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Frump · 08-09-2013, 02:45 PM

Something I've noticed, it's not uncommun to see mean, snotty, vicious girls have a TON of friends who love being around her and who worship the ground she walks on, and they don't seem to mind that she treats them so badly, and it seems like the WORSE she treats her friends the more they love haning out with her.

BUT if a guy is a mean, viscious BRUT, he usually has no friends and ppl hate being around him and he's marked as a "jerk" or an "a__hole" and is usually ostrisized by everyone.

But mean girls seem to have no problem making and keeping friends.

Has anyone else noticed that? And why is that? It seems like mean would equal MEAN no matter who is acting that way.

Penny Lane · 08-09-2013, 03:30 PM

I know what you mean Frump. Way back in the Dark Ages when I was in high school there were girls just like that. Mean . Those girls who were mean seemed to be the ones who were popular. They had the clothes, guys, etc. and I could never figure out why they were like that! They seemed to have everything . Who knows ? For some reason they had to prove themselves I guess. And you're right. Guys like that were considered real jerks. Those certain girls would make fun of other girls and be just plain rude. I considered them jerks also!

I am thinking right now about the movie "Heathers". Perfect example of all of this!

cleverfun3000 · 08-11-2013, 03:54 PM

Frump · 08-11-2013, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by cleverfun3000

LOL but I'm not just talking about ppl who aspire to have a sexual realtionship with girls, I mean ppl who are just her FRIENDS, they don't seem to mind she treats them bad. And the girl doesn't always have to be hot and attractive.

gidgetgrape · 08-11-2013, 05:44 PM

I don't think most of the girls you are speaking of enjoy being treated badly, it's that they don't know any better or they are afraid to be alone. Mean girls tend to have a lot of power and influence and some girls trade their self-respect in exchange for a taste of those of things.

cleverfun3000 · 08-11-2013, 06:43 PM

The ONLY women in MY life that I would tolerate being treated badly by; are frequently treating me to mind-blowing sex. Otherwise its ** P O O F !!** BE GONE!!

TVFactFan · 08-11-2013, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by cleverfun3000

Only if she has a "golden V......A

08-09-2013, 02:45 PM	#1
Frump Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 06, 2003 Location: McMinnville Posts: 1,206	Do ppl actually ENJOY being treated bad by their girl friends? Something I've noticed, it's not uncommun to see mean, snotty, vicious girls have a TON of friends who love being around her and who worship the ground she walks on, and they don't seem to mind that she treats them so badly, and it seems like the WORSE she treats her friends the more they love haning out with her. BUT if a guy is a mean, viscious BRUT, he usually has no friends and ppl hate being around him and he's marked as a "jerk" or an "a__hole" and is usually ostrisized by everyone. But mean girls seem to have no problem making and keeping friends. Has anyone else noticed that? And why is that? It seems like mean would equal MEAN no matter who is acting that way.
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08-09-2013, 03:30 PM	#2
Penny Lane Butter Pie Forum Icon Join Date: Jul 03, 2001 Location: Beneath the blue suburban skies Posts: 51,048	I know what you mean Frump. Way back in the Dark Ages when I was in high school there were girls just like that. Mean . Those girls who were mean seemed to be the ones who were popular. They had the clothes, guys, etc. and I could never figure out why they were like that! They seemed to have everything . Who knows ? For some reason they had to prove themselves I guess. And you're right. Guys like that were considered real jerks. Those certain girls would make fun of other girls and be just plain rude. I considered them jerks also! I am thinking right now about the movie "Heathers". Perfect example of all of this!
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08-11-2013, 03:54 PM	#3
cleverfun3000 Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 18, 2008 Location: Manhattan Posts: 1,685

08-11-2013, 05:44 PM	#5
gidgetgrape Forever Gidget Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 20, 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 3,503	I don't think most of the girls you are speaking of enjoy being treated badly, it's that they don't know any better or they are afraid to be alone. Mean girls tend to have a lot of power and influence and some girls trade their self-respect in exchange for a taste of those of things.

08-11-2013, 06:43 PM	#6
cleverfun3000 Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 18, 2008 Location: Manhattan Posts: 1,685	The ONLY women in MY life that I would tolerate being treated badly by; are frequently treating me to mind-blowing sex. Otherwise its P O O F !! BE GONE!!