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Anna · 03-29-2002, 01:14 PM

Has anyone been to Find a Grave lately? People are leaving horrible messages to Freddie, and I don`t understand why. Even in death he is still getting kicked in the face.

MariposaLKB · 03-29-2002, 01:52 PM

Anna, I go there quite often and I am very surprised those messages have not been removed. There have been others in the past and they have been removed promptly. I don't know how to ask the administrator of the site to remove them, or I would have already done that. What is really ironic about the batch in all capital letters is that, if you click on their "signatures", it turns out to be the same person writing all of them, and the last message he leaves is "R. I. P."!!! If he really wished Freddie peace he would not have posted such insensitive things about his talent, the circumstances of his death, or the future of his son!

I took your lead and left Freddie an Easter greeting--I hope more of us will do so and at least push those nasty messages farther down the list!

Here is the URL:

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=839

Cheryl Harrell · 03-29-2002, 07:29 PM

I agree! There are too many bad messages on there that shouldn't be. There is an old saying you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I have read some stuff on there that had me crying.

I figured the Easter messages were from some of ya'll. Hopefully the bad messages will stop soon. It just breaks my heart...

atlangel · 03-30-2002, 12:38 PM

It is very heartbreaking to see such terrible things written about someone that is so beloved. I too, had confidence that the Webmaster of the site would rapidly delete the negative messages. I hope that they will soon take care of this and restore the site to the honorary place it is intended to be.

I am baffled and hurt by anyone who would take their time out to be so mean. It is obvious that they have no concept or understanding of Freddie in the least. Perhaps, in time, they will thoroughly read this Board and many of the other fantastic websites that are dedicated to Freddie. Then they would learn what we here, have always known; That Freddie Prinze, Sr. was one of the most talented, sweet, kind, caring, and special individuals that ever lived. He had a heart that was sensitive and tender. Unfortunately, that heart was too often broken by people such as these who misunderstood and misjudged him.

It's alright now Baby. So many of us love you and always will, forever and a day.

FREDDIE FOREVER!!

Pitooey · 03-30-2002, 02:06 PM

I'm glad that we're sticking together and trying to fight off these nuts who bombard the website over there. I hate that. Those awful people should preach humility instead of evil.

Cheryl Harrell · 03-30-2002, 03:24 PM

I bet the webmaster over there is probably so busy they haven't been able to keep a notice over there to see whats up. They probnably need to be notified so they can remove the bad messages. They ought to put a message on the boards saying no hurtful messages allowed. The anonymous message asking those folks to please quit talking bad about our Prinze was posted by me. I hope that shuts them up! We love ya Freddie!

Anna · 03-30-2002, 06:15 PM

I hope they read that post of yours Cheryl and take heed,but unfortuately that may egg people like that hateful idiot on. I still don`t understand why all the hate toward Freddie. I guess I never will.

Cheryl Harrell · 03-31-2002, 07:24 AM

For some reason people think bad of him because he killed himself. If only they wouldn't judge. If they knew him like we do even tho we never met him they would be more understanding towards him. It makes me so sad to see him being put down. He is a sweet person I bet. I wish the world knew that...

Anna · 03-31-2002, 12:42 PM

I agree he was a sweetheart. I read on AOLs messge boards about the death of the Queen Mum, and the hateful things people were saying about her shocked me.

And what did that do? But cause the Brits to write hateful things back. Like you said Cheryl, if you can`t say anything nice, don`t say anything at all.

Karen64 · 04-01-2002, 12:12 AM

The rude messages to Freddie were probably the work of some drunk college kid with nothing better to do and probably didn't even hear of Freddie Sr until Freddie Jr got famous.....
And he's probably mad 'cause his girlfriends got a crush of Freddie Jr.!

bella66 · 04-01-2002, 02:22 AM

You said it Karen!! I totally agree!!!!

Anna · 04-01-2002, 01:18 PM

You may be right Karen, I hope he sobers up soon.

Pitooey · 04-01-2002, 01:18 PM

I agree with you both!!!!

Joy · 04-02-2002, 03:46 PM

I was at the find a grave site and posted a message for freddie using my real name ,and wishing him a happy easter.I read those nasty messages.how hurtful,but at least the good positive messages out number the bad

Anna · 04-02-2002, 04:28 PM

I hope Maria and JR don`t see those nasty messages.

03-29-2002, 01:14 PM	#1
Anna Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Indpls,Ind. U.S.A. Posts: 442	Find a Grave, hurtful messages Has anyone been to Find a Grave lately? People are leaving horrible messages to Freddie, and I don`t understand why. Even in death he is still getting kicked in the face.

03-29-2002, 01:52 PM	#2
MariposaLKB She flies alone Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 06, 2001 Location: The great unknown Posts: 3,436	Anna, I go there quite often and I am very surprised those messages have not been removed. There have been others in the past and they have been removed promptly. I don't know how to ask the administrator of the site to remove them, or I would have already done that. What is really ironic about the batch in all capital letters is that, if you click on their "signatures", it turns out to be the same person writing all of them, and the last message he leaves is "R. I. P."!!! If he really wished Freddie peace he would not have posted such insensitive things about his talent, the circumstances of his death, or the future of his son! I took your lead and left Freddie an Easter greeting--I hope more of us will do so and at least push those nasty messages farther down the list! Here is the URL: http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=839
	__________________ Within a cage Try to escape Her silent rage But no one ever listens... -Butterfly (Mariposa) Last edited by MariposaLKB; 03-29-2002 at 02:04 PM.

03-29-2002, 07:29 PM	#3
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	I agree! There are too many bad messages on there that shouldn't be. There is an old saying you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I have read some stuff on there that had me crying. I figured the Easter messages were from some of ya'll. Hopefully the bad messages will stop soon. It just breaks my heart...
	__________________ RIP darling Mike. I love you forever... You are with Freddie Prinze & Jesus now. 1951-2009 "Make it your way, who can beat the Lord, the Son of God. Dear Lord, help me be strong where I am weak, if it be your will"-- The Late Freddie Prinze Sr Last edited by Cheryl Harrell; 03-29-2002 at 07:30 PM.

03-30-2002, 02:06 PM	#5
Pitooey Member Forum Star Join Date: Feb 15, 2001 Location: Rocking in Transylvania. Posts: 15,042	I'm glad that we're sticking together and trying to fight off these nuts who bombard the website over there. I hate that. Those awful people should preach humility instead of evil.
	__________________ Pitooey... AKA JennyLee - I love the Monkees all over again! *SAY NO TO DRUGS* Jesus saves...

03-31-2002, 07:24 AM	#8
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	For some reason people think bad of him because he killed himself. If only they wouldn't judge. If they knew him like we do even tho we never met him they would be more understanding towards him. It makes me so sad to see him being put down. He is a sweet person I bet. I wish the world knew that...
	Last edited by Cheryl Harrell; 03-31-2002 at 07:25 AM.

03-30-2002, 12:38 PM	#4
atlangel Member Forum Regular Join Date: May 02, 2001 Location: Lawrenceville, GA, USA Posts: 523	It is very heartbreaking to see such terrible things written about someone that is so beloved. I too, had confidence that the Webmaster of the site would rapidly delete the negative messages. I hope that they will soon take care of this and restore the site to the honorary place it is intended to be. I am baffled and hurt by anyone who would take their time out to be so mean. It is obvious that they have no concept or understanding of Freddie in the least. Perhaps, in time, they will thoroughly read this Board and many of the other fantastic websites that are dedicated to Freddie. Then they would learn what we here, have always known; That Freddie Prinze, Sr. was one of the most talented, sweet, kind, caring, and special individuals that ever lived. He had a heart that was sensitive and tender. Unfortunately, that heart was too often broken by people such as these who misunderstood and misjudged him. It's alright now Baby. So many of us love you and always will, forever and a day. FREDDIE FOREVER!!

03-30-2002, 03:24 PM	#6
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	I bet the webmaster over there is probably so busy they haven't been able to keep a notice over there to see whats up. They probnably need to be notified so they can remove the bad messages. They ought to put a message on the boards saying no hurtful messages allowed. The anonymous message asking those folks to please quit talking bad about our Prinze was posted by me. I hope that shuts them up! We love ya Freddie!

03-30-2002, 06:15 PM	#7
Anna Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Indpls,Ind. U.S.A. Posts: 442	I hope they read that post of yours Cheryl and take heed,but unfortuately that may egg people like that hateful idiot on. I still don`t understand why all the hate toward Freddie. I guess I never will.

03-31-2002, 12:42 PM	#9
Anna Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Indpls,Ind. U.S.A. Posts: 442	I agree he was a sweetheart. I read on AOLs messge boards about the death of the Queen Mum, and the hateful things people were saying about her shocked me. And what did that do? But cause the Brits to write hateful things back. Like you said Cheryl, if you can`t say anything nice, don`t say anything at all.

04-01-2002, 12:12 AM	#10
Karen64 Comedy Fan Senior Member Join Date: Mar 24, 2001 Location: Kansas Posts: 1,412	The rude messages to Freddie were probably the work of some drunk college kid with nothing better to do and probably didn't even hear of Freddie Sr until Freddie Jr got famous..... And he's probably mad 'cause his girlfriends got a crush of Freddie Jr.!

04-01-2002, 02:22 AM	#11
bella66 Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Apr 03, 2001 Location: Illinois U.S. Posts: 227	You said it Karen!! I totally agree!!!!

04-01-2002, 01:18 PM	#12
Anna Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Indpls,Ind. U.S.A. Posts: 442	You may be right Karen, I hope he sobers up soon.

04-02-2002, 03:46 PM	#14
Joy Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 10, 2001 Location: In Mn lovin my DVD and the Prinze of comedy!!! Posts: 3,247	I was at the find a grave site and posted a message for freddie using my real name ,and wishing him a happy easter.I read those nasty messages.how hurtful,but at least the good positive messages out number the bad

04-02-2002, 04:28 PM	#15
Anna Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Indpls,Ind. U.S.A. Posts: 442	I hope Maria and JR don`t see those nasty messages.