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Janice · 05-05-2009, 11:30 PM

Do you remain friends with your EXs, or does it depend how the relationship ended? I'm not friends with my EXs, but I'm friendly if I see them. Two paid their respects when my sisters died. Still, no steady contact. Not for any particular reason either, just time and space keeps us apart.

Nighthawk76 · 05-05-2009, 11:31 PM

No, not really. Usually there are too many hurt feelings involved to stay friends.

Scoobiedoo30 · 05-05-2009, 11:35 PM

No I am not friends with my EX

Darren J. · 05-05-2009, 11:38 PM

The way I see it, they're your ex for a reason. It's probably best to avoid contact as it can create problems with your current boyfriend/girlfriend.

Brian Damage · 05-05-2009, 11:41 PM

I am not friend's with any of my ex's, although that wasn't the case when I got out of the Navy. A couple of them becam booty calls for awhile, but after a bit, it grew tiresome and we went our separate ways.

phoebe7165 · 05-05-2009, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Waking Up Laughing

No, not really. Usually there are too many hurt feelings involved to stay friends.

I agree!! To me, staying friends with an ex would also be too weird for me.

Hollow · 05-05-2009, 11:50 PM

my only ex and i are best friends. i think things would be much smoother though if we had spent some time away from each other after the breakup.

LuLu Rogers · 05-06-2009, 12:13 AM

I'd love to run into my ex's...with my car!

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's

Brad Russ · 05-06-2009, 12:14 AM

Donna is still my best friend, as I usually see her a couple times a week. We started off as friends, and unless we get back together, it's always going to stay that way. She's too special to me to not associate with her. I'm also still friends with an older woman I dated before Donna named Delyla. Infact, I got a couple emails from her this morning, asking me if I could help out her friend again who's moving this week, and needs help with the move, and with fixing up his house and stuff. I said of course I'll help. Those are the only women I've dated that I'm still in contact with.

PunkyP0WER · 05-06-2009, 12:15 AM

i don't know....has hell frozen over yet?

LuLu Rogers · 05-06-2009, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by PunkyP0WER

i don't know....has hell frozen over yet?

EXACTLY!

dawsongirl · 05-06-2009, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

I hope most of mine die a slow and lingering death

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's

You go, girl.

I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.

Darren J. · 05-06-2009, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

I'd love to run into my ex's...with my car!

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I just hope you don't label all guys as jerks. I've seen that far too often.

LuLu Rogers · 05-06-2009, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

You go, girl.

I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.

Check my edited post

Nighthawk76 · 05-06-2009, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

You go, girl.

I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.

Oh, Cathy.

05-05-2009, 11:30 PM	#1
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	Friends with your EXs? Do you remain friends with your EXs, or does it depend how the relationship ended? I'm not friends with my EXs, but I'm friendly if I see them. Two paid their respects when my sisters died. Still, no steady contact. Not for any particular reason either, just time and space keeps us apart.

05-05-2009, 11:35 PM	#3
Scoobiedoo30 Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Jun 27, 2002 Location: KENNER, LOUISIANA Posts: 27,654	No I am not friends with my EX
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05-06-2009, 12:13 AM	#8
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	I'd love to run into my ex's...with my car! I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's
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05-06-2009, 12:14 AM	#9
Brad Russ Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 17, 2002 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 10,085	Donna is still my best friend, as I usually see her a couple times a week. We started off as friends, and unless we get back together, it's always going to stay that way. She's too special to me to not associate with her. I'm also still friends with an older woman I dated before Donna named Delyla. Infact, I got a couple emails from her this morning, asking me if I could help out her friend again who's moving this week, and needs help with the move, and with fixing up his house and stuff. I said of course I'll help. Those are the only women I've dated that I'm still in contact with.
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05-05-2009, 11:31 PM	#2
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	No, not really. Usually there are too many hurt feelings involved to stay friends.

05-05-2009, 11:38 PM	#4
Darren J. Member Forum Regular Join Date: Mar 19, 2009 Posts: 692	The way I see it, they're your ex for a reason. It's probably best to avoid contact as it can create problems with your current boyfriend/girlfriend.

05-05-2009, 11:50 PM	#7
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	my only ex and i are best friends. i think things would be much smoother though if we had spent some time away from each other after the breakup.

05-06-2009, 12:15 AM	#10
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