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LoveMrsG · 08-30-2008, 12:14 PM

I don't know how to say this...especially since I made such a big deal the other day, but I have utterly made an @$$ of myself. Over the past couple of days, I have been scared out of my mind. So has he. We talked this morning and we realized that it was more than pre-wedding jitters. We realized we didn't know each other nearly well enough; that we were only considering marriage because we were lonely. So, we've called the wedding off and we're just staying friends now and slowing this thing WAY down. We realized we were going WAY too fast. We are staying friends though and we'll see what happens. I do want to thank all you guys though, for being so wonderful and all your best wishes and stuff. I'm so sorry it ended up being a false alarm.

I am really embarrassed, but anyway, you all were so wonderful and thoughtful and I really, REALLY appreciate it.

LoveMrsG (still free and unattached, SO guys...LOL!)

ZeldaGilroy · 08-30-2008, 12:48 PM

Awww...I'm so sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted, but I am very glad you were both able to realize you were rushing things and agreed to put things on hold so there are no hard feelings between the two of you.

Good luck. You never know what will happen next!

Janice · 08-30-2008, 02:31 PM

I'm really sorry that it didn't work out. Perhaps in the future, things will change. Too fast isn't always good.

catlover79 · 08-30-2008, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

I'm really sorry that it didn't work out. Perhaps in the future, things will change. Too fast isn't always good.

Agreed. Take this time to rest and get to know who YOU are before committing yourself to someone...but it was smart to realize what you were doing and before you made a major mistake.

Brian Damage · 08-30-2008, 05:06 PM

I agree, it is never a wise move to get married right away. That is a commitment that should be made when you are 100% sure.

Janice · 08-30-2008, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by catlover79

Agreed. Take this time to rest and get to know who YOU are before committing yourself to someone...but it was smart to realize what you were doing and before you made a major mistake.

It's true Monika. I've found that relationships that catch fire too quickly, often crash and burn just as quickly.

Wreckless · 08-30-2008, 05:47 PM

I'm sorry! I wish you and your hopefully bride to be, the best of luck in the near future and I'm sure you will sort everything out in the best manner. I know you will do the right thing.

Lee · 08-30-2008, 05:54 PM

I hope you two can still be married

Lee · 08-30-2008, 05:56 PM

Hey, FactsFan, is that Lisa Whelchel, Mindy Cohn and Kim Fields from The
Facts Of Life and Miss Piggy and Janice from the Muppets in your avatar?

ZeldaGilroy · 08-30-2008, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Lee

Hey, FactsFan, is that Lisa Whelchel, Mindy Cohn and Kim Fields from The
Facts Of Life and Miss Piggy and Janice from the Muppets in your avatar?

Yeah Lee, that is who I had in my avatar.

I actually just changed it because some people were telling me they didn't recognize Kim and thought she looked like a man. I figured it was time for a new one anyway!

treky · 08-30-2008, 11:00 PM

I'm sorry things didn't work out.

Schmoopie · 08-30-2008, 11:25 PM

I'm sorry to hear that the wedding is off, but I think you made the right decison. It's good that you listened to your heart instead of plunging right in. I'm sure things will work out and please don't feel badly at all. You gave no false information when you announced your engagment. In fact, I think it was one of the smartest things I've ever heard anyone do! I'm glad you are both still friends and who knows what the future will bring?

Andrea

Nighthawk76 · 08-31-2008, 03:27 AM

I'm really sorry to hear this.

Still, taking some time and getting to know each other better might be a good idea in the long run. You both might discover that you both truly do love one another and can still get married in the end.

veggie-tari-jenn · 08-31-2008, 09:15 PM

Awww sorry that it didnt work out...but happy you guys stayed friends and maybe it will work out in the end...Good Luck to you whatever happens.

08-30-2008, 12:14 PM	#1
LoveMrsG Future Emmy-Winning Writer Forum Regular Join Date: Jun 27, 2008 Location: In Mrs. G.'s mind: "Hmm, maybe I didn't know as much as I thought!" Posts: 783	Um...guys... I don't know how to say this...especially since I made such a big deal the other day, but I have utterly made an @$$ of myself. Over the past couple of days, I have been scared out of my mind. So has he. We talked this morning and we realized that it was more than pre-wedding jitters. We realized we didn't know each other nearly well enough; that we were only considering marriage because we were lonely. So, we've called the wedding off and we're just staying friends now and slowing this thing WAY down. We realized we were going WAY too fast. We are staying friends though and we'll see what happens. I do want to thank all you guys though, for being so wonderful and all your best wishes and stuff. I'm so sorry it ended up being a false alarm. I am really embarrassed, but anyway, you all were so wonderful and thoughtful and I really, REALLY appreciate it. LoveMrsG (still free and unattached, SO guys...LOL!)
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08-30-2008, 05:06 PM	#5
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	I agree, it is never a wise move to get married right away. That is a commitment that should be made when you are 100% sure.
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08-30-2008, 11:00 PM	#11
treky star trek fan Eternal Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 25, 2002 Location: Conshohocken, pennsylvania Posts: 14,490	I'm sorry things didn't work out.
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08-30-2008, 11:25 PM	#12
Schmoopie Keep Calm and Love Snoopy Forum Star Join Date: Jul 13, 2008 Location: Lynnwood, Washington Posts: 15,697	I'm sorry to hear that the wedding is off, but I think you made the right decison. It's good that you listened to your heart instead of plunging right in. I'm sure things will work out and please don't feel badly at all. You gave no false information when you announced your engagment. In fact, I think it was one of the smartest things I've ever heard anyone do! I'm glad you are both still friends and who knows what the future will bring? Andrea
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08-30-2008, 12:48 PM	#2
ZeldaGilroy Dobie and Zelda Forever!!! Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 14, 2000 Location: I don't know...I'm probably lost! Posts: 4,144	Awww...I'm so sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted, but I am very glad you were both able to realize you were rushing things and agreed to put things on hold so there are no hard feelings between the two of you. Good luck. You never know what will happen next!

08-30-2008, 02:31 PM	#3
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	I'm really sorry that it didn't work out. Perhaps in the future, things will change. Too fast isn't always good.

08-30-2008, 05:47 PM	#7
Wreckless Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Nov 04, 2007 Location: Banned Posts: 9,406	I'm sorry! I wish you and your hopefully bride to be, the best of luck in the near future and I'm sure you will sort everything out in the best manner. I know you will do the right thing.

08-30-2008, 05:54 PM	#8
Lee veteran member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Pulaski, Tennessee Posts: 4,766	I hope you two can still be married

08-30-2008, 05:56 PM	#9
Lee veteran member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 23, 2001 Location: Pulaski, Tennessee Posts: 4,766	Hey, FactsFan, is that Lisa Whelchel, Mindy Cohn and Kim Fields from The Facts Of Life and Miss Piggy and Janice from the Muppets in your avatar?

08-31-2008, 03:27 AM	#13
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	I'm really sorry to hear this. Still, taking some time and getting to know each other better might be a good idea in the long run. You both might discover that you both truly do love one another and can still get married in the end.

08-31-2008, 09:15 PM	#14
veggie-tari-jenn SARCASTIC COUPON PRINCESS!! Eternal Member Senior Member Join Date: Aug 13, 2008 Posts: 1,882	Awww sorry that it didnt work out...but happy you guys stayed friends and maybe it will work out in the end...Good Luck to you whatever happens.