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It seems like every time I turn on CNN or come across a news article on the net or what have you, there is some horrific story about some idiotic parent(s) who leave their young child unattended in the car with the windows rolled up in the scorching heat, or some story about a horrifically abused child, or some other forum of child abuse going on. Many of them die, and the ones that live will have lasting scars, both physical and mental. The parents in these cases are often so self-absorbed that they don't care about anyone but themselves and view their children as a "burden" that just gets in the way of partying, having fun and whoring it up around town. It is really quite saddening to think that there are many people who are parents who have absolutely no business having children, while at the same time, many good potential parents that can't have children for various reasons.
I feel that parents that kill/abuse their child are some of the worst criminal acts, and the people that commit them are cowards. The children are often times completely defenseless towards the adult(s). Now of course, child abuse has always existed, but I just don't remember it being this frequent. So I pose the question: "is child abuse getting worse?" |
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I think it's far more difficult to keep reports of child abuse out of the national consciousness now that social media and news networks/agencies are closely linked in to one another now. All it takes is a few Facebook shares of a child-left-in-a-car story from an affiliate near a small town in Ohio (for example), and then it's on CNN tomorrow. There is evidence to suggest that rates of child abuse are actually decreasing rather than increasing. I tend to subscribe to the theory that when child abuse does happen and is reported, it immediately becomes news fodder--and news is shared much differently now than it was even ten years ago.
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These links help illustrate these points:http://www.kidsandcars.org/userfiles...roke-chart.pdf http://www.kidsandcars.org/userfiles...fact-sheet.pdf |
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http://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default...df_jan2010.pdf This is the Executive Summary of the latest (2010) National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect that the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is required to conduct each decade. There was an overall decrease in both abuse and neglect since the last NIS findings were published in 1993 (in which rates of abuse and neglect DID in fact increase since the NIS-2 in 1986). |
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Sorry for venting on this but I'm just damn sick & tired of reading about all these cases of abuse and neglect when my girlfriend and I can't have any kids. Adoption is something we've considered if we got married but I don't see that ever happening.
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The links I included actually give statistics for people who intentionally left their child in the car. I'm going to assume you're just passionate about this and didn't intend to sound harsh. You asked, I gave reasons and data. That's all. Some of them ARE tragic accidents. The guy in Georgia, however, stinks to high heaven. To me, the most compelling part is that he didn't try to pick his kid up from daycare nor did he smell anything when he got in his car. Even if Cooper hadn't died a horrific death, just his DIAPER would have smelled horrible from being in the car that long. The TRUE cases of accidentally forgetting a child in the car usually come on days when there is a change in routine. The human memory is flawed and we do more things on autopilot than we realize. |
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The one my mind always goes back to is one incident where a toddler tripped over a power-cord on the father's Xbox 360 (the kid probably walked into his "Man Cave", ugh) and unplugged the system.
As a result, the poor kid was killed by being thrown into the wall. Horrific. Look, I like video games, but come on. Get a grip. |
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With all due respect to everyone involved in this conversation, I feel that perceptions of increased rates of child abuse based on news reports is a classic example of the availability heuristic in action:
http://psychology.about.com/od/ainde...-heuristic.htm We all do this at some point or another. This certainly isn't anything personal, and it is absolutely not my intent to ridicule anyone. But we all make use of this heuristic quite frequently without realizing that we're doing it. Journalists are notorious for not only falling prey to it themselves, but for recognizing it in, and exploiting it among, their reader- or viewership (Nancy Grace is a good example of someone who often employs this in her reporting). The data Necco provided on child deaths in cars seems legitimate (although I would like to see information on the methodology of the data collection and analysis), but it doesn't necessarily equate to increased rates of child abuse or neglect. As she stated, a number of those incidents are accidental. Some of them aren't, like our illustrious Virginia College student here in Augusta a few weeks back (thank God the baby survived): http://www.growingyourbaby.com/2014/...or-50-minutes/ ...but that doesn't mean all of these incidents can be linked to abusive or neglectful parents intentionally attempting to inflict pain on their children, or acting with depraved indifference. |
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I wasn't positing that child abuse was on the rise. I was explaining why car deaths were which was one of the things wiseguy182 was venting about.
Most of those deaths are memory lapses. Serious props for using the word heuristic though, man, I just had psych 101 flashbacks.
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'Person-who' reasoning was another favorite of mine: "I know a guy who ate bacon three times a day and smoked like a chimney, and HE lived to be 90 years old and never had a heart attack, so hey, I'm good."
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I believe that child abuse is on the rise and have found numerous online articles to back up my beliefs. Too many to post.
I also don't believe that parents can forget their children are in a car. It's not like forgetting your walllet or purse at home, it's a human being. I noticed that a lot of Justin Harris's supporters are now quietly abadoning their support of him. I look forward to Justin Harris spending eternity in Hell where he'll find out what it's like to suffer in scorching heat. The wife is guilty as well. It's also shameful that many children are dying because of the new t.v.'s. I have never understood all the fuss about widescreen t.v. and am sick of people salivating over them. I don't view things in widescreen IRL and I don't care to on t.v. I also don't like those annoying black boxes at the top and bottom of the screen. Perfectly happy with my square t.v. Pretty much the only useful thing about widescreens is you can hang them on the wall. |
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