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MrCleveland · 10-01-2015, 02:00 AM

They say that there's someone for someone, but I'm in my 30's and about to reach the mid-30's. It seems that there is no one for me. No one to pass my name on, no one to be around with, I'm meant to be miserable until Cleveland wins a Championship.

I might as well have an imaginary girlfriend...I even made a parody about it from BNL's "Alternative Girlfriend"...

It's called "Invisible Girlfriend"...

1-She plays drums in her Rock Band,
Works at the second-hand...store.
Her Parents are Italian-American.
She likes the Blue-collars,
Just like her own father.
I make ends meet all the best I can.
We're not getting young, we keep on getting old...
My love-life still on hold, so I have a solution.

Chorus-I have an Invisible Girlfriend.
I love her, though I'm playing pretend!
Asexuality is the higher order.

2-Tonight I made dinner for two,
It's Bolognese Ragu.
Looks like it's more pasta for me!
My life is such a bore,
Unlike my friends...I can't score.
I'll just get married in my dreams!
Too old to be young, too young to be old...
This towel's been thrown down like Issac Newton!

Chorus-So I have an Invisible Girlfriend.
I love her, though I'm playing pretend!
Asexuality is the higher order.

Bridge-She live in the 'burb of Garfield Heights,
She called me to see her tonight.
She has a U-haul and she can drive stick.
Now we can leave town lickety-split!

Chorus-So I have an Invisible Girlfriend.
I love her, though I'm playing pretend!
Asexuality is the higher order.

Am I doing something wrong?

Dude111 · 10-01-2015, 02:49 AM

I like being alone......... The world has become so messed up,i want nothing to do really with the programmed robots of today!!

DJM77 · 10-01-2015, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MrCleveland

They say that there's someone for someone, but I'm in my 30's and about to reach the mid-30's. It seems that there is no one for me. No one to pass my name on, no one to be around with, I'm meant to be miserable until Cleveland wins a Championship.

I know how difficult and frustrating it can be (I'm almost 38 and I'm still single) but you're too young to be giving up on love. I know of at least 2 guys who didn't find love until they were in their 50's. You'll be a lot more likely to find love if you don't give up.

MrCleveland · 10-01-2015, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by DJM77

I know how difficult and frustrating it can be (I'm almost 38 and I'm still single) but you're too young to be giving up on love. I know of at least 2 guys who didn't find love until they were in their 50's. You'll be a lot more likely to find love if you don't give up.

I tried the don't look for it, it will find you for years...it doesn't work!

I tried dating sites...they really don't work!

I even tried praying...that doesn't work either!

There is NO MsCleveland for me! God just wants me to be alone and miserable...I'm thinking of moving-out of my city...I've lost hope with this city as well as love!

Flying Dutchman · 10-01-2015, 10:26 AM

It's like Dude111 said. Programmed Robots. Society has programmed many people on the hunt for their so called quote-unquote perfect mate,to spot success and good looks. This is all many people care about anymore in America. And guess what? They are now being taught this same rule all over the world. Society is not as giving to someone who does not posses good looks and sometimes even money. I know loneliness feel horrible and even hurts when you see a beautiful couple enjoying their lives together. Or even when you just spot a good looking girl you wish you could date, who will most times just blow you off, and sometimes not even look at you.

And then there's Craigslist where you see an ad placed by another lonely person saying. "I am single and tired of the games. I am looking for a LTR (long term relationship) I am a real person and all I want is another real person to spend my life with. We can start out as friends and see where it goes from there"

Then you send your pic and a short story about yourself, and either they don't get back to you, or they turn out to be, many times, the exact person they said they wanted to avoid lol.

I date but I am alone sometimes too and I like it. Especially when I see the games people play with eachother, it makes me all the more content with loneliness.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc8vH1lQ8N8

Torgo · 10-01-2015, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by MrCleveland

I tried the don't look for it, it will find you for years...it doesn't work!

Worked for me, I pretty much had it in my mind I would never marry, and pretty much stopped going out on dates, then I met her. Now it's been 20 years of marriage and a daughter.

But I know people who have gotten married for the first time in their 40s and older.

Best advice I can give: You attract what you project.

mets82 · 10-01-2015, 04:53 PM

You know I'm not big on getting married and having kids. Too much responsibility etc. But congrats to those on here who are married. I'm 33 and I'm pretty much alone. I understand the robots part. Believe me there are times where I want to be alone, you know? Whether it be sports or wrestling or whatever. I dont want somebody to clingy. Although I would like to have somebody especially on all those romantic days like Valentines Day or New Year's Eve etc. I mean there has to be women who just want to date and not worry about getting married?? Right??

Torgo · 10-01-2015, 05:03 PM

Being married doesn't mean you do every single thing together 24/7. My wife and I have our own interests, hobbies, etc There's lots of movies we watch together, and there's lots of movies we watch separately because we don't like all of the same films. Same with TV shows.

Torgo · 10-01-2015, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

I actually love being single. And I do not think anyone should feel ashamed because they are not married or in a relationship. You can be involved with someone and still be miserable and feel lonely. I know my future husband is out there, and one of these days we will meet, but meanwhile I have having fun and enjoying life

And that's the best attitude to have, if you're miserable alone, being with someone isn't a guarantee you won't still be miserable. And like I said above you attract what you project

mets82 · 10-01-2015, 05:10 PM

Your right. I'd rather be single then be with somebody and be miserable. I mean isnt the point of trying to find somebody was that you dont want to be miserable?

Torgo · 10-01-2015, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

As I mentioned I know my future spouse is out there. I do have a positive attitude, life is too short to be cynical and pessimistic

Exactly.

shotzette · 10-01-2015, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

I actually love being single. And I do not think anyone should feel ashamed because they are not married or in a relationship. You can be involved with someone and still be miserable and feel lonely. I know my future husband is out there, and one of these days we will meet, but meanwhile I have having fun and enjoying life

This is probably the most intelligent paragraph that I have ever read on this site. There is so much ridiculous pressure to "couple" in our society, like you are somehow lacking if you are on your own. We make people feel like there is something wrong with them if they haven't found "the one". What a joke...

I'm married, but I enjoyed being single. Dating was fun! It was an adventure, and even a horrible date became funny when I described it to my girlfriends. I liked having time to myself and the lack of alone time is one of my few complaints about my marriage. I wish more people would value their successes (fulfilling careers and friendships) and backburner relationships.

MrCleveland · 10-02-2015, 05:38 AM

I do want to pass my name on and get married since I see most of my friends married.

But I'm afraid that my name will be buried alongside with my body. I can't see my brother passing on the name...I'm afraid it'll be dead when I'm dead!

I may just admit it that I should date disabled people since I am disabled myself (I have PDD-NOS).

1960'sTVfan · 10-08-2015, 10:31 AM

I'm done with friendships and relationships. I'm tired of encountering fake and phony people. Nowadays that's how most people are. Fake, phony, and into themselves.

There is no such thing as love. When someone says I love you, what they really mean is they love themselves, and they like something that they get from you. When that something is no longer provided, you can kiss that person goodbye, they are gone.

I've said this here before, and I'll say it again: "There are so many phony people in this world who will pretend to be your friend, and then abandon you." These words are 100 percent true, and will be my gospel from now on.

IllinoisTVFan · 10-08-2015, 02:23 PM

There isn't someone for everyone that is the reality. However, most people will marry. The problem becomes that as you get older you either have to settle or be alone. My story is that I refuse to settle and am fine being alone. However, I have a weird situation now where I'm interested in a male friend but right now he's a mess in the throes of dealing with addiction. He may never get out of it or will and not want to date. So I'm open to other people but only on my terms. For example, when I did online I talked to quite a few guys who lived far away. I told them that if they wanted to meet me they'd have to travel, not me. Why? because many years ago I did a LDR and no interest anymore. I figure if I can't find someone near me (I live about 1/2 hour from Chicago)then it's me. Not interested in traveling and being stuck spending a weekend with a guy I don't know. What if he's a murderer or rapist? So no traveling for me.

10-01-2015, 02:00 AM	#1
MrCleveland Drew Carey from Hell Forum Star Join Date: Nov 10, 2007 Location: The City of Cleveland, in The State of Cleveland, in The United States of Cleveland Posts: 14,222	I can't find love...I give up! They say that there's someone for someone, but I'm in my 30's and about to reach the mid-30's. It seems that there is no one for me. No one to pass my name on, no one to be around with, I'm meant to be miserable until Cleveland wins a Championship. I might as well have an imaginary girlfriend...I even made a parody about it from BNL's "Alternative Girlfriend"... It's called "Invisible Girlfriend"... 1-She plays drums in her Rock Band, Works at the second-hand...store. Her Parents are Italian-American. She likes the Blue-collars, Just like her own father. I make ends meet all the best I can. We're not getting young, we keep on getting old... My love-life still on hold, so I have a solution. Chorus-I have an Invisible Girlfriend. I love her, though I'm playing pretend! Asexuality is the higher order. 2-Tonight I made dinner for two, It's Bolognese Ragu. Looks like it's more pasta for me! My life is such a bore, Unlike my friends...I can't score. I'll just get married in my dreams! Too old to be young, too young to be old... This towel's been thrown down like Issac Newton! Chorus-So I have an Invisible Girlfriend. I love her, though I'm playing pretend! Asexuality is the higher order. Bridge-She live in the 'burb of Garfield Heights, She called me to see her tonight. She has a U-haul and she can drive stick. Now we can leave town lickety-split! Chorus-So I have an Invisible Girlfriend. I love her, though I'm playing pretend! Asexuality is the higher order. Am I doing something wrong?
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10-01-2015, 10:26 AM	#5
Flying Dutchman Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 16, 2004 Location: New York Posts: 1,266	It's like Dude111 said. Programmed Robots. Society has programmed many people on the hunt for their so called quote-unquote perfect mate,to spot success and good looks. This is all many people care about anymore in America. And guess what? They are now being taught this same rule all over the world. Society is not as giving to someone who does not posses good looks and sometimes even money. I know loneliness feel horrible and even hurts when you see a beautiful couple enjoying their lives together. Or even when you just spot a good looking girl you wish you could date, who will most times just blow you off, and sometimes not even look at you. And then there's Craigslist where you see an ad placed by another lonely person saying. "I am single and tired of the games. I am looking for a LTR (long term relationship) I am a real person and all I want is another real person to spend my life with. We can start out as friends and see where it goes from there" Then you send your pic and a short story about yourself, and either they don't get back to you, or they turn out to be, many times, the exact person they said they wanted to avoid lol. I date but I am alone sometimes too and I like it. Especially when I see the games people play with eachother, it makes me all the more content with loneliness. Here! Check this video out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc8vH1lQ8N8
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10-01-2015, 04:53 PM	#7
mets82 Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 14, 2011 Location: Connecticut Posts: 5,058	You know I'm not big on getting married and having kids. Too much responsibility etc. But congrats to those on here who are married. I'm 33 and I'm pretty much alone. I understand the robots part. Believe me there are times where I want to be alone, you know? Whether it be sports or wrestling or whatever. I dont want somebody to clingy. Although I would like to have somebody especially on all those romantic days like Valentines Day or New Year's Eve etc. I mean there has to be women who just want to date and not worry about getting married?? Right??
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10-01-2015, 02:49 AM	#2
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 35,963	I like being alone......... The world has become so messed up,i want nothing to do really with the programmed robots of today!!

10-01-2015, 05:03 PM	#8
Torgo Omaha & Fritz Forum Star Join Date: Mar 06, 2004 Location: Oregon Posts: 19,029	Being married doesn't mean you do every single thing together 24/7. My wife and I have our own interests, hobbies, etc There's lots of movies we watch together, and there's lots of movies we watch separately because we don't like all of the same films. Same with TV shows.

10-01-2015, 05:10 PM	#10
mets82 Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 14, 2011 Location: Connecticut Posts: 5,058	Your right. I'd rather be single then be with somebody and be miserable. I mean isnt the point of trying to find somebody was that you dont want to be miserable?

10-02-2015, 05:38 AM	#13
MrCleveland Drew Carey from Hell Forum Star Join Date: Nov 10, 2007 Location: The City of Cleveland, in The State of Cleveland, in The United States of Cleveland Posts: 14,222	I do want to pass my name on and get married since I see most of my friends married. But I'm afraid that my name will be buried alongside with my body. I can't see my brother passing on the name...I'm afraid it'll be dead when I'm dead! I may just admit it that I should date disabled people since I am disabled myself (I have PDD-NOS).

10-08-2015, 10:31 AM	#14
1960'sTVfan Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Sep 30, 2009 Posts: 6,081	I'm done with friendships and relationships. I'm tired of encountering fake and phony people. Nowadays that's how most people are. Fake, phony, and into themselves. There is no such thing as love. When someone says I love you, what they really mean is they love themselves, and they like something that they get from you. When that something is no longer provided, you can kiss that person goodbye, they are gone. I've said this here before, and I'll say it again: "There are so many phony people in this world who will pretend to be your friend, and then abandon you." These words are 100 percent true, and will be my gospel from now on.

10-08-2015, 02:23 PM	#15
IllinoisTVFan Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 22, 2011 Location: South of Chicago Posts: 4,072	There isn't someone for everyone that is the reality. However, most people will marry. The problem becomes that as you get older you either have to settle or be alone. My story is that I refuse to settle and am fine being alone. However, I have a weird situation now where I'm interested in a male friend but right now he's a mess in the throes of dealing with addiction. He may never get out of it or will and not want to date. So I'm open to other people but only on my terms. For example, when I did online I talked to quite a few guys who lived far away. I told them that if they wanted to meet me they'd have to travel, not me. Why? because many years ago I did a LDR and no interest anymore. I figure if I can't find someone near me (I live about 1/2 hour from Chicago)then it's me. Not interested in traveling and being stuck spending a weekend with a guy I don't know. What if he's a murderer or rapist? So no traveling for me.