Girls, How To Tell Your Man Probably Wants To Be Cut Loose From The Relationship - Sitcoms Online Message Boards

Janice Johnson · 02-11-2008, 03:18 PM

Just in time for Valentine's Day, and from my experience(I just recently broke up with my boyfriend)

1. He doesn't call or talk to you for days, and when he finally does, you can count on one hand the minutes you actually talk to him.

2. He hypothetically tells you that he would buy condoms, but wouldn't use them on you(Hmm. He may be implying that he wants to be free to date other girls).

3. You haven't seen him since December 2007, and when he finally gets the chance to see you, he stands you up.

4. You haven't talked to him since January 2008.

5. He gets upset when you get upset because he hasn't called or text you. he calls you a mean girl.

6.He has no desire to meet your parents, even though you streesed to him how important it is to you that he meet your parents.

7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively). He could secretly hope you have another boyfriend, so that he can dump you and vbe free of the relationship.

8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out."

These are some big signs that he may not want to be in the relationship anymore.

RoryGilmore · 02-11-2008, 03:24 PM

9. You guys normally say "love you" at the end of a conversation. You still say it but he says me too or ditto. But he wont say love you.

Hollow · 02-11-2008, 03:45 PM

7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively).
probably indicates that he WANTS to be in the relationship, but is really insecure and paranoid. unhealthy, nonetheless.

8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out."
that could easily mean that he's concerned about the relationship and wants to save it rather than end it. some problems can be worked out.

but anyway, i suppose i could contribute. he suddenly urges you to get rid of him, and seems happy that you do, but starts treating you like garbage for no apparent reason.

Kazza · 02-12-2008, 11:08 AM

You'll see signs on the guy if he wants out the door...
I am too busy
I have other plans,
Today is not possible, tomorrow either...
I think I was falling in love with you but now I'm not,
You need a makeover (instead of saying I would like for you to cut/grow your hair),
I think you are texting me too much and I have a life you know
You have kids? I don't want them

Courtnee · 02-12-2008, 10:23 PM

How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

Max Whittaker · 02-12-2008, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Courtnee

How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

If we could all be more honest about our feelings, both going in and going out of a relationship, we'd all be a lot happier. I hate mind games. Not interested in playing. Or being played...

Janice Johnson · 02-13-2008, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Courtnee

How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

It could be that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he takes the "easy" way out.

Courtnee · 02-13-2008, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice Johnson

It could be that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he takes the "easy" way out.

It seems very immature to me.

coffield3 · 02-13-2008, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Courtnee

How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

02-11-2008, 03:18 PM	#1
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,740	Girls, How To Tell Your Man Probably Wants To Be Cut Loose From The Relationship Just in time for Valentine's Day, and from my experience(I just recently broke up with my boyfriend) 1. He doesn't call or talk to you for days, and when he finally does, you can count on one hand the minutes you actually talk to him. 2. He hypothetically tells you that he would buy condoms, but wouldn't use them on you(Hmm. He may be implying that he wants to be free to date other girls). 3. You haven't seen him since December 2007, and when he finally gets the chance to see you, he stands you up. 4. You haven't talked to him since January 2008. 5. He gets upset when you get upset because he hasn't called or text you. he calls you a mean girl. 6.He has no desire to meet your parents, even though you streesed to him how important it is to you that he meet your parents. 7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively). He could secretly hope you have another boyfriend, so that he can dump you and vbe free of the relationship. 8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out." These are some big signs that he may not want to be in the relationship anymore.

02-11-2008, 03:24 PM	#2
RoryGilmore Always and Forever Forum Veteran Join Date: Oct 30, 2004 Location: Wherever he is, that's where I'll be Posts: 6,528	9. You guys normally say "love you" at the end of a conversation. You still say it but he says me too or ditto. But he wont say love you.
	__________________ I have died everyday, waiting for you Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years I'll love you for a thousand more And all along I believed, I would find you Time has brought your heart to me, I have loved you for a thousand years I'll love you for a thousand more

02-12-2008, 10:23 PM	#5
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?
	__________________ Whether I'm the rose of sheer perfection A freckle on the nose of life's complexion The Cinderella or the shine apple of its eye I gotta fly once, I gotta try once, Only can die once, right, sir? Ooh, life is juicy, juicy and you see, I gotta have my bite, sir. Get ready for me love, 'cause I'm a "comer" I simply gotta march, my heart's a drummer Don't bring around the cloud to rain on my parade

02-11-2008, 03:45 PM	#3
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively). probably indicates that he WANTS to be in the relationship, but is really insecure and paranoid. unhealthy, nonetheless. 8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out." that could easily mean that he's concerned about the relationship and wants to save it rather than end it. some problems can be worked out. but anyway, i suppose i could contribute. he suddenly urges you to get rid of him, and seems happy that you do, but starts treating you like garbage for no apparent reason.

02-12-2008, 11:08 AM	#4
Kazza Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 17, 2003 Posts: 3,244	You'll see signs on the guy if he wants out the door... I am too busy I have other plans, Today is not possible, tomorrow either... I think I was falling in love with you but now I'm not, You need a makeover (instead of saying I would like for you to cut/grow your hair), I think you are texting me too much and I have a life you know You have kids? I don't want them