If you were Debra & could actually confront Marie, what'd you say?
If you were Debra & could just say it to Marie, what would it be?
I think mine would be something like this: "Marie, stop trying to 'help' me because your only making it worse. Your reallly not trying to help me so just stop and call first before you come over!"
Something like that lol. Everytime Marie came over & said she "only trying to help!" ya right.
I'd tell her that if she was going to put me down, she wouldn't be welcome in my home. I especially wouldn't put up with her comments in front of my children. I'd also lock the doors when I was at home.