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Janice Johnson · 05-25-2023, 04:39 PM

So, on a certain Website, I was being attacked by other Posters. I asked an Admin for help, expecting her to say something like,"You Posters attacking Janice Johnson really need to stop attacking her. She's upset and I don't blame her. I would be upset too if I were in her shoes." Instead she said something like,"Janice, suck it up and grow up, or I will ban you!"

I was stunned and even on a connecting Website, Posters were like,"How messed up is it that Janice Johnson asked an Admin for help and she replied,"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" She said this to Janice Johnson who is the VICTIM who asked her for help, NOT the Perpetrator(s) I feel so bad for Janice Johnson!" At least other Posters realized how incredibly messed up ME getting the threat of being banned was when I was the VICTIM!

Janice Johnson · 06-03-2023, 09:07 AM

On another Website where I also posted this, a Poster responded something like,"You whined to the Admin about being harassed by other Posters expecting the Admin to say something like,"You Posters need to stop harassing Janice Johnson," except she told you to suck it up and grow up or she would ban you." You were being immature and childish, whining to the Admin about Posters harassing you. I'm actually on the Admin's side for what she said to you. She's not your Kindergarten Teacher and you're not a five year old to be like,"Teacher, the other kids are bothering me! Please help me!" You're an Adult knocking on 40! You should have given back the harassing you got from the other Posters and given it harder, not go whine to the Admin for help." Other Posters were like,"Thank God I'm not the only one who was on the Admin's side and thought Janice Johnson was being immature in this situation, whining to an Admin as a damn near 40 adult instead of handling the harassing herself!"

Dude111 · 06-03-2023, 05:57 PM

Im sorry Janice,

Dont let them bother ya honey.... You were a better co-admin here than they have been reg members there!!

We love ya Janice!!

Janice Johnson · 06-03-2023, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Dude111

Im sorry Janice,

Dont let them bother ya honey.... You were a better co-admin here than they have been reg members there!!

We love ya Janice!!

Thanks for the warm words,

but I'm not Janice The Admin. I'm Janice Johnson, a regular Member.

Dude111 · 06-03-2023, 11:01 PM

Ah ok

Your still awesome!!

Janice Johnson · 06-04-2023, 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Dude111

Ah ok

Your still awesome!!

Thank you for your warm words!

biffbronson · 06-04-2023, 09:01 AM

There are so many websites out there, and unfortunately some are run by imbeciles and idiots. Failing to stand up for you when things are unfair is definitely bad treatment.

So if they're treating you badly it's their mistake, and when you leave, it's their loss.

Dude111 · 06-04-2023, 04:56 PM

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly........

If I was a real trouble maker I would understand why they are doing this but Im not..... I do the same thing there as I do here -- POST ON THE BASES!!

stevea · 06-04-2023, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Dude111

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly......

I'm not trying to start an argument, but they probably say "I can't believe this guy won't give up and realize we won't let him back on."

Janice Johnson · 06-04-2023, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Dude111

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly........

If I was a real trouble maker I would understand why they arre doing this but Im not..... I do the same thing there as I do here -- POST ON THE BASES!!

You have over 900 accounts on City Data?

That's a LOT of Email Accounts!

Janice Johnson · 06-04-2023, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by biffbronson

There are so many websites out there, and unfortunately some are run by imbeciles and idiots. Failing to stand up for you when things are unfair is definitely bad treatment.

So if they're treating you badly it's their mistake, and when you leave, it's their loss.

The Admin in my OP permanently banned me after I cussed her out in a one time fed up cussing rant after she harassed me one too many times. (She accused me of hijacking a thread yet said NOTHING to the Poster I was replying to and I finally went off on her after taking her harassing and insulting of me politely for three years ) A Poster said something like,"Janice Johnson, quick, delete that post!" I responded,"No, I'm sick of this!" The Poster responded something like,"Actually, Janice Johnson is right. The female Admin is incredibly mean to Janice Johnson and gets absolutely no consequences for.being incredibly mean to Janice Johnson." I was soon permanently banned.

The Head Admin upheld the permanent banning saying something like,"If I take Janice Johnson's side on this, the Female Admin will resign and she's been a Loyal Admin for me for years. I can't lose her for overriding Janice Johnson's permanent banning. I must uphold the permanent banning." Ironically, she soon ended up leaving him for the most part anyways and only sporadically visits and has gone like SIX months stretches without even visiting ONCE. I would have been much more loyal than she ended up being. I did apologize multiple times for the one time fed up cussing rant on connected Websites in hopes of being reinstated. The Head Admin told me to wish the Female Admin a Happy birthday.

WHY would I want to wish her a happy birthday? She treated me like trash for three years and then permanently banned me after a one time fed up cussing rant!

I wished her a happy birthday in hopes that the head Admin would override the permanent banning. He didn't and I felt used, played, and manipulated.

On another non connected Website, I mentioned being permanently banned from that Website and wanting to be let back. Posters responded something like,"Why are you so hellbent on wanting to be taken back on a Website that dumped YOU and not the other way around? You were treated like trash for three years and when you finally had enough and stood up for yourself, you were thrown out like yesterday's trash when at LEAST the Head Admin should have supported you and overrode overrode the permanent banning. At least the Poster pointed out that the Female Admin was incredibly mean to you with no consequences for being mean." Good points.

Dude111 · 06-05-2023, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Janice Johnson

You have over 900 accounts on City Data?

That's a LOT of Email Accounts!

Thank yuu honey....

Yes well if happend here Stevie,wouldnt you guys just stop blocking them?? (I mean ya see theres no point they come right back)

Janice Johnson · 06-05-2023, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Dude111

Thank yuu honey....

Yes well if happend here Stevie,wouldnt you guys just stop blocking them?? (I mean ya see theres no point they come right back)

Maybe they're trying to make an example out of you? Because if they had let you back after say the first 10 Accounts after your permanent banning, what's to say that other banned posters wouldn't just make a bunch of alternate Accounts and expect to be let back too like you were? It would set a dangerous precedent.

Speaking of making an example out of someone, I mentioned being banned at that Website for the one time fed up cussing rant and apologizing in hopes of being reinstated and am still permanently banned from that Website.

Posters were like,"Those Admins needed to make an example out of you. Had they let you back because you apologized for the one time fed up cussing rant, it could have easily set a dangerous precedent where Posters would cuss out admins , get banned, and apologize,and expect to be let back. They had to nip this in the bud by showing that cussing rants against Admins was a non revokable permanent banning offense."

Caroline13 · 06-05-2023, 01:46 PM

OP: First of all is another member using your UN?

What blows me away is when one gets thrown off a fourm for what THEY call spamming.

I presume when one is a member of a forum, they are posting info etc...and THEY continue with this spamming crappola.

TJ · 06-05-2023, 02:00 PM

If someone registers over 900 accounts, they really want to be there. Dude111 isn't a troll, but he should move on at some point. He's fighting a losing battle. They will never let him back on there unless they get a new owner/moderating team.

I would probably give up trying to block someone after five accounts if they tried to follow the rules and be a positive member. Thankfully it has never been an issue here.

05-25-2023, 04:39 PM	#1
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,740	"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" WTF? :O :/ So, on a certain Website, I was being attacked by other Posters. I asked an Admin for help, expecting her to say something like,"You Posters attacking Janice Johnson really need to stop attacking her. She's upset and I don't blame her. I would be upset too if I were in her shoes." Instead she said something like,"Janice, suck it up and grow up, or I will ban you!" I was stunned and even on a connecting Website, Posters were like,"How messed up is it that Janice Johnson asked an Admin for help and she replied,"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" She said this to Janice Johnson who is the VICTIM who asked her for help, NOT the Perpetrator(s) I feel so bad for Janice Johnson!" At least other Posters realized how incredibly messed up ME getting the threat of being banned was when I was the VICTIM!

06-04-2023, 04:56 PM	#8
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 37,165	Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly........ If I was a real trouble maker I would understand why they are doing this but Im not..... I do the same thing there as I do here -- POST ON THE BASES!!
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06-05-2023, 01:46 PM	#14
Caroline13 Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jan 30, 2021 Location: So Calif Posts: 14,483	OP: First of all is another member using your UN? What blows me away is when one gets thrown off a fourm for what THEY call spamming. I presume when one is a member of a forum, they are posting info etc...and THEY continue with this spamming crappola.
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06-03-2023, 09:07 AM	#2
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,740	On another Website where I also posted this, a Poster responded something like,"You whined to the Admin about being harassed by other Posters expecting the Admin to say something like,"You Posters need to stop harassing Janice Johnson," except she told you to suck it up and grow up or she would ban you." You were being immature and childish, whining to the Admin about Posters harassing you. I'm actually on the Admin's side for what she said to you. She's not your Kindergarten Teacher and you're not a five year old to be like,"Teacher, the other kids are bothering me! Please help me!" You're an Adult knocking on 40! You should have given back the harassing you got from the other Posters and given it harder, not go whine to the Admin for help." Other Posters were like,"Thank God I'm not the only one who was on the Admin's side and thought Janice Johnson was being immature in this situation, whining to an Admin as a damn near 40 adult instead of handling the harassing herself!"

06-03-2023, 05:57 PM	#3
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 37,165	Im sorry Janice, Dont let them bother ya honey.... You were a better co-admin here than they have been reg members there!! We love ya Janice!!

06-03-2023, 11:01 PM	#5
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 37,165	Ah ok Your still awesome!!

06-04-2023, 09:01 AM	#7
biffbronson Sentimental Fool Forum Star Join Date: Aug 22, 2009 Location: Near Notre Dame Posts: 10,622	There are so many websites out there, and unfortunately some are run by imbeciles and idiots. Failing to stand up for you when things are unfair is definitely bad treatment. So if they're treating you badly it's their mistake, and when you leave, it's their loss.

06-05-2023, 02:00 PM	#15
TJ Site Owner Administrator Forum Star Join Date: Feb 03, 2000 Location: Marietta, GA Posts: 10,781	If someone registers over 900 accounts, they really want to be there. Dude111 isn't a troll, but he should move on at some point. He's fighting a losing battle. They will never let him back on there unless they get a new owner/moderating team. I would probably give up trying to block someone after five accounts if they tried to follow the rules and be a positive member. Thankfully it has never been an issue here.