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Brad Russ · 05-12-2009, 09:25 PM

Man, I have so many when I think about it, it's actually quite depressing, but I think my biggest is jealousy. I have been a jealous person my whole life, but it's gotten worse over the years. I first started really noticing it when I first broke up with my ex over a year ago. I would get livid when I'd see her talking to other guys in the neighborhood, and I'd get really hurt when she wouldn't want to hang out with me as much as she once did. I've gotten better as far as she goes, but now my big problem is with friends. I get so jealous when I have a great friend who is tight with me, and then all of a sudden, they start treating and talking to others the same way they use to talk with me. It makes me feel dispensible, and played. I have no problem with my friends having other friends, it's just when they start treating others the way they once treated me, while seemingly forgetting about me that hurts. It's embarrassing to admit this, but I just thought I'd be honest. What is your guys' biggest personality flaw??

catlover79 · 05-12-2009, 09:29 PM

Pettiness, selfishness, fearfulness...

EmoJoe · 05-12-2009, 09:35 PM

i dont know how to say no to people.

MickeyMac · 05-12-2009, 09:37 PM

I can be over sensitive at times. For instance sometimes somebody may joke with me, and I will think they are serious. I have been working that, and I still have a ways to go, but I am better than I was about 5 years ago when I took everything way too seriously.

PlayOn · 05-12-2009, 09:50 PM

my temper and mouth are my biggest problems. docs say theirs hope. lol.

Big C · 05-12-2009, 09:53 PM

Anger.

I have a temper problem.

Darren J. · 05-12-2009, 09:56 PM

Not sure offhand. My biggest flaws have absolutely nothing to do with my personality.

PunkyP0WER · 05-12-2009, 10:02 PM

i don't speak up for myself enough. i wish i were more motivated. i have a tendency to be lazy. i'm too self conscious. i'm a pessimistic. how much time do we have.........

steevo · 05-12-2009, 10:23 PM

Very oversensitive. I tend to take things personally where perhaps I shouldn't, like when someone is joking. I sometimes don't know whether they are kidding or serious. It is something I continue to work through.

Nighthawk76 · 05-12-2009, 10:32 PM

I tend to hold grudges. When someone has done me wrong, or I think they have done me wrong, I have a very difficult time being forgiving. When I am feeling down I tend to be needy of other's affections. I am also too sensitive at times. In all these areas I've made improvments, but there is still along way to go.

Faith · 05-12-2009, 10:48 PM

My temper.. and jealously

Schmoopie · 05-12-2009, 11:30 PM

Definitely being sensitive (although I don't think there's anything wrong with being overly sensitive-nor do I really believe in that term), and not being able to stand up for myself and say what I really mean to say without feeling guilty about it.

browneyes106 · 05-13-2009, 12:40 AM

I also have jealousy problems.

LuLu Rogers · 05-13-2009, 12:51 AM

Foot-In-Mouth Disease

Darren J. · 05-13-2009, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

Foot-In-Mouth Disease

My dad is the same way. The sad part is that isn't even the worst part regarding his personality.

05-12-2009, 09:25 PM	#1
Brad Russ Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 17, 2002 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 10,085	Your biggest personality flaw?? Man, I have so many when I think about it, it's actually quite depressing, but I think my biggest is jealousy. I have been a jealous person my whole life, but it's gotten worse over the years. I first started really noticing it when I first broke up with my ex over a year ago. I would get livid when I'd see her talking to other guys in the neighborhood, and I'd get really hurt when she wouldn't want to hang out with me as much as she once did. I've gotten better as far as she goes, but now my big problem is with friends. I get so jealous when I have a great friend who is tight with me, and then all of a sudden, they start treating and talking to others the same way they use to talk with me. It makes me feel dispensible, and played. I have no problem with my friends having other friends, it's just when they start treating others the way they once treated me, while seemingly forgetting about me that hurts. It's embarrassing to admit this, but I just thought I'd be honest. What is your guys' biggest personality flaw??
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05-12-2009, 09:29 PM	#2
catlover79 God Bless Val Forum Addict Join Date: May 29, 2006 Location: Bewitched in Ohio Posts: 70,392	Pettiness, selfishness, fearfulness...
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05-12-2009, 09:35 PM	#3
EmoJoe Cool cool cool Forum Addict Join Date: Apr 23, 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 71,478	i dont know how to say no to people.
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05-12-2009, 09:50 PM	#5
PlayOn ADHD: what I have not who I am Senior Member Join Date: Jun 17, 2006 Location: I'll never tell. :p Posts: 2,745	my temper and mouth are my biggest problems. docs say theirs hope. lol.
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05-12-2009, 10:02 PM	#8
PunkyP0WER Member Senior Member Join Date: May 23, 2008 Location: MACY*S on 34th St. Posts: 1,908	i don't speak up for myself enough. i wish i were more motivated. i have a tendency to be lazy. i'm too self conscious. i'm a pessimistic. how much time do we have.........
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05-12-2009, 09:37 PM	#4
MickeyMac Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 18, 2008 Location: Kalamazoo, Michigan Posts: 19,008	I can be over sensitive at times. For instance sometimes somebody may joke with me, and I will think they are serious. I have been working that, and I still have a ways to go, but I am better than I was about 5 years ago when I took everything way too seriously.

05-12-2009, 09:53 PM	#6
Big C I Heart Angie Watson Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 21, 2006 Posts: 3,531	Anger. I have a temper problem.

05-12-2009, 09:56 PM	#7
Darren J. Member Forum Regular Join Date: Mar 19, 2009 Posts: 692	Not sure offhand. My biggest flaws have absolutely nothing to do with my personality.

05-12-2009, 10:23 PM	#9
steevo It is Green Senior Member Join Date: Dec 28, 2008 Location: Connecticut Posts: 1,476	Very oversensitive. I tend to take things personally where perhaps I shouldn't, like when someone is joking. I sometimes don't know whether they are kidding or serious. It is something I continue to work through.
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05-12-2009, 10:32 PM	#10
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	I tend to hold grudges. When someone has done me wrong, or I think they have done me wrong, I have a very difficult time being forgiving. When I am feeling down I tend to be needy of other's affections. I am also too sensitive at times. In all these areas I've made improvments, but there is still along way to go.

05-12-2009, 10:48 PM	#11
Faith Internet Junkie Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 07, 2002 Location: HELL Posts: 9,879	My temper.. and jealously

05-12-2009, 11:30 PM	#12
Schmoopie Keep Calm and Love Snoopy Forum Star Join Date: Jul 13, 2008 Location: Lynnwood, Washington Posts: 15,697	Definitely being sensitive (although I don't think there's anything wrong with being overly sensitive-nor do I really believe in that term), and not being able to stand up for myself and say what I really mean to say without feeling guilty about it.
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05-13-2009, 12:40 AM	#13
browneyes106 Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 01, 2008 Posts: 6,094	I also have jealousy problems.

05-13-2009, 12:51 AM	#14
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	Foot-In-Mouth Disease
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