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Janice Johnson · 11-10-2021, 09:45 PM

There is a Website that I USUALLY frequent. I decided to stop posting for a little while, and haven't posted in 8 days there…. Guess what? NO ONE on that Website asked where I was all these days. NO ONE. You'd think at least ONE person would ask about my 8 day so far disappearance, since I am usually a frequent Poster, bit NOBODY asked about me. I feel unloved there. ☹️

Foggy · 11-10-2021, 10:21 PM

I'm sorry you feel unloved but, 8 days isn't really that long of a time.
You shouldn't let things like that bother you.

On here, at the beginning of the year, I wasn't on for about 3 months
(I think it was from around the end of Feb. to the end of May)
I don't know if anyone even missed me, of course, it doesn't even matter!
I had a lot happen to me during that time.

My problem is, then and now, I just didn't have as much time to post like I once did.

Take care!

Janice Johnson · 11-10-2021, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Foggy

I'm sorry you feel unloved but, 8 days isn't really that long of a time.
You shouldn't let things like that bother you.

On here, at the beginning of the year, I wasn't on for about 3 months
(I think it was from around the end of Feb. to the end of May)
I don't know if anyone even missed me, of course, it doesn't even matter!
I had a lot happen to me during that time.

My problem is, then and now, I just didn't have as much time to post like I once did.

Take care!

Hmm. It's just that I am usually such an Active Member on that Website, you'd think at least one Person would raise their eyebrows at my 8;day disappearance. Someone else stopped posting for about TWO days, and a LOT of Posters were sounding the alarm and wondering what happened to him. Turns out he had a heart attack and was in ICU. Luckily he survived and came back even stronger.

Caroline13 · 11-10-2021, 10:56 PM

Last thing I look for is love on the forums. I've been on one forum for about 6 yrs and very active and when I would get infractions and be gone, my buddies would tell me people are asking about me. And some would even post on "where is she", the moderators would delete it fast as they didn't want others to give me credit.... I had a lot of friends on that group but a lot of nasty moderators that wanted me gone....

If you really enjoy the forum don't stay away too long. Is it a busy well rounded forum?

PhoenixAcres · 11-10-2021, 11:45 PM

I don't think 8 days is that long of a break to be honest. Around here people take much longer breaks and come back all the time.

And even if people aren't vocal about it, it's still possible your posts have a positive impact on someone.

ponytail · 11-11-2021, 06:12 AM

Don't let that bother you. Maybe some are wondering where you are but just haven't posted it.

GentlemanJim · 11-11-2021, 10:35 AM

I knew a guy once who committed suicide, and nobody thought to check on him until his landlord went to go find out why he was 2 months behind in his rent.

Point being, it's probably inadvisable to depend upon being "missed". Other people have their own priorities to worry about.
If you miss those other forums, then start participating again. If you don't like them, then don't. But your base premise with this thread has a "good-bye cruel world" aspect to it that's kinda concerning.

AMackII · 11-11-2021, 10:46 AM

Never Give Up, Janice and don’t feel hated because always other chance

Janice Johnson · 11-11-2021, 10:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GentlemanJim

I knew a guy once who committed suicide, and nobody thought to check on him until his landlord went to go find out why he was 2 months behind in his rent.

Point being, it's probably inadvisable to depend upon being "missed". Other people have their own priorities to worry about.
If you miss those other forums, then start participating again. If you don't like them, then don't. But your base premise with this thread has a "good-bye cruel world" aspect to it that's kinda concerning.

I'd never think of committing Suicide over a Website. I am just feeling kind of down that the Website didn't ask about my whereabouts after 8(Now 9) Thank you for your concern, it means a lot to me.

GentlemanJim · 11-11-2021, 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janice Johnson

I'd never think of committing Suicide over a Website. I am just feeling kind of down that the Website didn't ask about my whereabouts after 8(Now 9) Thank you for your concern, it means a lot to me.

What I was getting at, your decision to withdraw from this other web group, and then watch for what reaction your absence might provoke, had a distinctly "good bye cruel world" flavor to it.
As with suicidals who think "this will really teach them all a lesson" as they are jumping off the bridge.

Janice Johnson · 11-11-2021, 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GentlemanJim

What I was getting at, your decision to withdraw from this other web group, and then watch for what reaction your absence might provoke, had a distinctly "good bye cruel world" flavor to it.
As with suicidals who think "this will really teach them all a lesson" as they are jumping off the bridge.

I thought you were saying something like,"Please don't commit Suicide over this Website."

Dude111 · 11-11-2021, 04:26 PM

Im so sorry Janice,we love ya sweetie!!

Caroline13 · 11-11-2021, 05:36 PM

On this loved thing on forums, I know if I dropped out of sight here, I'd be missed but not much. Who would most attack if I was gone? ummmmmmmmmm

Janice Johnson · 11-12-2021, 01:22 AM

Thank all of you for the warm words of encouragement and support!

I really appreciate it!

Janice Johnson · 11-16-2021, 09:51 AM

I logged in yesterday to that Website, and saw I had a Private Message. I was thinking,"Okay, maybe this is someone showing concern for me and asking if I am okay." I clicked on my Private Messages, and... It was someone telling me how crappy their Rival is.

11-10-2021, 09:45 PM	#1
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,738	I feel unloved on a certain Website. :( There is a Website that I USUALLY frequent. I decided to stop posting for a little while, and haven't posted in 8 days there…. Guess what? NO ONE on that Website asked where I was all these days. NO ONE. You'd think at least ONE person would ask about my 8 day so far disappearance, since I am usually a frequent Poster, bit NOBODY asked about me. I feel unloved there. ☹️

11-10-2021, 10:56 PM	#4
Caroline13 Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jan 30, 2021 Location: So Calif Posts: 14,483	Last thing I look for is love on the forums. I've been on one forum for about 6 yrs and very active and when I would get infractions and be gone, my buddies would tell me people are asking about me. And some would even post on "where is she", the moderators would delete it fast as they didn't want others to give me credit.... I had a lot of friends on that group but a lot of nasty moderators that wanted me gone.... If you really enjoy the forum don't stay away too long. Is it a busy well rounded forum?
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11-11-2021, 06:12 AM	#6
ponytail Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 20, 2004 Location: In Happy, Healthy, Wealthyville Posts: 4,273	Don't let that bother you. Maybe some are wondering where you are but just haven't posted it.
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11-11-2021, 10:35 AM	#7
GentlemanJim Concerns, Support, & Feedback Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 26, 2019 Location: The back country Posts: 5,443	I knew a guy once who committed suicide, and nobody thought to check on him until his landlord went to go find out why he was 2 months behind in his rent. Point being, it's probably inadvisable to depend upon being "missed". Other people have their own priorities to worry about. If you miss those other forums, then start participating again. If you don't like them, then don't. But your base premise with this thread has a "good-bye cruel world" aspect to it that's kinda concerning.
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11-10-2021, 10:21 PM	#2
Foggy Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 20, 2014 Posts: 3,423	I'm sorry you feel unloved but, 8 days isn't really that long of a time. You shouldn't let things like that bother you. On here, at the beginning of the year, I wasn't on for about 3 months (I think it was from around the end of Feb. to the end of May) I don't know if anyone even missed me, of course, it doesn't even matter! I had a lot happen to me during that time. My problem is, then and now, I just didn't have as much time to post like I once did. Take care!

11-10-2021, 11:45 PM	#5
PhoenixAcres Member Moderator Forum Veteran Join Date: Jul 26, 2016 Location: United States Posts: 6,824	I don't think 8 days is that long of a break to be honest. Around here people take much longer breaks and come back all the time. And even if people aren't vocal about it, it's still possible your posts have a positive impact on someone.

11-11-2021, 10:46 AM	#8
AMackII Member Forum Star Join Date: Oct 23, 2015 Location: St. Louis Posts: 17,215	Never Give Up, Janice and don’t feel hated because always other chance

11-11-2021, 04:26 PM	#12
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 35,981	Im so sorry Janice,we love ya sweetie!!

11-11-2021, 05:36 PM	#13
Caroline13 Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jan 30, 2021 Location: So Calif Posts: 14,483	On this loved thing on forums, I know if I dropped out of sight here, I'd be missed but not much. Who would most attack if I was gone? ummmmmmmmmm

11-12-2021, 01:22 AM	#14
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,738	Thank all of you for the warm words of encouragement and support! I really appreciate it!

11-16-2021, 09:51 AM	#15
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,738	I logged in yesterday to that Website, and saw I had a Private Message. I was thinking,"Okay, maybe this is someone showing concern for me and asking if I am okay." I clicked on my Private Messages, and... It was someone telling me how crappy their Rival is.