Are any other women besides be offended by "Bride Wars"???? - Sitcoms Online Message Boards

Maddison · 01-09-2009, 05:09 PM

So, judging by the rash of female-based comedies that have been surfacing ("Legally Blonde", "Clueless", "The House Bunny", "Baby Mama" and now "Bride Wars"), apparently the only ways that women can actually be considered legitimately funny are A) by behaving like total airheads, B) being menopausal and C) being catty to one another. Now, we have "Bride Wars", basically about a couple of female friends who actually sabotage each other just to have the wedding of their dreams. Okay, why is it that male-oriented comedies don't rely on these offensive and sexist gimmicks in order to rake in the big bucks. Not to mention that with all the self-esteem issues women and girls are dealing with more than ever nowadays as well as all the cattiness amongst female celebrities as it is, putting out a movie like this is really a bad move. I'm surprised Gloria Steinam hasn't tried to put a stop to these offensive movies, or at least talk about how bad they are for modern day feminism.

MonarC · 01-09-2009, 06:27 PM

In "Legally Blonde" she is actually a smart cookie and I love her dog "Bruiser". All those others are not worth watching.

Dr. Thong · 01-09-2009, 06:42 PM

There are plenty of comedies where the men are portrayed as idiotic slobs. That stereotype is just as prevalent.

Both types of movies apparently sell tickets and make money, so Hollywood continues to make them.

A large enough section of the moviegoing audience must like these movies, which is why they'll keep being made. That's not a defense of stereotyping men or women, just saying that as long as these stereotypes make money and draw audiences, they'll continue to be made.

MonarC · 01-09-2009, 06:46 PM

^ Sad but true.

Maddison · 01-09-2009, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr. Thong

There are plenty of comedies where the men are portrayed as idiotic slobs. That stereotype is just as prevalent.

Both types of movies apparently sell tickets and make money, so Hollywood continues to make them.

A large enough section of the moviegoing audience must like these movies, which is why they'll keep being made. That's not a defense of stereotyping men or women, just saying that as long as these stereotypes make money and draw audiences, they'll continue to be made.

Yeah, but there's a huge difference. Men are actually idiots, but women aren't. We've fought long and hard to gain respect and equality. So, it is far more insulting to depict women in such a disrespectful manner.

Dr. Thong · 01-09-2009, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Maddison

Yeah, but there's a huge difference. Men are actually idiots, but women aren't. We've fought long and hard to gain respect and equality. So, it is far more insulting to depict women in such a disrespectful manner.

I don't know if you're being tongue in cheek with your first comment, but I stand by what I said.

If you're serious with that first comment, well, there's a reason why some men don't respect women. Arrogance isn't a desirable quality whether you're male or female.

sunshinefizzy · 01-09-2009, 11:05 PM

The only thing sad about this movie is the movie all together. C'mon Kate, c'mon Anne, I know you both can do better!!!

catlover79 · 01-09-2009, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by sunshinefizzy

The only thing sad about this movie is the movie all together. C'mon Kate, c'mon Anne, I know you both can do better!!!

Anne Hathaway was interviewed by our local news (Cleveland) and they showed clips. It does look like a stupid flick. I agree with Chelsea - these two actresses can do a lot better than this.

catlover79 · 01-09-2009, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Maddison

Yeah, but there's a huge difference. Men are actually idiots, but women aren't. We've fought long and hard to gain respect and equality. So, it is far more insulting to depict women in such a disrespectful manner.

Now that's just mean. You've said that on other boards, too. There are great guys in SO and out. I just feel sorry for you that you feel that way.

ekkostar · 01-10-2009, 01:04 AM

It just looks like another boring chick movie to me.

Dr. Thong · 01-10-2009, 11:50 AM

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It just looks like another boring chick movie to me.

I think the first movie I saw Kate Hudson in was Almost Famous, which I really liked. I remember thinking, "Wow - she's actually talented" and looking forward to her future works.

But she has fallen into a rut of making one stupid formulaic romantic comedy after another. I think she has the potential to stretch her acting chops, but instead is settling for a big paycheck and not pushing herself. Pity.

TJL · 01-10-2009, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by sunshinefizzy

The only thing sad about this movie is the movie all together. C'mon Kate, c'mon Anne, I know you both can do better!!!

Anne Hathaway's star is on the rise; she's probably going to get an Oscar nod for Rachel Getting Married, so she should choose her non dramatic roles more carefully from now on.

Kate Hudson? She either needs to try harder or fire the people who help her choose scripts.

She's made more bombs than an Al Qaeda.

Janice Johnson · 01-10-2009, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MonarC

In "Legally Blonde" she is actually a smart cookie and I love her dog "Bruiser". All those others are not worth watching.

I was just about to say that.... Elle Woods was actually smart.....

.... I loved how she told that cashier off that was trying to rip her off buy putting the more expensive price on the 'cheaper" dress, because she thought Elle was a 'dumb" blonde..... And Elle did it in a soft, nice way.... She said, "I saw you switch the tags," very quietly.....

She could have easily nmade a scene for all the customers to hear.......

Maddison · 01-10-2009, 12:48 PM

But there is no reason to make the female lead characters in these comedies so airheaded and naieve one minute then catty to one another the next. And what really makes me tick is how often times these characters are fighting over men. Sorry, but women deserve far more respect than that. We are smart, intelligent, strong, brilliant, observant...what are men? Sex-obsessed wastes of sperm and eggs.

JamesG · 01-10-2009, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Maddison

Okay, why is it that male-oriented comedies don't rely on these offensive and sexist gimmicks in order to rake in the big bucks.

Well to argue that, some of the recent male-oriented comedies don't play males in a positive light.

We had The Pineapple Express, College, Knocked Up, Zac and Miri Make A Porno, Harold And Kumar.

Males are portrayed as doing anything for sex, always high and into drugs and cheating, and violent.

01-09-2009, 05:09 PM	#1
Maddison Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Jul 22, 2008 Location: New York, NY Posts: 43	Are any other women besides be offended by "Bride Wars"???? So, judging by the rash of female-based comedies that have been surfacing ("Legally Blonde", "Clueless", "The House Bunny", "Baby Mama" and now "Bride Wars"), apparently the only ways that women can actually be considered legitimately funny are A) by behaving like total airheads, B) being menopausal and C) being catty to one another. Now, we have "Bride Wars", basically about a couple of female friends who actually sabotage each other just to have the wedding of their dreams. Okay, why is it that male-oriented comedies don't rely on these offensive and sexist gimmicks in order to rake in the big bucks. Not to mention that with all the self-esteem issues women and girls are dealing with more than ever nowadays as well as all the cattiness amongst female celebrities as it is, putting out a movie like this is really a bad move. I'm surprised Gloria Steinam hasn't tried to put a stop to these offensive movies, or at least talk about how bad they are for modern day feminism.

01-09-2009, 06:42 PM	#3
Dr. Thong a/k/a "ACK!" Forum Veteran Join Date: Jul 10, 2001 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 5,546	There are plenty of comedies where the men are portrayed as idiotic slobs. That stereotype is just as prevalent. Both types of movies apparently sell tickets and make money, so Hollywood continues to make them. A large enough section of the moviegoing audience must like these movies, which is why they'll keep being made. That's not a defense of stereotyping men or women, just saying that as long as these stereotypes make money and draw audiences, they'll continue to be made.
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01-10-2009, 01:04 AM	#10
ekkostar Coffee, Tea & Larroquette! Senior Member Join Date: Apr 16, 2005 Posts: 1,077	It just looks like another boring chick movie to me.
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01-09-2009, 06:27 PM	#2
MonarC The truth will set you free Forum Fanatic Join Date: Dec 05, 2002 Location: 3rd Stone From The Sun Posts: 9,525	In "Legally Blonde" she is actually a smart cookie and I love her dog "Bruiser". All those others are not worth watching.

01-09-2009, 06:46 PM	#4
MonarC The truth will set you free Forum Fanatic Join Date: Dec 05, 2002 Location: 3rd Stone From The Sun Posts: 9,525	^ Sad but true.

01-09-2009, 11:05 PM	#7
sunshinefizzy Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 27, 2006 Location: Craptown Posts: 2,054	The only thing sad about this movie is the movie all together. C'mon Kate, c'mon Anne, I know you both can do better!!!

01-10-2009, 12:48 PM	#14
Maddison Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Jul 22, 2008 Location: New York, NY Posts: 43	But there is no reason to make the female lead characters in these comedies so airheaded and naieve one minute then catty to one another the next. And what really makes me tick is how often times these characters are fighting over men. Sorry, but women deserve far more respect than that. We are smart, intelligent, strong, brilliant, observant...what are men? Sex-obsessed wastes of sperm and eggs.