My brother's girlfriend...how can anyone like her?

[MrCleveland]

As you know, It's been almost a month after my mom died. I miss her, my sister misses her, my dad misses her the most and he feels very empty right now since she was 2/3rds of his life, and in a way...my brother misses her. But...

... he's STILL with Yoko!

My friends at the church saw her and they think she dressed like a *****. And my dad told her to "shut up" after she bragged about getting married to my brother. My dad is STILL NOT 100% and never will be for the rest of his life because he lost his wife! And what does Yoko HAVE to talk about? Her getting married to my brother!

Isn't she being insensitive to my family? And I'm afraid they will get married because my brother is TOO blindly in love with her. So much...that I think she's a Succubus! I can't shake-off this death, I went to church yesterday and it made me sad because my mom isn't there...

[Furienna]

Yeah... We've had problems with my brother's fiancée too, because she won't take medication for her ADHD. She can be a mentally abusive bitch, or just plain bananas. So I can relate to your feelings about Yoko.

I'm sad to hear about you losing your mother, by the way. We lost my father four years ago, so I can relate to that too. Luckily though, that is when my brother's fiancée suddenly showed us a good side. She stood by him right at the moment when our father passed away.

[MrCleveland]

Originally Posted by Furienna

Yeah... We've had problems with my brother's fiancée too, because she won't take medication for her ADHD. She can be a mentally abusive bitch, or just plain bananas. So I can relate to your feelings about Yoko.

I'm sad to hear about you losing your mother, by the way. We lost my father four years ago, so I can relate to that too. Luckily though, that is when my brother's fiancée suddenly showed us a good side. She stood by him right at the moment when our father passed away.

Thanks for the sympathies.

Right now my brother's girlfriend is in the hospital. I hear she's on medication, is bi-polar, and an alcoholic.

The only way I can accept her as my sister-in-law is if he can help her.

[Furienna]

My brother is having problems with his fiancée again. He has recently switched jobs, so he could move with her (and her two youngest kids) to a new town and stop commuting (as it has been for a few years now, he has to live in one town during the weeks for work and in another town with his fiancée on the weekends). But as soon as he finds a house near his new job, she finds a way to complain about it. And yeah, it is true that she shouldn't have to live in a house that she doesn't like. But it seems like she now doesn't intend to leave her current home at all, despite the fact that she did agree to it earlier and my brother has to start at his new job in January. They are going to look at a house now though, so we can only hope that it will turn out well enough...

[MrCleveland]

I might as well face it...My brother is probably gonna marry her.

She caused a lot of trouble lately...On Christmas Eve, she was drunk and my sister didn't want her at her house. And on Christmas Day, she brought him back. And on Tuesday, she was missing.

If that was me, the relationship would be over. That's why I call her Yoko, she always has to be there.

[Furienna]

Did I mention that my brother's fiancée has eight kids from at least four previous relationships? Well, she does. And my brother has to support five of them, despite the fact that he's not the biological father to either of them! I won't say much about the two kids, who are still minors. Except that it should be their father's job to support them. But three of the five "dependants" are now grown men, but they still just refuse to get a job. They play video games all night and sleep day, and they do nothing around the house either. My brother has had to borrow money from our mother, because he couldn't afford being the sole bread-winner for seven people. But guess who the bitch will side with, if my brother want things to change?

And only the other day, my brother was having lunch with an old co-worker. The bitch managed to call him right then and yell at him over the phone. And she won't let him talk to us on the phone or visit us either!

But my brother has at least sold a house, where he used to let her sons live (without paying rent). So he will get some money coming in, so he can pay off his debt to Mum.

[MrCleveland]

Originally Posted by Furienna

Did I mention that my brother's fiancée has eight kids from at least four previous relationships? Well, she does. And my brother has to support five of them, despite the fact that he's not the biological father to either of them! I won't say much about the two kids, who are still minors. Except that it should be their father's job to support them. But three of the five "dependants" are now grown men, but they still just refuse to get a job. They play video games all night and sleep day, and they do nothing around the house either. My brother has had to borrow money from our mother, because he couldn't afford being the sole bread-winner for seven people. But guess who the bitch will side with, if my brother want things to change?

And only the other day, my brother was having lunch with an old co-worker. The bitch managed to call him right then and yell at him over the phone. And she won't let him talk to us on the phone or visit us either!

But my brother has at least sold a house, where he used to let her sons live (without paying rent). So he will get some money coming in, so he can pay off his debt to Mum.

No...Now I feel that my brother once he marries Yoko may have to take care of his own children or have my sister do it...Or me! I do want a family and I'd only have sex for reproduction purposes only. My brother is mixed with Yoko, but she HAS to be the center of attention! Also if they have children, they may have FAS.

Only reason why I relented having a family right now because if I do have children, they'll only have one set of grandparents if anything...