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LuLu Rogers · 05-05-2009, 02:42 AM

I've been feeling extremely lonely recently. I haven't been in a relationship in over 4 years and the time alone is killing me. No hugs, no kisses, no nothing. I'm the type of person who craves affection, I really don't know what the hell to do. It's killing me.

Nighthawk76 · 05-05-2009, 02:47 AM

As you know, Lauren, I myself am also currently going through a crisis of the heart. I wish I could offer you some advice to make you feel better, but right now when it comes to matters of love, I can't even help myself let alone anyone else. All I can really say is that you are not along. And maybe that will provide you with some comfort.

Brad Russ · 05-05-2009, 02:56 AM

I understand where you're coming from Lauren, and I have those same feelings quite often. Even though I've only been out of a relationship for a year on Mother's Day, it's been a rough year. Sometimes I just want to cross the street and beg Donna to love me again, but I know that wouldn't work. I wish I were their right now to give you a hug, but try to hang in there as best you can, and know that you're not alone. I know that probably doesn't help much, but I hope you'll take some comfort in knowing that there are others in the same boat as you. You will be in my prayers tonight my friend!! Love ya!!!

Hollow · 05-05-2009, 03:02 AM

i know how that feels. the best advice i can give you is to try to meet new people. keep a positive attitude about it and even if you don't find any dating interests right away, it should make you feel better to know that you're channelling away from the loneliness.

Nighthawk76 · 05-05-2009, 10:30 AM

Lauren, I just want you to know that I said a prayer for you before I went to bed last night.

PunkyP0WER · 05-05-2009, 10:35 AM

lauren. honey, i'm just a pm away if you evr want to talk. you are such a beautiful, charming, witty, sensitive girl with everything to offer. they just don't know what they're missing out on. but sweetie, it willl happen, believe me, and when he comes along it will have been worth the wait.

Chocoholic · 05-05-2009, 03:57 PM

You always have us here at SO. As long as you have God and us, you can't be lonely. Have you tried meeting people through church or volunteer work or stuff?

I often feel so lonely and sad myself and that no one really cares for me.

Nighthawk76 · 05-05-2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Chocoholic

You always have us here at SO. As long as you have God and us, you can't be lonely. Have you tried meeting people through church or volunteer work or stuff?

I often feel so lonely and sad myself and that no one really cares for me.

I'm sorry, Kristen.

Even though I only know you a little, you've always come across to me as a sweet girl who is intelligent and has a great sense of humor.

Chocoholic · 05-05-2009, 04:47 PM

Thanks, Mike

TripperFan · 05-05-2009, 05:02 PM

I know exactly how you're feeling sweety. It is an awful feeling isn't it? All you want is to be able to hug and hold someone. Maybe a few, sweet soft kisses to keep you going. I'm very much a physical person also.

There's times I feel like I'm an abandoned animal at the local shelter. I sure know how they feel.

There's actually a little something on it's way to you today LuLu. I know it's not a hug or a kiss from a great guy, but it's the best I could do under the circumstances.

Darren J. · 05-05-2009, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

I've been feeling extremely lonely recently. I haven't been in a relationship in over 4 years and the time alone is killing me. No hugs, no kisses, no nothing. I'm the type of person who craves affection, I really don't know what the hell to do. It's killing me.

I know how you feel. It sucks not having that special someone in your life. Not sure if this makes you feel any better, but I've been single for almost 21 years. Have you tried looking for someone in school, church, or some sort of activity? I personally wouldn't recommend online dating. It seems degrading.

MickeyMac · 05-05-2009, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

I've been feeling extremely lonely recently. I haven't been in a relationship in over 4 years and the time alone is killing me. No hugs, no kisses, no nothing. I'm the type of person who craves affection, I really don't know what the hell to do. It's killing me.

I can relate to that so well. Most of my friends are either in relationships or married. I have this group of friends that get together on Fridays for dinner. Sometimes I go with them and its usually couples and me all by my lonesome. I dont mention this to them but a lot of times I feel left out and out of place because I am single.

That said I try to live my life and go on as best as I can. There are times when I like to be alone and there are times when I wish I was with someone.
Then again I gotta find somebody crazy enough to put up with me.

JAlanRuss72 · 05-05-2009, 06:10 PM

From all the posts I've seen on here from you, I can tell you're an intelligent, inquisitive, thoughtful young woman and deserve the very best in life. Never settle for anything less (even if it takes a while to find it).

catniprules · 05-05-2009, 07:33 PM

I know it sounds crazy, but sometimes, even if you are in a relationship, you can feel comepletely and totally alone.

You get ignored and treated like crap. The hugs and kisses are few and far between. Sometimes, even in a crowded room you can be completely alone... I know it sounds crazy, but it's true.

The only thing you can do is keep your heart and mind open to a relationship. I belive one will happen when you least expect it.

*hugs*

catlover79 · 05-05-2009, 07:44 PM

Extra hugs for Lu!!

05-05-2009, 02:42 AM	#1
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	Loneliness I've been feeling extremely lonely recently. I haven't been in a relationship in over 4 years and the time alone is killing me. No hugs, no kisses, no nothing. I'm the type of person who craves affection, I really don't know what the hell to do. It's killing me.
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05-05-2009, 02:56 AM	#3
Brad Russ Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 17, 2002 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 10,085	I understand where you're coming from Lauren, and I have those same feelings quite often. Even though I've only been out of a relationship for a year on Mother's Day, it's been a rough year. Sometimes I just want to cross the street and beg Donna to love me again, but I know that wouldn't work. I wish I were their right now to give you a hug, but try to hang in there as best you can, and know that you're not alone. I know that probably doesn't help much, but I hope you'll take some comfort in knowing that there are others in the same boat as you. You will be in my prayers tonight my friend!! Love ya!!!
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05-05-2009, 10:35 AM	#6
PunkyP0WER Member Senior Member Join Date: May 23, 2008 Location: MACY*S on 34th St. Posts: 1,908	lauren. honey, i'm just a pm away if you evr want to talk. you are such a beautiful, charming, witty, sensitive girl with everything to offer. they just don't know what they're missing out on. but sweetie, it willl happen, believe me, and when he comes along it will have been worth the wait.
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05-05-2009, 05:02 PM	#10
TripperFan In God's Arms Now Forum Star Join Date: Sep 14, 2003 Location: Heartbreak Ridge Posts: 12,086	I know exactly how you're feeling sweety. It is an awful feeling isn't it? All you want is to be able to hug and hold someone. Maybe a few, sweet soft kisses to keep you going. I'm very much a physical person also. There's times I feel like I'm an abandoned animal at the local shelter. I sure know how they feel. There's actually a little something on it's way to you today LuLu. I know it's not a hug or a kiss from a great guy, but it's the best I could do under the circumstances.
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05-05-2009, 06:10 PM	#13
JAlanRuss72 Eternal Member Eternal Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Nov 22, 2006 Location: Cookeville, TN Posts: 488	From all the posts I've seen on here from you, I can tell you're an intelligent, inquisitive, thoughtful young woman and deserve the very best in life. Never settle for anything less (even if it takes a while to find it).
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05-05-2009, 02:47 AM	#2
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	As you know, Lauren, I myself am also currently going through a crisis of the heart. I wish I could offer you some advice to make you feel better, but right now when it comes to matters of love, I can't even help myself let alone anyone else. All I can really say is that you are not along. And maybe that will provide you with some comfort.

05-05-2009, 03:02 AM	#4
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	i know how that feels. the best advice i can give you is to try to meet new people. keep a positive attitude about it and even if you don't find any dating interests right away, it should make you feel better to know that you're channelling away from the loneliness.

05-05-2009, 10:30 AM	#5
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	Lauren, I just want you to know that I said a prayer for you before I went to bed last night.

05-05-2009, 03:57 PM	#7
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	You always have us here at SO. As long as you have God and us, you can't be lonely. Have you tried meeting people through church or volunteer work or stuff? I often feel so lonely and sad myself and that no one really cares for me.

05-05-2009, 04:47 PM	#9
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	Thanks, Mike

05-05-2009, 07:33 PM	#14
catniprules Nick & Cath's Biggest Fan.... Occasional Poster Join Date: Feb 03, 2009 Location: Toney, AL Posts: 27	I know it sounds crazy, but sometimes, even if you are in a relationship, you can feel comepletely and totally alone. You get ignored and treated like crap. The hugs and kisses are few and far between. Sometimes, even in a crowded room you can be completely alone... I know it sounds crazy, but it's true. The only thing you can do is keep your heart and mind open to a relationship. I belive one will happen when you least expect it. hugs
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05-05-2009, 07:44 PM	#15
catlover79 God Bless Val Forum Addict Join Date: May 29, 2006 Location: Bewitched in Ohio Posts: 70,392	Extra hugs for Lu!!
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