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Theda Bara · 11-23-2008, 10:43 PM

ONE of the worse months in my entire life. I know that November is not even over, but the last few weeks, nothing but bad things have been happening to me.

FIRST. I found out that I might have crevical cancer.
SECOND Both my laptop and my desktop computers break. I have the desktop fixed, but once it arrived back home, the wiring to the keyboard was broken; hence, I need to go out and buy a new one.
THIRD My cell phone, falls out of my purse and literally, smashes into a million pieces on the ground.
FOURTH I have been sick off and on, with a terrible cold.
FIFTHI have been on a couple of the worse dates of my entire life. One time I drove all the way to Mission Viejo from where I live in San Diego (about 50 miles) and the bastard never showed up.
SIXTH Drove all the way to Fullerton, California to see a band, that I always wanted to see. First, Fullerton is an hour and a half away from my home and secondly, I had to wait in line to get into this club. Yes, I missed seeing the band.
SEVENTH. Today, I received one of the nastiest emails, ever. Some dude, over at this site saw my picture and told me that instead of looking my actual age, I looked 48, instead.
EIGHTH I saw the Halloween picture today of the party that I attended to. I looked, freaking horrible. Remind me never to pose in front of a camera, especially if I had more than one cocktail.

I am on the verge of having a nervous breakdown

InspectorExstead · 11-23-2008, 11:06 PM

tara,

. i'm sorry this month has been so horrible & i really hope the biopsy comes back negative for cancer. the douche bag missed out on a date with one awesome person. and for the record, i don't think you look 48 or horrible. i hope december is a much better month for you!

catlover79 · 11-23-2008, 11:36 PM

God loves you and so do I, Tara. If you need to talk, you know where to find me.

Theda Bara · 11-23-2008, 11:41 PM

I honestly think that God is mad at me, because I have not been such a good girl, lately

dawsongirl · 11-24-2008, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

I am on the verge of having a nervous breakdown

Me too, but it's been going on for months. I wish I'd just go nuts and be done with it. I could lock myself away and no one would have to put up with me anymore.

Theda Bara · 11-24-2008, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Me too, but it's been going on for months. I wish I'd just go nuts and be done with it. I could lock myself away and no one would have to put up with me anymore.

Girl, I hear ya

LuLu Rogers · 11-24-2008, 12:26 AM

You know I got your back sweetie, I just had one of the ****tiest days I've had in a long time and I have NO IDEA what to do now. The past 2 years have been pure hell for me, so I can relate. Regardless of all that, you are my most favorite person on the planet, other than Wayne Rogers of course

and that's all that matters!

so elektrikkxx · 11-24-2008, 12:28 AM

awwww i'm really sorry to hear that tara. you're a very nice person and you don't deserve to have such a hard time, and i hope it all gets better

and you don't look your age, but i think you look younger than you are, not older. you definitely don't look 48, or even 40.

catlover79 · 11-24-2008, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

I honestly think that God is mad at me, because I have not been such a good girl, lately

I doubt that (that God is punishing you, not about you being a bad girl.

), but I really admire women like you, Janice, Cathie and Lu. You are all SURVIVORS. You are all so strong.

Janice · 11-24-2008, 12:41 AM

When it rains, it pours. I've seen recent pictures of you, hot stuff. You could pass for 28. That creep knows he doesn't have a chance, so he figured he'd take a swipe at your self-esteem. F him.

Lots of problems with your stuff, i.e. computers, phone. Think of it this way, stuff can be replaced, and people cannot. I'm not minimizing your problems. I hate when people do that. I'm just trying to give you some perspective.

I'm sure you know that cervical cancer is one of the most curable cancers, when detected early. If they got it early, you'll be fine. I'll pray for a good outcome. I know four people that had cervical cancer, including my mother and my sister. Stage 1 and 2 are not usually a problem.

The guy who stood you up. His loss. Please be careful when meeting strangers. Sorry if I sound like your mother. Speaking of your mother, I think of her often when I see you on the boards. I hope she's doing well. I hope you feel good yourself soon. It sounds like you might have a bad allergy problem going on.

Things will settle down, Tara. You're just in a bad phase now. It will pass. You're strong.

LuLu Rogers · 11-24-2008, 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by catlover79

I doubt that (that God is punishing you, not about you being a bad girl.

), but I really admire women like you, Janice, Cathie and Lu. You are all SURVIVORS. You are all so strong.

They are, I dunno about me though, I seem to break down a lot these days.

Theda Bara · 11-24-2008, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Janice

When it rains, it pours. I've seen recent pictures of you, hot stuff. You could pass for 28. That creep knows he doesn't have a chance, so he figured he'd take a swipe at your self-esteem. F him.

Lots of problems with your stuff, i.e. computers, phone. Think of it this way, stuff can be replaced, and people cannot. I'm not minimizing your problems. I hate when people do that. I'm just trying to give you some perspective.

I'm sure you know that cervical cancer is one of the most curable cancers, when detected early. If they got it early, you'll be fine. I'll pray for a good outcome. I know four people that had cervical cancer, including my mother and my sister. Stage 1 and 2 are not usually a problem.

The guy who stood you up. His loss. Please be careful when meeting strangers. Sorry if I sound like your mother. Speaking of your mother, I think of her often when I see you on the boards. I hope she's doing well. I hope you feel good yourself soon. It sounds like you might have a bad allergy problem going on.

Things will settle down, Tara. You're just in a bad phase now. It will pass. You're strong.

Men tell me that I look in my late 20s all the time; then they have a conservation with me, then they realize that I am older, because of maturity and also the fact that I am articulate. I do not know what stage I am in. I find out on the 11th; if I do have a cancer, I am a tough bitch. I can handle it. Also, I am also very keen about meeting strangers. I know the rules, I have been on this planet long enough, to know better. I always meet these guys at a local place, like a bar or a restaurant, never at their homes, etc. AND NEVER at my house. That is never going to happen. I do not reveal a lot of personal information about me, except for my name. Also, when I am on a date, I always pay for my own drinks, etc. So, I will not lead them on, if I am not interested. And, I also take seperate cars. I know there is a lot of weirdos out there, especially in California...

treky · 11-24-2008, 03:50 AM

Awww!!! Tara, honey, I'm really sorry this has been such a bad month for you!!!

I've never seen your picture, but I'm sure you don't look at all like you're 48!!

And I hope everything works out with the cervical cancer, P.M. or e-mail me if you ever want to talk about it, sweetie! You, Laura, and Janice are 3 of the nicest people on here!

treky · 11-24-2008, 03:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

They are, I dunno about me though, I seem to break down a lot these days.

Awww! Lauren, sweetie, I'm sure things will work out for you!!

treky · 11-24-2008, 03:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LuLu Rogers

You know I got your back sweetie, I just had one of the ****tiest days I've had in a long time and I have NO IDEA what to do now. The past 2 years have been pure hell for me, so I can relate. Regardless of all that, you are my most favorite person on the planet, other than Wayne Rogers of course

and that's all that matters!

what's wrong, sweetie? Remember, if you ever want to talk I'm just a P.M. or e-mail away!!!

(you, Tara, and Janice are in my prayers every night!)

And, like I've said before

11-23-2008, 10:43 PM	#1
Theda Bara Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 27, 2006 Posts: 7,154	November 2008, will go down as... ONE of the worse months in my entire life. I know that November is not even over, but the last few weeks, nothing but bad things have been happening to me. FIRST. I found out that I might have crevical cancer. SECOND Both my laptop and my desktop computers break. I have the desktop fixed, but once it arrived back home, the wiring to the keyboard was broken; hence, I need to go out and buy a new one. THIRD My cell phone, falls out of my purse and literally, smashes into a million pieces on the ground. FOURTH I have been sick off and on, with a terrible cold. FIFTHI have been on a couple of the worse dates of my entire life. One time I drove all the way to Mission Viejo from where I live in San Diego (about 50 miles) and the bastard never showed up. SIXTH Drove all the way to Fullerton, California to see a band, that I always wanted to see. First, Fullerton is an hour and a half away from my home and secondly, I had to wait in line to get into this club. Yes, I missed seeing the band. SEVENTH. Today, I received one of the nastiest emails, ever. Some dude, over at this site saw my picture and told me that instead of looking my actual age, I looked 48, instead. EIGHTH I saw the Halloween picture today of the party that I attended to. I looked, freaking horrible. Remind me never to pose in front of a camera, especially if I had more than one cocktail. I am on the verge of having a nervous breakdown

11-23-2008, 11:06 PM	#2
InspectorExstead Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Oct 29, 2001 Location: The Golden State Posts: 12,902	tara, . i'm sorry this month has been so horrible & i really hope the biopsy comes back negative for cancer. the douche bag missed out on a date with one awesome person. and for the record, i don't think you look 48 or horrible. i hope december is a much better month for you!
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11-23-2008, 11:36 PM	#3
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11-24-2008, 12:26 AM	#7
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	You know I got your back sweetie, I just had one of the ****tiest days I've had in a long time and I have NO IDEA what to do now. The past 2 years have been pure hell for me, so I can relate. Regardless of all that, you are my most favorite person on the planet, other than Wayne Rogers of course and that's all that matters!
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11-24-2008, 12:28 AM	#8
so elektrikkxx Member Forum Regular Join Date: Jan 01, 2008 Posts: 554	awwww i'm really sorry to hear that tara. you're a very nice person and you don't deserve to have such a hard time, and i hope it all gets better and you don't look your age, but i think you look younger than you are, not older. you definitely don't look 48, or even 40.
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11-23-2008, 11:41 PM	#4
Theda Bara Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 27, 2006 Posts: 7,154	I honestly think that God is mad at me, because I have not been such a good girl, lately

11-24-2008, 12:41 AM	#10
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	When it rains, it pours. I've seen recent pictures of you, hot stuff. You could pass for 28. That creep knows he doesn't have a chance, so he figured he'd take a swipe at your self-esteem. F him. Lots of problems with your stuff, i.e. computers, phone. Think of it this way, stuff can be replaced, and people cannot. I'm not minimizing your problems. I hate when people do that. I'm just trying to give you some perspective. I'm sure you know that cervical cancer is one of the most curable cancers, when detected early. If they got it early, you'll be fine. I'll pray for a good outcome. I know four people that had cervical cancer, including my mother and my sister. Stage 1 and 2 are not usually a problem. The guy who stood you up. His loss. Please be careful when meeting strangers. Sorry if I sound like your mother. Speaking of your mother, I think of her often when I see you on the boards. I hope she's doing well. I hope you feel good yourself soon. It sounds like you might have a bad allergy problem going on. Things will settle down, Tara. You're just in a bad phase now. It will pass. You're strong.

11-24-2008, 03:50 AM	#13
treky star trek fan Eternal Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 25, 2002 Location: Conshohocken, pennsylvania Posts: 14,490	Awww!!! Tara, honey, I'm really sorry this has been such a bad month for you!!! I've never seen your picture, but I'm sure you don't look at all like you're 48!! And I hope everything works out with the cervical cancer, P.M. or e-mail me if you ever want to talk about it, sweetie! You, Laura, and Janice are 3 of the nicest people on here!
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