I'm trying to be a good friend but...

[Svenfan1234]

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[Babalu]

Butt out. It's her life.

You're not old enough to make important decisions for yourself, let alone someone else.

[Svenfan1234]

Originally Posted by Babalu

Butt out. It's her life.

You're not old enough to make important decisions for yourself, let alone someone else.

It's my friend's life. I like to think I have a right in caring in what she does and what she is. I don't want her to turn out like her mother. My friend's like my sister.

[Wawwie]

Originally Posted by Svenfan1234

So, I've had this friend, and she moved to my school when I was in 8th grade. I'm in 10th grade now and we get out on June 13th. My friend (I don't want to say her name on here because, you guys probably know why) always talked about moving from our school to another one, how she hated it and everybody in it except me and a few others, yadda yadda yadda. For a little more information, she moved last year to another school and lasted a week there. She always said she was going to do online school but never did it, and she stayed with her Dad apparently. See, I don't know her Dad so I don't really know if she did the right thing by moving, but he seems like a nice guy from what I've seen from his posts on Facebook.

Anyway, she moved last Wednesday I guess apparently at 4:00 by what she told me on Facebook messaging. With her Mom, who doesn't have custody of her. Her Mom and Dad are separated and her Dad's the one who has custody of her. I've told her constantly to come back because we're the ones here that truly know her, and know that she has special needs that online school wouldn't understand. So now she's going to a public school. Are they still going to understand? Probably. But I realize it's a crappy school here, but I've only got two years left so I don't really want to leave. I'm just worried she's not going to be truly happy but will do it only for the sake of her mother. I want her to be happy, and yesterday her Dad posted something on Facebook about her and her Mom and it got me wondering. What if she isn't happy? I want her to confide in me, because I'll always understand what she's going through, but she'll never tell me what's going on so I feel like I've always been left in the dark with her and she's told her other friends who she hasn't known as long as me and it just hurts my feelings that she does that.

I want her to tell me what's going on. I've already told her I'm always there if she needs to talk to me, but that's not really a big incentive to her to get her talking to me about stuff. I don't know what to do. I just want her so much to be happy, and me being selfish I want her to be here with me. I just ... I don't know. It's kind of been a hectic week without her.

Maybe she doesn't confide in you because you're the type of person who posts her business on the internet.

[Svenfan1234]

^she doesn't know I posted it. But we are very close and tell each other practically everything

[Wawwie]

Originally Posted by Svenfan1234

^she doesn't know I posted it. But we are very close and tell each other practically everything

But she does know what kind of person you are, and like I said before..... maybe she doesn't confide in you because she knows what type of person you are. Apparently, you are the type of person who posts someone else's personal business on the internet. Think about it. You might just want to let things be as they are.

[Svenfan1234]

^Maybe you should butt out. We r closer than u think and u don't know me so stay out.

[Wawwie]

Originally Posted by Svenfan1234

^Maybe you should butt out. We r closer than u think and u don't know me so stay out.

You are the one who posted this stuff on the internet for EVERYONE to see. So because you don't like what I say... you tell ME to butt out? Unbelievable! I would have nothing to butt into in the first place if not for YOUR post.

[Svenfan1234]

^Sorry. I don't even feel the same way as I did when I started this thread. Different day.

[opus]

This topic and its responses is Exhibit A in why I choose to never post anything (important) about my personal life on the internet.

[Svenfan1234]

I know. I would like to know how to delete it now.

[Allonand]

Originally Posted by opus

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Agree!! personal issues should not be discussed over the internet because we don't know if it will cause a good or worst result. it's like biting a chocolate, you don't know what will happen next. just an opinion.

[Flying Dutchman]

Originally Posted by Svenfan1234

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You may not want to read this, but here it is anyway. You may remind her too much of a bad place in her life. In my experience people will talk to people they feel comfortable talking to, if that person brings comfortable memories. All you can do is what you've been doing, let her know that you're there for her no matter what. You can't decide for her, she has to decide for herself. It's called free will, we were all born with it. And the other poster may be right too. She may not like that you post her business online. Some see that as a betrayal. And if you didn't want anyone's advice, why did you post this here in the first place? Wawwie is right. If you don't think you're going to like the answer, then don't post for an answer. That's the risk you take when posting, opposing views.