to seek real help. I'm sure it must be difficult for you. Personally, I have nothing against you except the fact that you went off on some truly awesome people. Make an appointment with a reputable psychologist. Work your problems out. Then, come back and prove that you're a nice person. I have confidence in you. I know that you will be able to come out on top of this whole thing if you want to.

01-21-2003, 11:23 PM	#12
angelscott Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Jan 18, 2003 Location: Milwaukee, Wi Posts: 30	FLJ, I hope you're still listening... Yes, like I told you...life don't need a reason, hon, it can lift you or leave you bleeding. But just because life, by nature, can often really make like a Euro Pro Bagless Stick Shark by sucking like it's the apocalypse...well it doesn't mean the person who has it needs to give people, OL or offline, the wrong impression...which, I hate to give it to you raw, is what you've done w/most of these good folks. But just hang on and wait, no matter how long it takes. Don't do anything drastic or dramatic...it'll bring you to ruin no matter how heavy-duty your Bagless Stick Shark may be. Other good books to read: The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale The Power of Positive Living by the same guy Any book by SARK I would not recommend any therapists or psychologists. They have been known to be very emotionally/verbally abusive and can work in reverse. A project I did a long time ago in school has shown that many can work in reverse, It's like playing Russian Roulette, which is the last thing you want. gives FLJ the strength and courage of twenty lions to be her own therapist and be unashamed, and the endurance of the Starship Enterprise to take the pain of whatever she may find...to see hope and light...and be rebuilt to suit a brighter future.

01-22-2003, 03:03 AM	#13
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	I just thought Id share the PM she sent me LOl. Made me laugh.. Attached Images