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quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 04:34 AM

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TheCars1986 · 11-15-2019, 10:31 AM

All of this information has been discussed in other threads about the case.

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 10:51 AM

Every single piece of information I provided has been discussed all in one place? Because I have yet to see Larry Race's name in the same sentence as domestic violence.

Todd Mueller · 11-15-2019, 11:49 AM

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Because I have yet to see Larry Race's name in the same sentence as domestic violence.

Welcome to the board!

When people here said they firmly believe Larry killed his wife, I'm pretty sure that qualifies as domestic violence.

Your synopsis is cool and all, but like Cars said all of these points have been posted here before in other threads on Larry Race. Some still think he is innocent, many are on the fence, and many think he is guilty because of the holes in his story (no pun intended).

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 11:58 AM

I guess I wasn't aware that a full breakdown of a case in one concise place with the exact clarification that this case is domestic violence, would be so unwelcome on a message board about cases. My bad.

TheCars1986 · 11-15-2019, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by quabbityashwoods

I guess I wasn't aware that a full breakdown of a case in one concise place with the exact clarification that this case is domestic violence, would be so unwelcome on a message board about cases. My bad.

Despite Larry having multiple affairs on his wife, there has yet to be any information about this case involving domestic violence.

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 12:24 PM

Okay except for the evidence of emotional abuse & the fact that multiple affairs are abuse. This was an escalation of domestic violence.

TheCars1986 · 11-15-2019, 12:55 PM

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Okay except for the evidence of emotional abuse

There is no evidence of that.

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the fact that multiple affairs are abuse.

Equating affairs to domestic violence is absolutely absurd.

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 01:26 PM

The fact that you're getting so obviously upset at the suggestion that a man killed his wife because he escalated his violence against her makes me think you have no actual understanding of the dynamics of domestic violence.
Nonconsensually cheating over & over on your partner is abusive. Your personal issues with it are not my issue.

If I need to list my qualifications I will. But you clearly do not have the range for this conversation.

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 01:35 PM

If anyone is actually interested in learning about domestic violence & how abusers use infidelity to abuse their partners, check out this website on domestic violence:

https://breakthesilencedv.org/is-che...d-for-control/

Some key points:

If your partner strayed and you’re not sure if it’s an abusive tactic, then here are questions to consider:

• Does your partner call you derogatory names?
• Does your partner cheat on you and then insult you about your appearance, weight, or other physical factors?
• Does your partner regularly cheat on you and blame you as the reason causing their behavior?

Todd Mueller · 11-15-2019, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by quabbityashwoods

The fact that you're getting so obviously upset at the suggestion that a man killed his wife because he escalated his violence against her makes me think you have no actual understanding of the dynamics of domestic violence.
Nonconsensually cheating over & over on your partner is abusive. Your personal issues with it are not my issue.

If I need to list my qualifications I will. But you clearly do not have the range for this conversation.

Larry was a total a-hole and he was a scumbag for how he continued to cheat on his wife and talk poorly about her. He should have worked on their issues or simply left her and got a divorce. But he didn't.

I think he killed his wife because I think the evidence shows that. However, I don't think the evidence shows that he was ever physically abusive to her before this. I'm not discounting neglect or possible mental abuse, however there is nothing to show this was an escalation of physical violence.

If you have qualifications in this area, great -- I'd be happy to hear about them. At the end of the day, I don't think it matters if it was escalating or not if he killed her. Domestic abuse is horrible and is far too common. There are many examples of it on UM and most are way more clear cut than this.

This board is here to discuss the UM cases and theories and opinions on them. Honest question: are you here to discuss cases, or are you here to push an agenda for your Twitter page/podcast? We're always happy to have new people here to discuss UM cases but you seem to have an agenda here on domestic violence. That is just an honest observation based on your posts. That is a noble cause but I'm not sure how it relates to what is discussed here or how it is applied in this case.

Cheers.

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 02:43 PM

The reason I mentioned my twitter account was to explain why I was doing all of this research on a supposedly random case & to invite people who share a similar interest to join me.

I never said he was physically abusive, I said there is evidence of mental abuse. Any kind of abuse can escalate to physical violence, regardless if there was any physical abuse to begin with.

How is the motive of domestic violence not relevant to this case? How is pointing out cases of domestic violence "having an agenda"?

I'm honestly baffled by the pushback on this.

TheCars1986 · 11-15-2019, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Todd Mueller

Honest question: are you here to discuss cases, or are you here to push an agenda for your Twitter page/podcast?

I think it's the latter.

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I know it's not part of Unsolved Mysteries, but every once in awhile I stumble across something that mentions Aileen Wuornos & it makes me itch to write something defending her.

^ Real tweet from that account. Several other real winners.

TheCars1986 · 11-15-2019, 03:58 PM

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But you clearly do not have the range for this conversation.

Can I increase my range by repeatedly blaming white men as being "dangerous" and advocating for them to be profiled?

quabbityashwoods · 11-15-2019, 04:32 PM

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Can I increase my range by repeatedly blaming white men as being "dangerous" and advocating for them to be profiled?

Wow you're that uncomfortable with this topic dude? That's my twitter account, I didn't bring any of that over here. You did.
Nothing you're saying is negating any evidence I have brought up. I'm done engaging with you.

11-15-2019, 04:34 AM	#1
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11-15-2019, 10:31 AM	#2
TheCars1986 #VLSKMS Forum Fanatic Join Date: Nov 22, 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 8,606	All of this information has been discussed in other threads about the case.

11-15-2019, 10:51 AM	#3
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	Every single piece of information I provided has been discussed all in one place? Because I have yet to see Larry Race's name in the same sentence as domestic violence.

11-15-2019, 11:58 AM	#5
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	I guess I wasn't aware that a full breakdown of a case in one concise place with the exact clarification that this case is domestic violence, would be so unwelcome on a message board about cases. My bad.

11-15-2019, 12:24 PM	#7
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	Okay except for the evidence of emotional abuse & the fact that multiple affairs are abuse. This was an escalation of domestic violence.

11-15-2019, 01:26 PM	#9
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	The fact that you're getting so obviously upset at the suggestion that a man killed his wife because he escalated his violence against her makes me think you have no actual understanding of the dynamics of domestic violence. Nonconsensually cheating over & over on your partner is abusive. Your personal issues with it are not my issue. If I need to list my qualifications I will. But you clearly do not have the range for this conversation.

11-15-2019, 01:35 PM	#10
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	If anyone is actually interested in learning about domestic violence & how abusers use infidelity to abuse their partners, check out this website on domestic violence: https://breakthesilencedv.org/is-che...d-for-control/ Some key points: If your partner strayed and you’re not sure if it’s an abusive tactic, then here are questions to consider: • Does your partner call you derogatory names? • Does your partner cheat on you and then insult you about your appearance, weight, or other physical factors? • Does your partner regularly cheat on you and blame you as the reason causing their behavior?

11-15-2019, 02:43 PM	#12
quabbityashwoods Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Nov 12, 2019 Posts: 12	The reason I mentioned my twitter account was to explain why I was doing all of this research on a supposedly random case & to invite people who share a similar interest to join me. I never said he was physically abusive, I said there is evidence of mental abuse. Any kind of abuse can escalate to physical violence, regardless if there was any physical abuse to begin with. How is the motive of domestic violence not relevant to this case? How is pointing out cases of domestic violence "having an agenda"? I'm honestly baffled by the pushback on this.