Texas mother leaves her 6 kids alone while she goes off to marry man in Africa

[Ireneparalegal]

By LINDSAY WISE
Copyright 2008 Houston Chronicle

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A Harris County woman could face child endangerment charges after allegedly leaving eight children home alone while she traveled to Africa to marry a man she met on the Internet, authorities said Thursday.

Charges are pending against the woman, whose name was withheld Thursday. She reportedly flew to Nigeria on Monday, leaving the children with little food and no money.

Veteran Harris County authorities said the children's case is one of the saddest they've seen.

"It's just terrible," said Lt. John Martin of the Harris County Sheriff's Office.

A deputy making a welfare check at a home in the 11000 block of Barker Grove Lane in Cypress about 7:30 p.m. on Wednesday found six children between the ages of 1 and 9 alone inside, Martin said.

"At first the children would not answer the door, but the deputy managed to persuade them to let him in," he said. "What he found inside the house was just deplorable conditions. There was trash everywhere, roaches everywhere. He said every item of clothing in the house was dirty and there was very little food."

The children told the deputy their mother had left several days ago and they didn't know how to reach her, Martin said.

"The children were given no way to contact the mother, even if there was some kind of emergency," he said.

Later on Wednesday night a 15-year-old girl arrived at the house and told authorities her mother had flown to Nigeria on New Year's Eve.

The teen said her mother left her in charge of four siblings — a 1-year-old boy, a 7-year-old boy, an 8-year-old girl and a 9-year-old boy, said Estella Olguin, a spokeswoman for Child Protective Services. The teen was also caring for a neighbor's 3-year-old boy and 4-year-old girl, Olguin said.

Investigators spoke with the neighbor, who said he regularly left his two toddlers at the woman's house while he worked. The man said he didn't know the conditions inside the home were so bad, Olguin said.

The neighbor, who authorities did not identify, told investigators he had driven the woman to the airport for a one- to two-month trip to Africa, where she planned to marry a man she'd met online.

The neighbor said the woman had told him that her sister was due to arrive by bus from New Orleans to look after the children.The sister, however, had not arrived by the time deputies discovered the children alone three days later, Olguin said.

Investigators are in the process of contacting the sister and other relatives to confirm the story and find out what happened, she said.

CPS is also investigating the neighbor, Olguin said.

Meanwhile, the children have been placed in foster homes, she said.

The children's situation first came to authorities' attention after the 15-year-old crashed her mother's van into the garage on Monday, Olguin said. The teen called a volunteer child advocate, terrified.

"She wanted to run away because she was afraid how her mother was going to react," Olguin said.

She said the teen was simply overwhelmed by the responsibility of caring for so many other children.

"There was no food in the home and mom didn't leave them any money," Olguin said. "The 15-year-old said she had to steal food and diapers."

The burden of caring for the others fell on the teenager because her older sister, who is 16, spends most of her time out of the house with friends and her 14-year-old and 18-year-old brothers are serving time in juvenile detention and prison for robbery and aggravated assault, respectively, Olguin said.

The family apparently evacuated to LaPorte from New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina and then evacuated to Houston from LaPorte after Hurricane Rita, she said.

Hungry and scared, the children are otherwise healthy, Olguin said, although the 1-year-old baby appeared to be malnourished.

"They're little survivors," she said.

Burt and Stasia Venecia were walking by the home where the children lived Thursday night, shocked by the damage to the garage door and the news that children in their neighborhood were neglected.

"You work hard and move to a nice neighborhood and never in a million years think that this will happen down the street," Burt Venecia said.

Another neighbor, who asked not to be identified, said he isn't surprised to learn that the children next door were left alone for days. The family, who moved from Louisiana to Texas after Hurricane Katrina, have had problems, he added.

"But it's not the kids' fault. I still can't believe that we were throwing out food next door at our house and they had no food," he said.

"I hope they're in a better place," he said. "They don't stand a chance at a good life in that home."

[Mikado]

This story had me holding back tears; that woman deserves to lose her children forever..........and should be sterilised so she cant bring more kids into the World

[Hollow]

way to go, bitch.

[phoebe7165]

OK, am I counting 10 kids in all that this lady has? She doesn't deserve to have 1 kid much less 10!! And she can afford to go to Africa but apparently doesn't take care of her kids financially? Better yet she should use the money she's using to go to Africa and get herself fixed, too! I have a feeling the guy she's going to Africa for is probably paying for her trip.

Some people just disgust me.

[LuLu Rogers]

Originally Posted by safety pin

way to go, bitch.

My thoughts exactly. I'd tell you all what I think of this bitch, but this is a family board.

[catlover79]

[oz615]

Plus why the **** is the police and media "witholding" the name of the woman,i mean if a father did this,his name would already be plastered all over the news and stuff.

[Hollow]

Originally Posted by phoebe7165

OK, am I counting 10 kids in all that this lady has?

the article gets really confusing....i understand the gist of the story but i read it over three times and couldnt stop getting lost at about 1/3 of the way through.

[Mikado]

Originally Posted by oz615

Plus why the **** is the police and media "witholding" the name of the woman,i mean if a father did this,his name would already be plastered all over the news and stuff.

True but, i have a feeling this was done to protect the children, rather than the Mother

[freshprinceofLA]

well we the first nomination for the bonehead of 2008 ALREADY

[oz615]

Originally Posted by Mikado

True but, i have a feeling this was done to protect the children, rather than the Mother

i guess ,but still though

[Ireneparalegal]

Where is (are) the father of these children anyways?

[Dean Winchester]

who would make a spur of the moment trip to Africa to get married to begin with?

[Ireneparalegal]

Originally Posted by Dean Winchester

who would make a spur of the moment trip to Africa to get married to begin with?

A lonely old b*tch with 10 kids and no daddy around obviously. And to think, she met that man on the internet.

[Dean Winchester]

Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

A lonely old b*tch with 10 kids and no daddy around obviously. And to think, she met that man on the internet.

"kids, mommy is going away for a week, I'll be back with your new Daddy, B!xou"