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Will and Grace Fanatic · 08-08-2002, 01:03 PM

Which episode do you think was the most sexist episode?

JaneTVFan · 08-08-2002, 01:16 PM

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Which episode do you think was the most sexist episode?

Job Switching.

dawsongirl · 08-08-2002, 03:46 PM

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Job Switching.

I agree.

Good topic BTW.

LucyFan · 08-08-2002, 09:59 PM

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Originally posted by JaneTVFan
Job Switching.

I agree too.

~LadyJess~ · 08-09-2002, 12:17 AM

I agree about Job Switching as well.

tdr · 08-09-2002, 01:41 AM

"Job Switching" was really just stereotypical, and it conveyed the message that-- among L,R,E, & F, anyway-- things are best if the men function in the business world and women stay domestic. That can be, but is not necessarily, sexist. After all, the fore(wo)man and the other female worker at the candy factory had no trouble doing their jobs; it was just Lucy and Ethel, who were new to it.

I think it was more 'sexist' in the ep where Lucy was surprised by that clown in her apartment, then later she did that routine she and Desi were already known for where she was the "professor" with the cello she couldn't play. In the tag scene she has baked a pie and is furiously dusting the apartment, then Ricky comes home and says he wants his wife to cook his meals, bring him his slippers (!), and be the mama for his children.

JaneTVFan · 08-09-2002, 02:54 PM

I was just coming back to change my vote from JOB SWITCHING to THE AUDITION, only to find your message here that you voted for that one yourself. Amazing! The tag scene in that episode makes me want to barf. How embarrassing to watch! It's so hard to listen to Lucy saying from now on, she's just going to cook for Ricky, clean his house, cook for him. It's so degrading. And I agree with what you write about JOB SWITCHING. You make a good point about the people in the chocolate factory who do their jobs well, including the person who runs the whole line, both being women. So I guess the message there is not that women can't do those jobs, just that Lucy and Ethel can't.

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"Job Switching" was really just stereotypical, and it conveyed the message that-- among L,R,E, & F, anyway-- things are best if the men function in the business world and women stay domestic. That can be, but is not necessarily, sexist. After all, the fore(wo)man and the other female worker at the candy factory had no trouble doing their jobs; it was just Lucy and Ethel, who were new to it.

I think it was more 'sexist' in the ep where Lucy was surprised by that clown in her apartment, then later she did that routine she and Desi were already known for where she was the "professor" with the cello she couldn't play. In the tag scene she has baked a pie and is furiously dusting the apartment, then Ricky comes home and says he wants his wife to cook his meals, bring him his slippers (!), and be the mama for his children.

dawsongirl · 08-09-2002, 05:47 PM

Good points about "The Audition!" I forgot about that one.

dawsongirl · 08-09-2002, 05:57 PM

How about "Be a Pal?" You know that part where the book tells her to be all glamorus for her husband in the morning? Yick.

dawsongirl · 08-09-2002, 06:03 PM

I just thought of another one. How about "Lucy's Schedule," where Ricky puts her on that damn schedule and makes her stick to it. That was just sick. Like he was all Mr. Perfect.

~LadyJess~ · 08-09-2002, 06:08 PM

OMG, I totally agree with you Dawsongirl about Lucy's Schedule. It's one thing for Ricky wanting her to be on time but putting her on that schedule and making sure she stuck to it was totally sick and wrong.

JaneTVFan · 08-09-2002, 06:54 PM

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How about "Be a Pal?" You know that part where the book tells her to be all glamorus for her husband in the morning? Yick.

LOL! I like that word, yick.

Doesn't that episode make you want to scream, "Lucy, why shouldn't Ricky dress up and be handsome and glamorous for YOU for a change, or take up some of the things YOU like to do?!"

JaneTVFan · 08-09-2002, 06:56 PM

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I just thought of another one. How about "Lucy's Schedule," where Ricky puts her on that damn schedule and makes her stick to it. That was just sick. Like he was all Mr. Perfect.

Oh yeah, that one's also pretty hard to take. Ricky acts like he's Lucy's MASTER. But at least she came to her senses after hearing that "trained seal" remark and then got her revenge.

cablejockey · 08-11-2002, 10:54 AM

I have found that just about every episode has some kind of sexist anti-equality stuff in it. How many times did Ricky turn Lucy over his knee for a spanking? How many episodes did Lucy answer "yes sir, or no sir" to her own husband. How about the many times she would say "Ricky's gonna kill me", and you knew there was some serious concern? But it was the 50s and wife abuse and inequlality were just a fact of life, and a source of amusement!!

JaneTVFan · 08-12-2002, 12:54 AM

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I have found that just about every episode has some kind of sexist anti-equality stuff in it. How many times did Ricky turn Lucy over his knee for a spanking?

Three. In each of those instances, it's clear to me that Ricky isn't really trying to hurt Lucy. That still doesn't make it funny to me because it looks rather demeaning. Of course, I'm looking at these scenes through 21st century eyes.

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How many episodes did Lucy answer "yes sir, or no sir" to her own husband.

Probably a hundred.

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How about the many times she would say "Ricky's gonna kill me", and you knew there was some serious concern? But it was the 50s and wife abuse and inequlality were just a fact of life, and a source of amusement!!

I'm not sure if I would go that far. Wife abuse in those days was NOT out in the open. I don't think people took it seriously because people really weren't aware it was going on or the extent to which it was going on. I don't think Lucy Ricardo every really thought Ricky would ever truly harm her, she was just exaggerating. Remember the "Blackeye" episode? The Mertzes thought Ricky had hit Lucy, but he never actually laid a hand on her, and Lucy was amused that they would even think such a thing. Actually, I find that episode a little disturbing to watch today because of that scene where Lucy is acting out the way Ricky supposedly beat her up. Lucy was doing this just for laughs, at Ethel's expense, and thought she was being funny. Obviously, the writers, producer, actors, and everyone else involved, including the studio audience, thought it funny. If people in those days had been aware that this was something that really did go on in some households, I doubt if they would have been laughing. And I doubt an episode like that could even be produced today because people now ARE aware of these things. So the bottom line: I don't think the people on this show were trivializing wife abuse, they were just unaware of the problem. And I certainly don't think the character of Ricky Ricardo was conceived as a person who beat his wife, no matter how much Lucy liked to imply he would do that.

By the way, let's not forget the EQUAL RIGHTS episode. If you pay close attention to some of the dialogue in that episode, including the title, it's really ahead of its time.

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08-09-2002, 01:41 AM	#6
tdr Member Senior Member Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Posts: 1,454	"Job Switching" was really just stereotypical, and it conveyed the message that-- among L,R,E, & F, anyway-- things are best if the men function in the business world and women stay domestic. That can be, but is not necessarily, sexist. After all, the fore(wo)man and the other female worker at the candy factory had no trouble doing their jobs; it was just Lucy and Ethel, who were new to it. I think it was more 'sexist' in the ep where Lucy was surprised by that clown in her apartment, then later she did that routine she and Desi were already known for where she was the "professor" with the cello she couldn't play. In the tag scene she has baked a pie and is furiously dusting the apartment, then Ricky comes home and says he wants his wife to cook his meals, bring him his slippers (!), and be the mama for his children.

08-09-2002, 05:47 PM	#8
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,128	Good points about "The Audition!" I forgot about that one.

08-09-2002, 05:57 PM	#9
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,128	How about "Be a Pal?" You know that part where the book tells her to be all glamorus for her husband in the morning? Yick.

08-09-2002, 06:03 PM	#10
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,128	I just thought of another one. How about "Lucy's Schedule," where Ricky puts her on that damn schedule and makes her stick to it. That was just sick. Like he was all Mr. Perfect.

08-09-2002, 06:08 PM	#11
~LadyJess~ Football Chick Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 15, 2002 Location: At the Shamrock doing shots with Mo Posts: 8,260	OMG, I totally agree with you Dawsongirl about Lucy's Schedule. It's one thing for Ricky wanting her to be on time but putting her on that schedule and making sure she stuck to it was totally sick and wrong.

08-11-2002, 10:54 AM	#14
cablejockey Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Dec 29, 2001 Location: ontario canada Posts: 478	I have found that just about every episode has some kind of sexist anti-equality stuff in it. How many times did Ricky turn Lucy over his knee for a spanking? How many episodes did Lucy answer "yes sir, or no sir" to her own husband. How about the many times she would say "Ricky's gonna kill me", and you knew there was some serious concern? But it was the 50s and wife abuse and inequlality were just a fact of life, and a source of amusement!!