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This isn't unusual. For the school kids, it can become a competition. Some children can't afford to give much at all, so I think a limit is a smart idea. It's often done in the workplace. I think $50 is excessive for a teacher's gift. When there are grades or raises involved, as in school and the workplace, it's important to not give off the impression of trying to buy favoritism. Limits are also put on Christmas grabs, Secret Santas among family and friends. This is nothing new.
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i don't see why this is in the news. it isn't new, as janice said. every secret santa i was in at school had a price limit. there's nothing wrong with it.
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i think thats a good idea actually. i think buying expensive gifts is innappropriate and is a conflict of interest. $50 is still being generous, i'd cap it at $20-$25 or less
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I thik there should be a limit too. Personally, I think the best gifts to give a teacher are school supplies and tissues and things like that. I don't think too many people realize how much comes out of our own pockets.
My personal favorite gifts that I've gotten from students is the ones they make themselves
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This is something I'm grappling with myself. I really, really want to get my English professor something nice as a thank you gift (along with a heartfelt card) for being my mentor and being so supportive of me. He's also my advisor for the literary magazine I work on. I know if I give him something from the heart and he rejects it because it's a "conflict of interest" or "too expensive," I'd be utterly crushed. Maybe I'll just wait until I graduate or something.
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