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cleverfun3000 · 07-02-2015, 09:14 PM

It certainly is NOT for me. I am leaning more towards the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy when it comes to this subject. If I love a woman and have built a world with her; I am not going to trash it because of an occasional indiscretion. How hard would it be to replace someone who I get along with so well that we built a life together? Extremely hard. As long as she didn't love him and it was not a long-term thing, I can work on making our relationship into something lasting and an asset for BOTH of us.

Janice Johnson · 07-14-2015, 07:39 PM

Well, there is a big difference between a one time drunken kiss and a full on Sex affair...

70s show watcher · 07-14-2015, 07:48 PM

I don't think that I could ever really trust someone the same way again after I found out that they lied to me and/or cheated on me I mean if you don't want to be with me don't be with me but don't hurt me by lying and/or cheating

Wawwie · 07-14-2015, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by cleverfun3000

It certainly is NOT for me. I am leaning more towards the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy when it comes to this subject. If I love a woman and have built a world with her; I am not going to trash it because of an occasional indiscretion. How hard would it be to replace someone who I get along with so well that we built a life together? Extremely hard. As long as she didn't love him and it was not a long-term thing, I can work on making our relationship into something lasting and an asset for BOTH of us.

Would you feel differently if your woman was carrying on a long term love affair with another man who got her pregnant?

cleverfun3000 · 07-14-2015, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Wawwie

Would you feel differently if your woman was carrying on a long term love affair with another man who got her pregnant?

I would NEVER forgive the sick and twisted senerio you are describing but I would consider forgiving two or three indiscretions that meant sex and sex only. Nothing on-going or involved other than the natural all too human need for sexual gratification.

Wawwie · 07-14-2015, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by cleverfun3000

I would NEVER forgive the sick and twisted senerio you are describing but I would consider forgiving two or three indiscretions that meant sex and sex only. Nothing on-going or involved other than the natural all too human need for sexual gratification.

Why can't your woman get sexual gratification from you?
If you want to sell yourself short, that's your bag.

MickeyMac · 07-15-2015, 12:40 PM

Damn straight cheating is a deal breaker from me.

A woman cheats on me, we're through

Bonniegirl · 07-15-2015, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Wawwie

Why can't your woman get sexual gratification from you?
If you want to sell yourself short, that's your bag.

robyrob · 07-15-2015, 02:05 PM

if you want to have an open relationship that is one thing, but if you can't be honest about it you are definitely doing something wrong and perhaps you should reevaluate why you are even together in the first place.

Torgo · 07-15-2015, 02:36 PM

Deal breaker. A relationship is built on trust, if your partner is having to sneak around behind your back to get sexual gratification- then there is no trust, and obviously there is a problem in the bedroom.

Wawwie · 07-16-2015, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by cleverfun3000

It certainly is NOT for me. I am leaning more towards the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy when it comes to this subject.

You regret making this thread, don't you?

Bonniegirl · 07-16-2015, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Wawwie

You regret making this thread, don't you?

Wawwie, my hat goes off to you girl!

You say what I feel like saying ( but I hold my thoughts sometimes, I wish I were more ballsy) !

And I'm sure a lot of other posters think what you posted is accurate!

Wawwie · 07-16-2015, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonniegirl

Wawwie, my hat goes off to you girl!

You say what I feel like saying ( but I hold my thoughts sometimes, I wish I were more ballsy) !

And I'm sure a lot of other posters think what you posted is accurate!

HA HA! Thanks, Bonnie!

Personally, I think this thread is an embarrassment!

...don't get the gist of this thread at all.

Bonniegirl · 07-16-2015, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Wawwie

HA HA! Thanks, Bonnie!

Personally, I think this thread is an embarrassment!

...don't get the gist of this thread at all.

Well basically this guy seems to think that all women have to be model beautiful and under 40 to have any worth!

I don't think he has ever been in love or has/had any respect for women!

He'd be better off just getting a blow up doll!!! LOL !!! There I said it!!

WOW, OMG I can get ballsy sometimes huh?!!!

Wawwie · 07-16-2015, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonniegirl

Well basically this guy seems to think that all women have to be model beautiful and under 40 to have any worth!

I don't think he has ever been in love or has/had any respect for women!

He'd be better off just getting a blow up doll!!! LOL !!! There I said it!!

WOW, OMG I can get ballsy sometimes huh?!!!

^^^^ LOL!!!

If any guy told me that I had his permission to cheat, I would lose all respect for him and I would know that he didn't think much of me.

Yes, this "man" should get a robot or a blow up doll!

07-02-2015, 09:14 PM	#1
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07-15-2015, 02:05 PM	#9
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07-15-2015, 02:36 PM	#10
Torgo Omaha & Fritz Forum Star Join Date: Mar 06, 2004 Location: Oregon Posts: 19,025	Deal breaker. A relationship is built on trust, if your partner is having to sneak around behind your back to get sexual gratification- then there is no trust, and obviously there is a problem in the bedroom.
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07-14-2015, 07:39 PM	#2
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,738	Well, there is a big difference between a one time drunken kiss and a full on Sex affair...

07-14-2015, 07:48 PM	#3
70s show watcher Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 20, 2008 Location: between point place and studio 8 h Posts: 4,549	I don't think that I could ever really trust someone the same way again after I found out that they lied to me and/or cheated on me I mean if you don't want to be with me don't be with me but don't hurt me by lying and/or cheating

07-15-2015, 12:40 PM	#7
MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,004	Damn straight cheating is a deal breaker from me. A woman cheats on me, we're through