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TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 03:00 PM

WAITER???-lol It's like Your date and the Waiter is giving you the gentleman test and he seems to come to the table A LOT MORE than he would if you were out with your family-lol

Last night I'm out on a date with the most beautiful women in the city of Philadelphia under 35 and the Waiter just keep coming to the table asking if we are ok, INTERRUPTING Me while I was telling her how beautful she was and striking up a conversation with my date. I was like-"I KNOW I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS BECAUSE FIRST IMPRESSIONS LAST FOREVER but I was so close to losing it

Any other guys feel WAITERS are more ANNOYING on purpose when you are out on a first date?-lol

Max Whittaker · 12-02-2007, 03:20 PM

He probably wanted a tip. He's probably trying to pay for college.

Probably didn't care whether you were on your first date.

TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Max Whittaker

He probably wanted a tip. He's probably trying to pay for college.

Probably didn't care whether you were on your first date.

Yeah but his agressiveness for a TIP interfere with me trying to work my MAGIC on the date-lol I was telling her how beautful her eyes was and he says-"ARE YALL OK?? I am glad she said-"Ok now you what were you saying about my eyes?

lol

OH Nuts! · 12-02-2007, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

WAITER???-lol It's like Your date and the Waiter is giving you the gentleman test and he seems to come to the table A LOT MORE than he would if you were out with your family-lol

Last night I'm out on a date with the most beautiful women in the city of Philadelphia under 35 and the Waiter just keep coming to the table asking if we are ok, INTERRUPTING Me while I was telling her how beautful she was and striking up a conversation with my date. I was like-"I KNOW I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS BECAUSE FIRST IMPRESSIONS LAST FOREVER but I was so close to losing it

Any other guys feel WAITERS are more ANNOYING on purpose when you are out on a first date?-lol

Coming over once is OK but multiple times? Yes your irritation is justified. A good waiter does not interrupt diners continuously--was there any reason he kept doing this. Were you there long time & the place very busy? Something else? If not, then he is just not an astute waiter. Usually asking for the check the 2nd time ends this and letting them know when they bring it you will take it to the cashier yourself and pay it--so he doesn't come over a 3rd time.

TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by rich p

Coming over once is OK but multiple times? Yes your irritation is justified. A good waiter does not interrupt diners continuously--was there any reason he kept doing this. Were you there long time & the place very busy? Something else? If not, then he is just not an astute waiter. Usually asking for the check the 2nd time ends this and letting them know when they bring it you will take it to the cashier yourself and pay it--so he doesn't come over a 3rd time.

He was attracted to my date probably-lol I did think it was ODD to constantly come over and say-"Is Everything oK??

Ireneparalegal · 12-02-2007, 04:22 PM

Hey, you said you never compliment a woman when you are out eating. Did you break your own rule?

TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

Hey, you said you never compliment a woman when you are out eating. Did you break your own rule?

Yes I did-lol

TripperFan · 12-02-2007, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Max Whittaker

He probably wanted a tip. He's probably trying to pay for college.

Probably didn't care whether you were on your first date.

So all the more reason he should have been able to "read" the situation and the body language and LEAVE DA MAN ALONE!!

Seriously - I used to wait tables in my early twenties and the best tip I ever got was because I left the couple alone and even made sure tables around them were left vacant (we weren't that busy at the time anyway). Funny - I swear they were having some sort of affair - she was something else and he's all flashy with the cream suit and all. He ordered our finest cognac - I think it was something like $60 a bottle back then (1980) and then tipped me $20. I got the hint real quick! hehe I think I only approached when she got up to go to the washroom and asked if there was anything else.

That was a dumbass waiter!

Hope you get a second date! You old smoothie you!

Janice · 12-02-2007, 05:08 PM

The only thing worse than the disappearing waiter is the hovering waiter.

TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

The only thing worse than the disappearing waiter is the hovering waiter.

You ain't lying about that

Janice · 12-02-2007, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by KingofTVResearch

You ain't lying about that

Solomon, I did a Google Image search for a picture of Sabrina Labeauf, and came up with your avatar, top row, lol.

http://images.google.com/images?q=Sabrina+Labeauf+&gbv=2&ndsp=20&svnum=10&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&start=40&sa=N

Cactus Jack · 12-02-2007, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Solomon, I did a Google Image search for a picture of Sabrina Labeauf, and came up with your avatar, top row, lol.

http://images.google.com/images?q=Sabrina+Labeauf+&gbv=2&ndsp=20&svnum=10&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&start=40&sa=N

LOL

Hollow · 12-02-2007, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Solomon, I did a Google Image search for a picture of Sabrina Labeauf, and came up with your avatar, top row, lol.

http://images.google.com/images?q=Sabrina+Labeauf+&gbv=2&ndsp=20&svnum=10&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&start=40&sa=N

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wtf?

TVFactFan · 12-02-2007, 10:33 PM

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LOL,

dawsongirl · 12-03-2007, 12:28 AM

I'd have been scared off if a guy went on and on about how pretty I was on a first date. lol

12-02-2007, 03:00 PM	#1
TVFactFan Member Forum Junkie Join Date: Aug 17, 2002 Posts: 99,101	Guys, why does it seem like when you are on a first date you are being TESTED by the WAITER???-lol It's like Your date and the Waiter is giving you the gentleman test and he seems to come to the table A LOT MORE than he would if you were out with your family-lol Last night I'm out on a date with the most beautiful women in the city of Philadelphia under 35 and the Waiter just keep coming to the table asking if we are ok, INTERRUPTING Me while I was telling her how beautful she was and striking up a conversation with my date. I was like-"I KNOW I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS BECAUSE FIRST IMPRESSIONS LAST FOREVER but I was so close to losing it Any other guys feel WAITERS are more ANNOYING on purpose when you are out on a first date?-lol

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12-02-2007, 03:20 PM	#2
Max Whittaker I want Serenity back Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 30, 2001 Posts: 6,180	He probably wanted a tip. He's probably trying to pay for college. Probably didn't care whether you were on your first date.

12-02-2007, 05:08 PM	#9
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	The only thing worse than the disappearing waiter is the hovering waiter.

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dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	I'd have been scared off if a guy went on and on about how pretty I was on a first date. lol