The Advice thread!

[Janice Johnson]

I've decided to make a thread just for giving and getting advice!

[Holly]

Ok good. I need advice really bad.. Ive been having problems with this girl at work, and my friend that used to work there but not nomore she moved to AZ, but she still talks to this "girl" I work with still. and she sends me convo's all the time " only if this girl talks about me" well lately shes been talking to me, and she after she talked about me, the next day she gave me a Christmas Card, but I gave the Card back to this girl because i don't accept people's cards if they "treat me like i'm a piece of crap" Then she has the nerve to tell my friend that lives in AZ that i am Jenkel and Hyde and i dont do that crap , and she was saying she doesnt trust me blah blah, Then she gave me the card, so after i read all that crap in the email my friend sent me, i gave it back to the girl saying i cant accept the card, she said why? i said the only time you talk to me is for AVON and Coffee money The she said i was being Petty and childish but don't you think she is being childish by talking behind my back to my friend? " I don't get people" I didnt mention the part , because I don't want my friend to be mad at me the one who lives in AZ, I don't want the other girl to know her and i talk. so its really hard for me now at my job, i really wanna show my boss the convo she had with my friend in AZ, but Again I don't want my friend from AZ to be mad at m yanno? " I AM CONFUSED" I talked to the co-worker who sits acrossed from me, and i showed her the convo between my friend and the co-worker, she told me to let it go this time. but today the girl gave me some work to do she just Slammed the work on my desk she slammed it so hard the girl who sits acrossed from me scared her. i dont know, should i tell the boss, or let it go?

[Janice Johnson]

Originally Posted by Holly

Ok good. I need advice really bad.. Ive been having problems with this girl at work, and my friend that used to work there but not nomore she moved to AZ, but she still talks to this "girl" I work with still. and she sends me convo's all the time " only if this girl talks about me" well lately shes been talking to me, and she after she talked about me, the next day she gave me a Christmas Card, but I gave the Card back to this girl because i don't accept people's cards if they "treat me like i'm a piece of crap" Then she has the nerve to tell my friend that lives in AZ that i am Jenkel and Hyde and i dont do that crap , and she was saying she doesnt trust me blah blah, Then she gave me the card, so after i read all that crap in the email my friend sent me, i gave it back to the girl saying i cant accept the card, she said why? i said the only time you talk to me is for AVON and Coffee money The she said i was being Petty and childish but don't you think she is being childish by talking behind my back to my friend? " I don't get people" I didnt mention the part , because I don't want my friend to be mad at me the one who lives in AZ, I don't want the other girl to know her and i talk. so its really hard for me now at my job, i really wanna show my boss the convo she had with my friend in AZ, but Again I don't want my friend from AZ to be mad at m yanno? " I AM CONFUSED" I talked to the co-worker who sits acrossed from me, and i showed her the convo between my friend and the co-worker, she told me to let it go this time. but today the girl gave me some work to do she just Slammed the work on my desk she slammed it so hard the girl who sits acrossed from me scared her. i dont know, should i tell the boss, or let it go?

If I were you, I would ignore the hell out of this girl who is talking behind my back.