Was Darrin Justified in Not Allowing Sam to Use Her Powers? - Sitcoms Online Message Boards

dougiezerts · 01-21-2016, 09:57 PM

Or was he a dominant male who felt threatened about her being a witch?
My vote is for the latter!

caladon · 01-21-2016, 10:59 PM

I think you're right; of course Darrin was raised old school where the man provided for his family and the wife took care of the house and kids.

Discovering that his wife could have anything with just a wave of her hand; or in Samantha's case a twitch of her lip had the same effect as if he found out he had married rich. I imagine that's why he preferred Samantha to Sheila; he saw Samantha as a down to earth woman. Someone he could take care of; instead of Sheila, who in all likelihood would've eventually turned him into someone he's not and wouldn't like being. Insisting that Samantha cease all witchcraft was his way of affirming his position as head of the house.

Was he justified? From his point of view, he was. But, in reality he was not; he was stifling her natural abilities. He should have not been so restrictive in his "no witchcraft" mandate. He should've simply told her to resist the temptation to use her witchcraft for every situation. This seemed to be her actual intent, to learn to do things the "mortal" way.

dougiezerts · 02-02-2016, 08:03 PM

Granted she deceived him. But that's no excuse for him to totally forbid her from ever using witchcraft.
Besides, maybe she didn't tell him sooner because she was affraid of his reaction. And, as it turned out, that was completely justified!

tcr1701 · 02-10-2016, 10:54 AM

Dick York said his take on the role was that Darrin feared anyone finding out - and if they did he would lose Samantha. So that was how he played it. By the time Dick Sargent took over Darrin didn't seem to object as much unless it was something big (like getting him a promotion or something).

But the scriptwriters were more black and white about it - Darrin had to object because that was the premise of the show. Only occasionally did you see York's Darrin be okay with her using magic.

Adamantium · 10-14-2016, 01:45 PM

My favorite episode of the series deals with this. It's "A is for Aardvark" from the first season. Samantha isn't being forced into the no witchcraft lifestyle. It's what she wants as well. Which is evident in that episode.

Rookielove · 10-14-2016, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Alan Brady's Hair

Samantha deceived Darrin about her true nature, so Darrin certainly was justified in insisting that Samantha act in the way she had presented herself, as a mortal.

I agree with you. Good point.

Hazel Anyday · 10-14-2016, 10:03 PM

To answer the question, the definitive answer is YES. Whatever the man says the wife must obey without question. That's the secret to a happy marriage.

gidgetgrape · 10-14-2016, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Hazel Anyday

To answer the question, the definitive answer is YES. Whatever the man says the wife must obey without question. That's the secret to a happy marriage.

And a nervous breakdown.

01-21-2016, 09:57 PM	#1
dougiezerts Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Feb 20, 2012 Location: Silver Spring, MD Posts: 204	Was Darrin Justified in Not Allowing Sam to Use Her Powers? Or was he a dominant male who felt threatened about her being a witch? My vote is for the latter!

01-21-2016, 10:59 PM	#2
caladon Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 30, 2001 Location: Massachusetts state home for the bewildered Posts: 1,151	I think you're right; of course Darrin was raised old school where the man provided for his family and the wife took care of the house and kids. Discovering that his wife could have anything with just a wave of her hand; or in Samantha's case a twitch of her lip had the same effect as if he found out he had married rich. I imagine that's why he preferred Samantha to Sheila; he saw Samantha as a down to earth woman. Someone he could take care of; instead of Sheila, who in all likelihood would've eventually turned him into someone he's not and wouldn't like being. Insisting that Samantha cease all witchcraft was his way of affirming his position as head of the house. Was he justified? From his point of view, he was. But, in reality he was not; he was stifling her natural abilities. He should have not been so restrictive in his "no witchcraft" mandate. He should've simply told her to resist the temptation to use her witchcraft for every situation. This seemed to be her actual intent, to learn to do things the "mortal" way.
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10-14-2016, 10:03 PM	#7
Hazel Anyday Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 12, 2002 Posts: 2,135	Your Wish Is My Command To answer the question, the definitive answer is YES. Whatever the man says the wife must obey without question. That's the secret to a happy marriage.
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02-02-2016, 08:03 PM	#3
dougiezerts Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Feb 20, 2012 Location: Silver Spring, MD Posts: 204	Granted she deceived him. But that's no excuse for him to totally forbid her from ever using witchcraft. Besides, maybe she didn't tell him sooner because she was affraid of his reaction. And, as it turned out, that was completely justified!

02-10-2016, 10:54 AM	#4
tcr1701 Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Oct 22, 2012 Posts: 461	Dick York said his take on the role was that Darrin feared anyone finding out - and if they did he would lose Samantha. So that was how he played it. By the time Dick Sargent took over Darrin didn't seem to object as much unless it was something big (like getting him a promotion or something). But the scriptwriters were more black and white about it - Darrin had to object because that was the premise of the show. Only occasionally did you see York's Darrin be okay with her using magic.

10-14-2016, 01:45 PM	#5
Adamantium TVAdam No More Forum Veteran Join Date: Sep 11, 2002 Location: Springfield, Ohio Posts: 7,836	My favorite episode of the series deals with this. It's "A is for Aardvark" from the first season. Samantha isn't being forced into the no witchcraft lifestyle. It's what she wants as well. Which is evident in that episode.