I'm In Love...With a Married Woman! - Sitcoms Online Message Boards

ronaldmcdonald · 09-05-2012, 08:24 PM

Last Sunday marked the 1-year anniversary of my meeting this BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, Woman Online via Twitter.

The problem: She's MARRIED!!!!!!

The woman, Candace, is 10 years older than me & has been happily married for 15+ years to a retired Pro Hockey Player, Val, with whom she has a trio of kids (a teen daughter who JUST became a High-School Freshman & 2 pre-teen boys ages 10 & 12) and lives in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida.

Out of respect for Candace, I DON'T talk very much to her because I DON'T wanna do anything that could CAUSE a permanent rift between us (as friends), yet despite the fact that she's MARRIED, Candace has helped me accept the reality that my college crush, Amy, is NEVER coming back.

It's like this: 6 1/2 years ago, when I met Amy in college, I KNEW that she was the one I was meant for, and though an initial error in judgment on my part (similar to stunts I'd pulled on girls as a teenager) could have ended things unhappily between us, in the end, Amy forgave me for the error, and in the process, I too was able to forgive my own self for all that had gone wrong for me since I was an 11-year-old boy.

On the downside, though, since Amy forgave me, I started feeling extremely remorseful for all that had gone wrong for me, from being severely abused as an 11-year-old boy after a group of young boys in my class were told by our female teacher to hold my penis for me as I tried peeing, to a different female teacher always getting me into trouble EVERY DAY, 9 out of 10 times for NO REASON, in 7th grade, to my pre-Amy high-school crush Lauren ****ing me over weeks prior to our high-school graduation, upon learning through the annual yearbook, with ZERO prior knowledge, that Lauren was both seeing AND premaritally fornicating a guy a year older than us named Matt, who shes SINCE married AND has a 2-year-old daughter with.

As if THOSE weren't horrific enough, my mom was admitted to a local Hospital in my hometown an hour Southeast from the Georgia coast, only to be transferred to the Hospital an Hour away, 24 hours later, where the doctors discovered the Hometown Doc damaged her left foot below the knee beyond repair--and was forced to amputate the foot.

Those last 2 experiences led me to, among other things, my own Hospital admission for Psychiatric problems in connection with the Double Whammy situation, but not even THAT admission was enough, because I tried Suicide 6 weeks after the Hospital admission--ironically less than 24 hours AFTER a Civil Court case involving me and Lauren.

But back to the topic: I didn't start feeling ANY remorse over the above experiences until AFTER Amy forgave me.

Earlier this Summer, the friendship between me and Candace has expanded to the world of Facebook, but despite the fact that, like I said earlier, Candace is LONG married, I feel SO compatible with Candace, and to me, it's more than JUST an Infatuation, it's EVERYTHING.

I became a devout Christian at age 21, right after Amy forgave me, and soon after losing my Grandma Dot in January 2009, my faith has grown stronger through the evangelical TV preachings of a preacher named Kirk.

In fact, it was soon after Dot died that I discovered that, like I said earlier, that Candace, who I met September 2, 2011 via Twitter, is his Sister, along with the above information, through Kirk's official site, about Candace living in Ft. Lauderdale like I said earlier in this post.

Upon seeing the picture of Candace and her family of 5 on Kirk's official site, I KNEW I had to meet her someday; THAT day came on Twitter on September 2, 2011.

I'll be honest with you readers: in the year since our 1st meeting, despite her being Married, I've PROUDLY fallen MORE AND MORE in LOVE with Candace to the point of Sexcerising for her sake (in case Candace & I EVER cross paths in real life, which I'm not in any rush for, but if it DOES happen, I'll WELCOME that).

On a related note, I ALSO met Kirk via Google + last year and WE are Facebook friends too.

Anyway, folks, if you folks have any SIMILAR experiences, PLEASE feel free to respond to this post

AKA · 09-06-2012, 03:03 PM

This is very creepy. You should get help and move on with your life.

cleverfun3000 · 09-06-2012, 03:14 PM

I have never been with a married woman. I never liked the idea of being intimate with a woman who was legally sexually bound to the sexual whims of another man. No matter how beautiful or gorgeous the woman is or was, when she tells me (or I find out) she's married, I lose all interest. It's just too filthy a situation for me to want to be a part of.

MickeyMac · 09-06-2012, 05:22 PM

Taking an interest or getting involved with someone who is married is like lighting mathes in a room full of dynamate.

There are plenty of single ladies out there. Go after one of them.

phoebe7165 · 09-06-2012, 05:27 PM

You probably don't want any advice but here goes anyway - Break all ties with this woman. You may be in love with her, but run, don't walk from this "relationship" or whatever you call it. I guarantee you, she will NOT leave her husband, will string you along for God knows how long, and do nothing but break your heart.

And I really don't know why you would brag about something like this.

Find somebody unattached, trust me, you'll just get hurt otherwise.

Mr. Television · 09-06-2012, 05:32 PM

This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

phoebe7165 · 09-06-2012, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stuck In The '70's

This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

Um, OK.

Janice · 09-06-2012, 05:50 PM

Take it elsewhere, you freak. I'm going to do what I can to warn Candace about you.

Keep off Chit Chat!

Zoneboy · 09-06-2012, 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stuck In The '70's

This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

His obsession with both Kirk and Candace is weird. I'm not sure exactly how many different names he's used on this board (at least 6) but everytime he creates a new account the first thing that's usually posted is another Kirk bio and his birthdate not being correct and the source of the info is none other than the E! True Hollywood Story.

AKA · 09-06-2012, 07:07 PM

Celebrity obsessions are no joke. Look what happened when people became obsessed with John Lennon, Jodie Foster and Rebecca Schaefer. This guy is dangerous.

Mr. Television · 09-06-2012, 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zoneboy

His obsession with both Kirk and Candace is weird. I'm not sure exactly how many different names he's used on this board (at least 6) but everytime he creates a new account the first thing that's usually posted is another thread Kirk bio and his birthdate not being correct and the source of the info is none other than the E! True Hollywood Story.

He even posted some nude celebrity photos on here once that got him bounced but he still came back.

*ROGER* · 09-06-2012, 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janice

Take it elsewhere, you freak. I'm going to do what I can to warn Candace about you.

Keep off Chit Chat!

Seriously, please report this guy and try to have Candace Cameron warned. This guy is a crazy, psycho stalker. I wouldn't be surprised if this whacko tracked poor Candace down in Florida and did something to her similar to the fate of Rebecca Schaefer.

AKA · 09-06-2012, 10:03 PM

Probably should warn Kirk Cameron about him, too, because he's just as obsessed with him and his family as he is Candace.

Janice · 09-06-2012, 11:17 PM

Well, I went to Kirk and Candace's websites and got their management emails. I didn't want to go the Twitter route. Here's what I wrote.

----------------------------------------------------------

To Whom It May Concern:

I moderate a large sitcom website called SitcomsOnline.There is a person there who completely obsesses over Candace Cameron. He appears to have lost touch with reality. The site's owner bans him as soon as he registers (yet again). I get a very creepy vibe off the guy. Many members there do as well. Here are a couple of threads he made (below). He claims that Candace has given him advice on Twitter a year ago. If so, I'm sure she was just trying to be nice. Still, there are so many crazy stalkers out here, and I'd rather be safe than sorry.

Please pass this on to Candace and Kirk.

Thank you for your time. Feel free to email me with any questions you may have. I'll be happy to assist you with anything.

Sincerely,

Janice

This week
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...d.php?t=303685

Last year
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...hlight=candace

AKA · 09-06-2012, 11:50 PM

Good on you, Janice! Thanks for taking action! Hopefully something can come of this before this guy harms others or himself.

09-05-2012, 08:24 PM	#1
ronaldmcdonald Banned Banned!! Occasional Poster Join Date: Jun 26, 2012 Posts: 14	I'm In Love...With a Married Woman! Last Sunday marked the 1-year anniversary of my meeting this BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, Woman Online via Twitter. The problem: She's MARRIED!!!!!! The woman, Candace, is 10 years older than me & has been happily married for 15+ years to a retired Pro Hockey Player, Val, with whom she has a trio of kids (a teen daughter who JUST became a High-School Freshman & 2 pre-teen boys ages 10 & 12) and lives in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Out of respect for Candace, I DON'T talk very much to her because I DON'T wanna do anything that could CAUSE a permanent rift between us (as friends), yet despite the fact that she's MARRIED, Candace has helped me accept the reality that my college crush, Amy, is NEVER coming back. It's like this: 6 1/2 years ago, when I met Amy in college, I KNEW that she was the one I was meant for, and though an initial error in judgment on my part (similar to stunts I'd pulled on girls as a teenager) could have ended things unhappily between us, in the end, Amy forgave me for the error, and in the process, I too was able to forgive my own self for all that had gone wrong for me since I was an 11-year-old boy. On the downside, though, since Amy forgave me, I started feeling extremely remorseful for all that had gone wrong for me, from being severely abused as an 11-year-old boy after a group of young boys in my class were told by our female teacher to hold my penis for me as I tried peeing, to a different female teacher always getting me into trouble EVERY DAY, 9 out of 10 times for NO REASON, in 7th grade, to my pre-Amy high-school crush Lauren ****ing me over weeks prior to our high-school graduation, upon learning through the annual yearbook, with ZERO prior knowledge, that Lauren was both seeing AND premaritally fornicating a guy a year older than us named Matt, who shes SINCE married AND has a 2-year-old daughter with. As if THOSE weren't horrific enough, my mom was admitted to a local Hospital in my hometown an hour Southeast from the Georgia coast, only to be transferred to the Hospital an Hour away, 24 hours later, where the doctors discovered the Hometown Doc damaged her left foot below the knee beyond repair--and was forced to amputate the foot. Those last 2 experiences led me to, among other things, my own Hospital admission for Psychiatric problems in connection with the Double Whammy situation, but not even THAT admission was enough, because I tried Suicide 6 weeks after the Hospital admission--ironically less than 24 hours AFTER a Civil Court case involving me and Lauren. But back to the topic: I didn't start feeling ANY remorse over the above experiences until AFTER Amy forgave me. Earlier this Summer, the friendship between me and Candace has expanded to the world of Facebook, but despite the fact that, like I said earlier, Candace is LONG married, I feel SO compatible with Candace, and to me, it's more than JUST an Infatuation, it's EVERYTHING. I became a devout Christian at age 21, right after Amy forgave me, and soon after losing my Grandma Dot in January 2009, my faith has grown stronger through the evangelical TV preachings of a preacher named Kirk. In fact, it was soon after Dot died that I discovered that, like I said earlier, that Candace, who I met September 2, 2011 via Twitter, is his Sister, along with the above information, through Kirk's official site, about Candace living in Ft. Lauderdale like I said earlier in this post. Upon seeing the picture of Candace and her family of 5 on Kirk's official site, I KNEW I had to meet her someday; THAT day came on Twitter on September 2, 2011. I'll be honest with you readers: in the year since our 1st meeting, despite her being Married, I've PROUDLY fallen MORE AND MORE in LOVE with Candace to the point of Sexcerising for her sake (in case Candace & I EVER cross paths in real life, which I'm not in any rush for, but if it DOES happen, I'll WELCOME that). On a related note, I ALSO met Kirk via Google + last year and WE are Facebook friends too. Anyway, folks, if you folks have any SIMILAR experiences, PLEASE feel free to respond to this post

09-06-2012, 05:27 PM	#5
phoebe7165 Pop Culture Goddess Forum Fanatic Join Date: Apr 15, 2003 Location: US of A - the country of "really bad music" lovers Posts: 11,600	You probably don't want any advice but here goes anyway - Break all ties with this woman. You may be in love with her, but run, don't walk from this "relationship" or whatever you call it. I guarantee you, she will NOT leave her husband, will string you along for God knows how long, and do nothing but break your heart. And I really don't know why you would brag about something like this. Find somebody unattached, trust me, you'll just get hurt otherwise.
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09-06-2012, 05:32 PM	#6
Mr. Television 23 Years at Sitcoms Online Forum Icon Join Date: Jun 06, 2003 Location: Somewhere you're Not Posts: 62,132	This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.
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09-06-2012, 03:03 PM	#2
AKA Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 17, 2001 Posts: 15,746	This is very creepy. You should get help and move on with your life.

09-06-2012, 03:14 PM	#3
cleverfun3000 Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 18, 2008 Location: Manhattan Posts: 1,685	I have never been with a married woman. I never liked the idea of being intimate with a woman who was legally sexually bound to the sexual whims of another man. No matter how beautiful or gorgeous the woman is or was, when she tells me (or I find out) she's married, I lose all interest. It's just too filthy a situation for me to want to be a part of.

09-06-2012, 05:22 PM	#4
MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,008	Taking an interest or getting involved with someone who is married is like lighting mathes in a room full of dynamate. There are plenty of single ladies out there. Go after one of them.

09-06-2012, 05:50 PM	#8
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	Take it elsewhere, you freak. I'm going to do what I can to warn Candace about you. Keep off Chit Chat!

09-06-2012, 07:07 PM	#10
AKA Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 17, 2001 Posts: 15,746	Celebrity obsessions are no joke. Look what happened when people became obsessed with John Lennon, Jodie Foster and Rebecca Schaefer. This guy is dangerous.

09-06-2012, 10:03 PM	#13
AKA Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 17, 2001 Posts: 15,746	Probably should warn Kirk Cameron about him, too, because he's just as obsessed with him and his family as he is Candace.

09-06-2012, 11:17 PM	#14
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	Well, I went to Kirk and Candace's websites and got their management emails. I didn't want to go the Twitter route. Here's what I wrote. ---------------------------------------------------------- To Whom It May Concern: I moderate a large sitcom website called SitcomsOnline.There is a person there who completely obsesses over Candace Cameron. He appears to have lost touch with reality. The site's owner bans him as soon as he registers (yet again). I get a very creepy vibe off the guy. Many members there do as well. Here are a couple of threads he made (below). He claims that Candace has given him advice on Twitter a year ago. If so, I'm sure she was just trying to be nice. Still, there are so many crazy stalkers out here, and I'd rather be safe than sorry. Please pass this on to Candace and Kirk. Thank you for your time. Feel free to email me with any questions you may have. I'll be happy to assist you with anything. Sincerely, Janice This week http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...d.php?t=303685 Last year http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...hlight=candace

09-06-2012, 11:50 PM	#15
AKA Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 17, 2001 Posts: 15,746	Good on you, Janice! Thanks for taking action! Hopefully something can come of this before this guy harms others or himself.