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catlover79 · 07-19-2009, 02:45 PM

OK, I dated a married guy (without knowing it first), I dated a guy who brought his mother along without my consent, and I've been stood up. This morning I learned that the guy I had the biggest crush on in college (which also ended badly when he took up with one of my girlfriends) is now in the process of getting a sex change operation.

My reaction to the news?

ZeldaGilroy · 07-19-2009, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by catlover79

OK, I dated a married guy (without knowing it first), I dated a guy who brought his mother along without my consent, and I've been stood up. This morning I learned that the guy I had the biggest crush on in college (which also ended badly when he took up with one of my girlfriends) is now in the process of getting a sex change operation.

My reaction to the news?

Wow...up until the sex change, I was thinking your love life sounded a lot like mine. You have me beat though!

At least things didn't work out with the two of you or you could be posting that your husband was having a sex change. That would be MUCH worse!

catlover79 · 07-19-2009, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by FactsFan

Wow...up until the sex change, I was thinking your love life sounded a lot like mine. You have me beat though!

At least things didn't work out with the two of you or you could be posting that your husband was having a sex change. That would be MUCH worse!

I told my mom the same thing this morning, Billie. Then again, my parents never liked this guy anyway.

MickeyMac · 07-19-2009, 03:14 PM

Yikes

Your love life sounds as complex as mine.

You wouldnt believe some of the characters I have dated

catlover79 · 07-19-2009, 03:20 PM

That's one of the reasons I love being single so much. Who needs all that crummy drama??

MickeyMac · 07-19-2009, 03:26 PM

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That's one of the reasons I love being single so much. Who needs all that crummy drama??

Not if you meet the right person. I havent met my Miss Right yet, but time will tell.

Janice · 07-19-2009, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by catlover79

That's one of the reasons I love being single so much. Who needs all that crummy drama??

Actually, when a person finds the right person, the crummy drama usually ends. Anyway, looks like you dodged a bullet by not getting involved with this guy/girl?

catlover79 · 07-19-2009, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Actually, when a person finds the right person, the crummy drama usually ends. Anyway, looks like you dodged a bullet by not getting involved with this guy/girl?

I know!! If this had happened 10 years ago, I'd be devastated. I haven't seen or heard from him in over 7 years, so now it's just funny.

Dr. Thong · 07-19-2009, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by catlover79

That's one of the reasons I love being single so much. Who needs all that crummy drama??

Well, there go my plans for asking you out. Damn!!

catlover79 · 07-19-2009, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by MickeyMac

Not if you meet the right person. I havent met my Miss Right yet, but time will tell.

Only time will tell!! For now, I'm happy with the way things are.

Nighthawk76 · 07-19-2009, 04:24 PM

You sure know how to pick them.

beautifuldreamer · 07-19-2009, 04:55 PM

Wow, Monikia... that definitely takes the cake! Never a dull moment with any of your relationships. They would make for good TV movies.

PZelda · 07-19-2009, 04:57 PM

Oh dear.

Now THAT'S something you don't hear about everyday!

Sharop · 07-19-2009, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by FactsFan

At least things didn't work out with the two of you or you could be posting that your husband was having a sex change. That would be MUCH worse!

What would be wrong with someone's husband getting a sex change?

Sex changes are great; I'm wholeheartedly in favour of them. It's wonderful that people who are unhappy with their gender can change to the sex they'd prefer to be.

JamesG · 07-19-2009, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sharop

What would be wrong with someone's husband getting a sex change?

Sex changes are great; I'm wholeheartedly in favour of them. It's wonderful that people who are unhappy with their gender can change to the sex they'd prefer to be.

I'm in favor of sex changes as well. However, I think that if you are gender confused you shouldn't be so quick to get married.

From what I understand these feelings happen at an early age or during the teenage years when hormones are growing. It's not something that a grown adult usually discovers or has feelings about. That's what I gather from reading about it and hearing from people who have gone through with it.

I don't think it's fair to the spouse should the person come and say that they want to get a sex change. I think you should be totally open about this before you both decide to get married.

From my own point of view it is hard. I'm trying to picture my wife coming to me and saying that she wants to become a man. I see that it's not an easy situation and I guess if you really love someone you have to make sacrifices. I really don't know what I would do if it were my spouse.

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MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,008	Yikes Your love life sounds as complex as mine. You wouldnt believe some of the characters I have dated

07-19-2009, 03:20 PM	#5
catlover79 God Bless Val Forum Addict Join Date: May 29, 2006 Location: Bewitched in Ohio Posts: 70,392	That's one of the reasons I love being single so much. Who needs all that crummy drama??

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Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	You sure know how to pick them.

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beautifuldreamer Member Senior Member Join Date: Jan 30, 2009 Location: In a constant state of oblivion Posts: 1,361	Wow, Monikia... that definitely takes the cake! Never a dull moment with any of your relationships. They would make for good TV movies.