Gary Coleman's parents seek custody of his remains

[catlover79]

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20100603/...oleman911_call

By BROCK VERGAKIS, Associated Press Writer

SALT LAKE CITY – The estranged parents of former child TV star Gary Coleman are seeking custody of his body and want it returned to the star's boyhood home in Illinois, his former manager said Thursday.

Coleman died Friday in Utah from a brain hemorrhage at age 42.

His former manager and family spokesman Victor Perillo said Coleman's parents, Sue and Willie Coleman, are the legal custodians of his body because Coleman was divorced from his wife, Shannon Price, in 2008. It was Price who ordered that Gary Coleman be taken off of life support.

Utah Valley Regional Medical Center spokeswoman Janet Frank said Price was named in an advanced health care directive that allowed her to make health care decisions for Gary Coleman when he couldn't make them for himself.

His parents have said they learned about his hospitalization and death from media reports and that they had wanted to reconcile with their son before his death.

In 1989, when Gary Coleman was 21, his mother filed a court request trying to gain control of her son's $6 million fortune, saying he was incapable of handling his affairs. The move "obviously stems from her frustration at not being able to control my life," he said.

Perillo helped launch Gary Coleman's career from Chicago around 1977 and worked with him for 15 years. Gary Coleman is originally from Zion, Ill., a small town about 50 miles north of Chicago near the Wisconsin border. Perillo said his parents have discussed having a small, private ceremony and that his body could be returned to Illinois as soon as Friday.

"The arrangement we're working on now is to get Gary back to his next of kin, which is his parents. The funeral home has been notified, the sheriff's office, we've notified them that there is to be no communication on where the body is to go unless its dealt with legally with Gary's next of kin, and that's the way it stands right now," Perillo told The Associated Press in a telephone interview from British Columbia.

Frederick Jackman, a Utah estate attorney that Perillo said is representing the Colemans, did not immediately return a message Thursday.

It's unclear whether Price and Gary Coleman ever remarried after their divorce.

On the 911 call from May 26, the day the actor apparently had a seizure or hit his head and fell, Price refers to Gary Coleman as her husband.

She can be heard asking a Utah emergency dispatcher to send help for him because he was bleeding from the back of his head and "bubbling at the mouth" after falling at their Santaquin home about 65 miles south of Salt Lake City

"I just don't want him to die," Price said in the call. "I'm freaking out like really bad."

Gary Coleman was conscious at the hospital the day of the 911 call but slipped into unconsciousness the next day and was taken off life support Friday with family at his side.

In an interview on celebrity website TMZ, Price said she chose to take him off life support because doctors had told her that even if they had done surgery he would have died or never been the same.

"I don't want people to be so hard on me thinking that I had to pull the plug too early. He wouldn't have made it anyway. His heart would have just given out," she said. "But you know, be in my situation. I mean look what happened with Terri Schiavo. I always think of her case — always when it comes to this.

"I mean Gary was gone. His eyes were dilated. He wasn't ... he was just gone."

Police records show Gary Coleman and Price had a tumultuous relationship from the very beginning of their courtship, which started when they met on the set of the 2006 comedy, "Church Ball."

In January 2007, he called police because he was worried she was going to bring her three brothers to confront him following an argument. Then in July of that year, he exploded at Price in a clinic parking lot in Provo, for which he was charged with disorderly conduct and eventually placed on probation.

One month later, Gary Coleman whisked Price to a Nevada mountaintop to wed.

By August 2008, the two had divorced, but they remained close and their legal problems continued.

In February, Gary Coleman pleaded guilty to a misdemeanor criminal mischief charge related to a domestic violence incident in April 2009. No details are in court documents, but defense attorney Randy Kester told The Associated Press that the couple had an argument which got out of hand. "It was just a disagreement," he said.

Gary Coleman starred for eight seasons on the sitcom "Diff'rent Strokes," starting in 1978. The tiny 10-year-old's "Whachu talkin' 'bout?" was a staple in the show about two African-American brothers adopted by a wealthy white man. He played Arnold Jackson, the younger of the two brothers.

[Marvo301]

I can't imagine that's it Gary's wish in any way shape or form for his remains to be returned to Illinois for burial. His entire adult life has been spent away from there and with other people. This obviously what his parents want not what Gary wanted. They haven't been part of his life for almost 20 years what right do they have to claim his remains?

[catlover79]

My feelings exactly!!!!

[robyrob]

what could they possibly want from this - are they planning to sell his ashes or something?

obviously Gary wanted NOTHING to do with them and this is just ridiculous.

[caro]

Originally Posted by robyrob

what could they possibly want from this - are they planning to sell his ashes or something?

obviously Gary wanted NOTHING to do with them and this is just ridiculous.

Todd Bridges was on ET last night and said again that Gary was bitter towards his parents.
I understand Gary had many other Medical problems we didn't know about such as open heart surgery and colon surgery.
I still don't get how nobody was driving him him to his treatments.
He should have had his license taken away after his seizures.
I don't think any last minute public display of affection is going to change anything in the public eye.
The only thing I could think of is that people often make it their hobby to visit the graves of stars.
I guess it would be some sort of tourist attraction.

[Austin Tripper]

Adopting Gary = Money
Gary doing Commericals = Money
Sick Gary = Money
Never taking a break Gary = Money


.....

Gary says something back and tries to get whatever money left of his to survive on.

Gary doesnt talk to them for 20+ years

Gary Dies.

......

Lawsuits with Gary = Money
Trademarking Gary's Likeness = Money
Trademarking Gary's Phrase = Money


Hey Surprise! Gary's Parents are back in his life again, I wonder why?

[Larenz09]

Originally Posted by Austin Tripper

Adopting Gary = Money
Gary doing Commericals = Money
Sick Gary = Money
Never taking a break Gary = Money


.....

Gary says something back and tries to get whatever money left of his to survive on.

Gary doesnt talk to them for 20+ years

Gary Dies.

......

Lawsuits with Gary = Money
Trademarking Gary's Likeness = Money
Trademarking Gary's Phrase = Money


Hey Surprise! Gary's Parents are back in his life again, I wonder why?

Well, I think that this would help begin the the road toward bringing some closure to the years-long hatred that Gary had for them.

Let's face it, even in death, Gary is still a very lonely man! His parents are STILL with him even though he's now deceased. He doesn't have anyone else who would be ready, willing and able to help get him to his final resting place.