Bea and Rue

[PrettyinPink55]

I'm new to Maude, and LOVING IT!!!
As a Golden Girls fan, I didn't think I could love Bea Arthur or Rue McClanahan any more, but I do!!!
SUCH a great show!!!
Anyway, I was wondering if since Bea and Rue both co-starred together in this show and then a few years later on The Golden Girls, were they very close friends in real life? They have great on-screen chemistry, that's for sure!! It seems like after working together for so many years over the years, these two would've developed a special bond. I wonder how or if that changed the dynamics of The Golden Girls if at all.

[Mr. Television]

I found this interview with Rue about the time of Bea's death. It sounded like they were good friends.

http://popwatch.ew.com/2009/04/26/bea-arthur-rue/

Rue McClanahan remembers Bea Arthur

Bea Arthur and Rue McClanahan rank among TV’s all-time great comic matchups, first on the groundbreaking ’70s sitcom Maude, and later, during seven seasons of the Emmy-winning ensemble comedy The Golden Girls. (Check out a couple of embedded YouTube clips at the end of this Q&A.) EW.com phoned McClanahan at her Manhattan home this morning to get her memories about her long-time friend and co-star, who died yesterday in Los Angeles at age 86. McClanahan described Arthur as a gentle, almost timid person who changed America’s perception of what it meant to be an older woman, who finally achieved her greatest career goal at age 79, and who could tell a dirty joke with the best of ‘em.

What did you learn about acting from Bea Arthur?

What I got attached to, as an actress, was her impeccable timing. And I loved playing scenes with her. She taught me, by watching her, even back during Maude, to be outrageously courageous as a comedienne, to go out on a limb, to go farther than I’ve ever dreamed of going. [On The Golden Girls], Blanche had to say and do things that Rue found difficult. And it would always be Bea who said [deepens voice to perfectly imitate Arthur] "Oh say it! It’s funny!"

What was she like off-camera?

As a friend she was giving and loving to me. She was a very close, quiet, rather timid person, very gentle. I saw someone say something once that they didn’t mean to be a cutting remark, but it hit her wrong, and she immediately burst into tears. That was not seen very often, but those emotions were right under the surface.

It’s interesting to hear that, because I think a lot of fans just assumed she was as tough as Maude, as gruff as Dorothy.

Not just the public! When I first worked with her on Maude and came back to New York, actors descended upon me and said "Oooh! What was it like? Was it scary working with Bea Arthur?" I said "Good heavens! Anything but!" That height — she was 5’10” flat-footed — and that deep voice, and that manner she was able to summon up, made people think she would be difficult. But she wasn’t.

Any interesting quirks?

[On Golden Girls], Bea always sat in the
same chair at rehearsals. Always. And she always had to have me on her
right, and Betty [White] and Estelle [Getty] across the table from her. And we could not change seats from year to year, or even from week to week.

How did Bea feel about her status as a feminist icon?

Of course she was aware of it, but I tell you what meant something to Bea:Acting, performing, playing comedy and doing it well.

What did Bea mean to women of her generation? Maude and The Golden Girls both tackled a lot of issues older women face, and did so with a candor that we don’t always see in Hollywood.

I think, in both of those shows, we really did change the perception of a woman’s role. I don’t think anybody thought that it was okay to be a feminist back when she was doing Maude. And I’m sure that [show] released a lot of inhibitions. I know The Golden Girls certainly did because I’ve got fan mail saying "Thank you for allowing me to act and dress like I feel."Because in those days, when you were over 50, you were supposed to be wearing certain types of clothes and behaving a certain way. And women were writing saying "Thank you, thank you, thank you for the freedom,for the release, for the permission." And I’m sure Bea got that same kind of fan mail, too.

Later in life, Bea didn’t shy away from racier fare. She did an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm, she participated in the Pamela Anderson roast…

She did quite a few roasts. She came from the theater, remember. And the theater tends to be more bawdy, more gritty than television. She understood that kind of humor. She had a one-woman show on Broadway — I’m so glad she got to do that. And she told some pretty raunchy jokes, live on stage. In fact, a couple that were just a bit too much for me! [Laughs.] But boy she could tell a dirty joke. Oh my God, she was funny!

It couldn’t have been easy pulling off a one-woman Broadway show at that stage of her life.

That woman was [about to turn] 80. She looked like a million bucks. What a beautiful costume she had on. And that’s all she wanted to do, she told me way back when we were doing Maude: "All I want to do is sing in front of an orchestra." She did Broadway musicals before she ever got picked up to do that All in the Family episode that was the beginning of her television career. And she was always pissed off that she was soold when it happened. When I went out to do Maude, I was about 38 and she was about 50, I guess, and she said "it just makes me so mad that it came so late in life!" [Laughs.] She’d been trying all of her young acting career to get some fame and attention.

What was Bea’s lasting contribution to TV history?

What’s any great star’s lasting contribution? What’s Lucille Ball’s? I don’t know how to put answers like that into words. I suppose perhaps the thing she did the best and the most of was make people laugh.

[PrettyinPink55]

What a sweet article!! Thank you for sharing that, Sonny!!
That does give insight into their relationship as well as to a side of Bea Arthur's personality few got to see. It just goes to show you what great actresses these ladies are. I always assumed Bea was just like her characters Maude and Dorothy. Blanche was nothing like Vivian and Sue Ann Nivens was nothing like Rose. If anything they were polar opposites!! I always assumed Estelle Getty really was as old as she played on the show. All four of these women had incredible range which speaks volumes about their craft and talent as actresses!!
Just when I thought I couldn't love these ladies anymore!!
Forever Golden!!

[Mr. Television]

Originally Posted by PrettyinPink55

What a sweet article!! Thank you for sharing that, Sonny!!
That does give insight into their relationship as well as to a side of Bea Arthur's personality few got to see. It just goes to show you what great actresses these ladies are. I always assumed Bea was just like her characters Maude and Dorothy. Blanche was nothing like Vivian and Sue Ann Nivens was nothing like Rose. If anything they were polar opposites!! I always assumed Estelle Getty really was as old as she played on the show. All four of these women had incredible range which speaks volumes about their craft and talent as actresses!!
Just when I thought I couldn't love these ladies anymore!!
Forever Golden!!

You're welcome. I've been a fan of Bea's since Maude. I remember watching that show with my Mom. Of course a lot of the jokes went over my head at the time but I just found her so funny. I'm glad that Maude is finally being shown in reruns so others can see how great of a show it was. The reason I started watching the Golden Girls is because I was a fan of Bea, Rue, & Betty from their shows in the 70's. It probably would have a hard time getting picked up today because of the ages of the actresses. And that's too bad because you are right. the show was Golden.

[Kasey]

It's been over five years since I read it, but in Rue's biography she states around the second season of MAUDE, she lost a close relative (her mother? I can't recall) and Bea INSISTED she come and stay with her and her family for Thanksgiving since Rue seemed so distraught.

[PrettyinPink55]

Originally Posted by Kasey

It's been over five years since I read it, but in Rue's biography she states around the second season of MAUDE, she lost a close relative (her mother? I can't recall) and Bea INSISTED she come and stay with her and her family for Thanksgiving since Rue seemed so distraught.

That's so sweet!!

[PrettyinPink55]

Originally Posted by Stuck In The '70's

You're welcome. I've been a fan of Bea's since Maude. I remember watching that show with my Mom. Of course a lot of the jokes went over my head at the time but I just found her so funny. I'm glad that Maude is finally being shown in reruns so others can see how great of a show it was. The reason I started watching the Golden Girls is because I was a fan of Bea, Rue, & Betty from their shows in the 70's. It probably would have a hard time getting picked up today because of the ages of the actresses. And that's too bad because you are right. the show was Golden.

Haha!! It was the same with me and The Golden Girls. I watched it with my mom and brother when I was younger and many of the jokes I didn't understand at all until I got older, but I still laughed and loved it. I definitely appreciate it more as an adult, but as a kid, it was a staple in our house as it is for me to this day.

[TVFactFan]

Originally Posted by PrettyinPink55

I'm new to Maude, and LOVING IT!!!
As a Golden Girls fan, I didn't think I could love Bea Arthur or Rue McClanahan any more, but I do!!!
SUCH a great show!!!
Anyway, I was wondering if since Bea and Rue both co-starred together in this show and then a few years later on The Golden Girls, were they very close friends in real life? They have great on-screen chemistry, that's for sure!! It seems like after working together for so many years over the years, these two would've developed a special bond. I wonder how or if that changed the dynamics of The Golden Girls if at all.

I was watching every night but now I seen so many cycles that I am just waiting for the DVD release


But to me it's not a show u can just fall back on the bed and watch to laugh because of the seriousness of some of the eps

You can definitely do that with Three's company and the Jeffersons. But overall I like the show a lot better after season 1 because during that season it seemed like the show went out of it's way to be serious and controversial instead of relaxed and funny

[shotzette]

Thank you for sharing this article. I've always been a big Bea Arthur fan and it was touching to hear her former costar say such wonderful things about her. The fact that Rue and Bea worked together in two long running shows, makes Rue's words even more meaningful. I'm even more impressed now with both of these wonderful women.

[Nickolas086]

Oh I how I miss Bea!