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RoryGilmore · 04-24-2010, 05:46 PM

If you cheat once, does that mean you'll do it again?

dakert · 04-24-2010, 05:49 PM

Yes

RoryGilmore · 04-24-2010, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dakert

Yes

Not what I wanted to hear at all because last night I was the cheater

Chad22 · 04-24-2010, 06:38 PM

Everyone makes mistakes.

RoryGilmore · 04-24-2010, 06:42 PM

So the fact that I liked making out with this guy who isnt my fiance, means??? that I should break it off, so I tried to and he begged me not to go. Shouldn't it be the other way around?

spunkygirl · 04-24-2010, 06:52 PM

I don't believe that's true with everyone who cheats. I agree though, people do make mistakes. You should break up with your fiancee though if you're interested in someone else, otherwise you'll end up hurting him more in the long run.

My 2 cents

RoryGilmore · 04-24-2010, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ZKS

I don't believe that's true with everyone who cheats. I agree though, people do make mistakes. You should break up with your fiancee though if you're interested in someone else, otherwise you'll end up hurting him more in the long run.

My 2 cents

I know I need to either break up with him or force myself to forget about the other guy

dakert · 04-24-2010, 10:22 PM

Jo/Blair. If you are cheating on your fiancee you are definitely not ready to get married.

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Originally Posted by Jo/Blair Fan

I know I need to either break up with him or force myself to forget about the other guy

ZeldaGilroy · 04-25-2010, 01:05 PM

I do not believe that someone who cheats once will necessarily do it again. What I do believe is that if someone cheats, there must be a reason, and you should take some time to figure out why you did it. You have to be honest with yourself and your fiance. Both of you will be better off if you take some time to really look at your relationship and your feelings before rushing into anything.

Good luck!

MickeyMac · 04-25-2010, 03:00 PM

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

ZeldaGilroy · 04-25-2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MickeyMac

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

I see where you are coming from Mickey. I have been cheated on myself, and it hurts. I think it is really hard to ever trust that person again and so I made the decision not to and to say good-bye to the relationship.

I still think some people can make mistakes and learn from them. I have friends who have overcome cheating in their relationships and are happy. I think it really depends on whether or not both people can agree to try to make things work. I agree with you...I won't try to make things work with someone who cheated on me, but others can and do so I wish them the best of luck.

Mr. Television · 04-25-2010, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by MickeyMac

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

I totally agree with you. After someone cheats, I don't know how you can ever trust that person again. Even if you try, it'll always be in the back of your mind.

OH Nuts! · 04-25-2010, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ZeldaGilroy

I do not believe that someone who cheats once will necessarily do it again. What I do believe is that if someone cheats, there must be a reason, and you should take some time to figure out why you did it. You have to be honest with yourself and your fiance. Both of you will be better off if you take some time to really look at your relationship and your feelings before rushing into anything.

Good luck!

That sounds like very wise advice, and some excellent perceptions to me!

howierules86 · 04-25-2010, 08:54 PM

If you see somebody cheating on you, I think you should try digging your key into the side of his/her pretty little souped-up four wheel drive, then carve your name into his/her leather seat of the car, then take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights, slash a hole in all four tires, and maybe next time he/she will think before he/she cheats.

RoryGilmore · 04-25-2010, 10:45 PM

well I told him and he was hurt and took a few hours to think and he decided that he wants to give me a second chance which I m so thankful for I just hope I never do it agian.

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04-24-2010, 05:49 PM	#2
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04-24-2010, 06:42 PM	#5
RoryGilmore Always and Forever Forum Veteran Join Date: Oct 30, 2004 Location: Wherever he is, that's where I'll be Posts: 6,528	So the fact that I liked making out with this guy who isnt my fiance, means??? that I should break it off, so I tried to and he begged me not to go. Shouldn't it be the other way around?

04-24-2010, 06:52 PM	#6
spunkygirl Member Moderator Forum Celebrity Join Date: Apr 26, 2003 Posts: 21,563	I don't believe that's true with everyone who cheats. I agree though, people do make mistakes. You should break up with your fiancee though if you're interested in someone else, otherwise you'll end up hurting him more in the long run. My 2 cents

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MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,008	I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

04-25-2010, 10:45 PM	#15
RoryGilmore Always and Forever Forum Veteran Join Date: Oct 30, 2004 Location: Wherever he is, that's where I'll be Posts: 6,528	well I told him and he was hurt and took a few hours to think and he decided that he wants to give me a second chance which I m so thankful for I just hope I never do it agian.