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80s_Fan · 06-12-2008, 08:56 PM

Tell me if this has ever happened to you because it has happened to me now twice. You are sitting on a bus or metro, and a total stranger sits beside you, and very discreetly touches you on your thing, leg; whatever.
He thinks that you don't feel it and or it's turning you on; how did you handle it? Did you make a scene or just kept quiet about it?

Once I was in the metro, and a guy was touching me but, I didn't say or do anything. And now tonight on my way home on the bus, this guy was touching my thigh, and I said or did nothing until I was about to get off and I saw his hand on my thigh; I told him (in french); are you finished touching me?

He mumbled to himself and went to sit in another seat; in front where we were before. I told him; that it's enough now but, I didn't make a scene.
I noticed he kept looking at me but, thought nothing of it.

Now, when I think about it; I should've yelled at him or something but, didn't want everyone to look at me and make trouble. Also, it would be his word against mine cause nobody else saw him; he was very discreet about it but, I know what I felt.

It made me nervous and sick to my stomach, to have a stranger touch me.

If it ever happens again; I will make a scene because people have to be aware of these perverts who think that they can do this to anyone.

Courtnee · 06-13-2008, 06:15 PM

Mhm, that's happened to me. Very disturbing.

InspectorExstead · 06-13-2008, 10:56 PM

i've only ridden the bus a couple of times, but that's never happened to me. i've always just sat by myself on the aisle seat & placed my purse on the window seat. thankfully it's never been busy, so i never had to move myself. but it would definitely disturb me if something like that happened. don't be afraid to say something loudly. if you're uncomfortable, let the entire bus know about it. it's disturbing that stuff like this can happen to people on the bus.

Max Whittaker · 06-13-2008, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 80s_Fan

Also, it would be his word against mine cause nobody else saw him; he was very discreet about it but, I know what I felt.

Your word is all you need to have him kicked off the bus! Don't let yourself be taken advantage of! It doesn't matter if nobody else saw, yell and shout and scream! Make your boundaries known! He knows what he was doing was wrong and could get him into trouble...

I am very sorry this has happened. Please don't let it happen again.

God! The ****ing perverts in this bloody world.... Decency and courtesy to a woman isn't so easy to find anymore....

No excuses. He was in the wrong. You should not take that from anyone. Unbelievable....

catlover79 · 06-14-2008, 10:51 AM

I agree with Max!! Thank goodness, that has never happened to me, but even sitting next to a man I don't know makes me nervous. *shudders*

waichingliu81 · 06-14-2008, 12:49 PM

it happened to me before in the past. the guy was standing behind me on the bus and this sicko rubbed his **** on my thigh. i felt embarassed and sickened when he was doing this. yes i should've shouted for help but i didn't want to cause a scene to the other passengers. the people who do this are just sick perverts who get the kick out of doing something nasty like this. they should have their balls cut off

sunshinefizzy · 06-14-2008, 02:48 PM

Oh, goodness, I'm sorry to any woman that has happened to. It has never happened to me but if it did I'd be freaking right the hell out!!!

Hollow · 06-14-2008, 05:28 PM

in my first year of high school there was a guy who would start humping me at random times.
oh, that was a horrible year.

dawsongirl · 06-14-2008, 06:04 PM

Eww...I get creeped out enough being stared at at stoplights be skeevy-looking dudes in the car next to me; I can't imagine being touched.

I have a rather large personal-space boundry, so I'd do everything I can to avoid being next to a stranger in the first place.

catlover79 · 06-15-2008, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Eww...I get creeped out enough being stared at at stoplights be skeevy-looking dudes in the car next to me; I can't imagine being touched.

I have a rather large personal-space boundry, so I'd do everything I can to avoid being next to a stranger in the first place.

Same here!!!

LuLu Rogers · 06-15-2008, 12:11 AM

I worked with a guy who would come up behind me and rub or grab my ass *shudders*

06-12-2008, 08:56 PM	#1
80s_Fan Healthcare_Clerk Senior Member Join Date: May 26, 2004 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 1,697	This Is For The Ladies Only Tell me if this has ever happened to you because it has happened to me now twice. You are sitting on a bus or metro, and a total stranger sits beside you, and very discreetly touches you on your thing, leg; whatever. He thinks that you don't feel it and or it's turning you on; how did you handle it? Did you make a scene or just kept quiet about it? Once I was in the metro, and a guy was touching me but, I didn't say or do anything. And now tonight on my way home on the bus, this guy was touching my thigh, and I said or did nothing until I was about to get off and I saw his hand on my thigh; I told him (in french); are you finished touching me? He mumbled to himself and went to sit in another seat; in front where we were before. I told him; that it's enough now but, I didn't make a scene. I noticed he kept looking at me but, thought nothing of it. Now, when I think about it; I should've yelled at him or something but, didn't want everyone to look at me and make trouble. Also, it would be his word against mine cause nobody else saw him; he was very discreet about it but, I know what I felt. It made me nervous and sick to my stomach, to have a stranger touch me. If it ever happens again; I will make a scene because people have to be aware of these perverts who think that they can do this to anyone.

06-13-2008, 06:15 PM	#2
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	Mhm, that's happened to me. Very disturbing.
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06-14-2008, 10:51 AM	#5
catlover79 God Bless Val Forum Addict Join Date: May 29, 2006 Location: Bewitched in Ohio Posts: 70,376	I agree with Max!! Thank goodness, that has never happened to me, but even sitting next to a man I don't know makes me nervous. shudders
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06-14-2008, 12:49 PM	#6
waichingliu81 debbie allen Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 28, 2006 Location: london, england, UK Posts: 4,347	it happened to me before in the past. the guy was standing behind me on the bus and this sicko rubbed his **** on my thigh. i felt embarassed and sickened when he was doing this. yes i should've shouted for help but i didn't want to cause a scene to the other passengers. the people who do this are just sick perverts who get the kick out of doing something nasty like this. they should have their balls cut off
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06-14-2008, 02:48 PM	#7
sunshinefizzy Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 27, 2006 Location: Craptown Posts: 2,054	Oh, goodness, I'm sorry to any woman that has happened to. It has never happened to me but if it did I'd be freaking right the hell out!!!

06-14-2008, 05:28 PM	#8
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	in my first year of high school there was a guy who would start humping me at random times. oh, that was a horrible year.

06-14-2008, 06:04 PM	#9
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,128	Eww...I get creeped out enough being stared at at stoplights be skeevy-looking dudes in the car next to me; I can't imagine being touched. I have a rather large personal-space boundry, so I'd do everything I can to avoid being next to a stranger in the first place.

06-15-2008, 12:11 AM	#11
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	I worked with a guy who would come up behind me and rub or grab my ass shudders
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