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Sharop · 08-18-2009, 07:13 PM

I posted about this in the Complaint Department thread. This has happened to me - I was treated cruelly by another person for a few months who recently tried to make me out to be at fault, when that is just not the case. It really angers me that instead of being honest some people try to blame others when it's they themselves that have acted badly.

Wreckless · 08-18-2009, 07:55 PM

I am the spokesman for this type of behavior. My dad treats me like sh*t, and makes me out to be the bad person. Totally sick of it. I feel what you're going through Michelle.

sunshinefizzy · 08-18-2009, 08:23 PM

Unfortunatly(sp?), people are like that. You just have to remember that you are the bigger, better person and what goes around comes around.

Doodyville10019 · 08-18-2009, 10:16 PM

Happens to me at work all the time, especially with one particular boss (I have two).

Chocoholic · 08-18-2009, 11:42 PM

Yes, by a co-worker of mine. Thank goodness she won't be there anymore.

InspectorExstead · 08-19-2009, 12:51 AM

Yes, unfortunately it has. It happened with one of my close friends. It was really hurtful and shocking at the time. She was basically spreading lies behind my back and once I found out, I distanced myself from her and eventually confronted her about it. She twisted everything around and blamed it on me. Thankfully, she told me she didn't want to be friends anymore and made it easier for me. It's a really sucky situation to be in. I'm sorry.

dawsongirl · 08-19-2009, 12:59 AM

Too many people out there that won't admit they are wrong about ANYTHING.

NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!!

Schmoopie · 08-19-2009, 02:44 AM

Yeah, this happens to me a lot but I have to admit that I've done it to others. It's wrong and I always feel bad when that happens.

Andrea

catlover79 · 08-19-2009, 08:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Too many people out there that won't admit they are wrong about ANYTHING.

NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!!

MickeyMac · 08-19-2009, 12:17 PM

I have had this happend to me, even with people who were "friends". It sucks dont it.

browneyes106 · 08-19-2009, 02:19 PM

It happens a lot in my family with my sister and my mom.

Darren J. · 08-19-2009, 03:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Too many people out there that won't admit they are wrong about ANYTHING.

NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!!

My dad fits that description perfectly.

08-18-2009, 07:13 PM	#1
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08-19-2009, 02:44 AM	#8
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08-18-2009, 07:55 PM	#2
Wreckless Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Nov 04, 2007 Location: Banned Posts: 9,406	I am the spokesman for this type of behavior. My dad treats me like sh*t, and makes me out to be the bad person. Totally sick of it. I feel what you're going through Michelle.

08-18-2009, 08:23 PM	#3
sunshinefizzy Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 27, 2006 Location: Craptown Posts: 2,054	Unfortunatly(sp?), people are like that. You just have to remember that you are the bigger, better person and what goes around comes around.

08-18-2009, 11:42 PM	#5
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	Yes, by a co-worker of mine. Thank goodness she won't be there anymore.

08-19-2009, 12:59 AM	#7
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	Too many people out there that won't admit they are wrong about ANYTHING. NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!!

08-19-2009, 12:17 PM	#10
MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,008	I have had this happend to me, even with people who were "friends". It sucks dont it.

08-19-2009, 02:19 PM	#11
browneyes106 Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 01, 2008 Posts: 6,094	It happens a lot in my family with my sister and my mom.