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RoryGilmore · 09-25-2007, 07:52 PM

Okay so I'm a pretty social person as some of you know and I've got 4 friends that are in this big fight firght now, we'll call them 1,2,3,4. So back in 2005 1 was dating this guy and 4 fooled around with him, and so Wednesday , two years later, 1 2 and 3 finds out about what 4 did and are all really pissed at 4. Aslo 3 liked this guy over the summer and 4 had a relationshio with him last year and were still really close, so 4 and this guy had sex over the summer. so now 3 is pissed at 4 about that. and 2, well 2 is 1 and 3's best friend so is automatically on there side, buy I heard 1 3 and 's stories today and then they say pick a side. What the hell am I supposed to do? I'm friends with all of them!

If this confuses anybody I'm sorry!

Courtnee · 09-25-2007, 08:29 PM

Good Lord!

My advice is get friends who don't have so much baggage and drama.

Ireneparalegal · 09-25-2007, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Courtnee

Good Lord!

My advice is get friends who don't have so much baggage and drama.

Bingo! Good advice.

I would tell each and everyone of those friends that what they do in their private life/social life is their own doing and not to try and get you involved in their mess, especially when they seem to have no concern or respect for each other's feelings as girlfriends and as for the guy, he is a loser who could care less that 1,2,3 and 4 are all friends..

*ClassicPinUp* · 09-25-2007, 09:55 PM

I'd start with telling 4 to stop sleeping around

. And as for the rest of them.. tell them not to drag you into their drama and honestly (if I were in your shoes) if they keep saying you need to "pick a side" I'd drop them all and find other friends who wouldn't put you in that type of situation.

RoryGilmore · 09-25-2007, 10:07 PM

Yeah I know but what makes it even more complex is 4 is my yearbook partner and I'm stuck with her till December

09-25-2007, 07:52 PM	#1
RoryGilmore Always and Forever Forum Veteran Join Date: Oct 30, 2004 Location: Wherever he is, that's where I'll be Posts: 6,528	What would you guys do (need some advice) Okay so I'm a pretty social person as some of you know and I've got 4 friends that are in this big fight firght now, we'll call them 1,2,3,4. So back in 2005 1 was dating this guy and 4 fooled around with him, and so Wednesday , two years later, 1 2 and 3 finds out about what 4 did and are all really pissed at 4. Aslo 3 liked this guy over the summer and 4 had a relationshio with him last year and were still really close, so 4 and this guy had sex over the summer. so now 3 is pissed at 4 about that. and 2, well 2 is 1 and 3's best friend so is automatically on there side, buy I heard 1 3 and 's stories today and then they say pick a side. What the hell am I supposed to do? I'm friends with all of them! If this confuses anybody I'm sorry!
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09-25-2007, 08:29 PM	#2
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	Good Lord! My advice is get friends who don't have so much baggage and drama.
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09-25-2007, 09:55 PM	#4
ClassicPinUp ***** Senior Member** Join Date: Oct 28, 2006 Posts: 2,246	I'd start with telling 4 to stop sleeping around. And as for the rest of them.. tell them not to drag you into their drama and honestly (if I were in your shoes) if they keep saying you need to "pick a side" I'd drop them all and find other friends who wouldn't put you in that type of situation.
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09-25-2007, 10:07 PM	#5
RoryGilmore Always and Forever Forum Veteran Join Date: Oct 30, 2004 Location: Wherever he is, that's where I'll be Posts: 6,528	Yeah I know but what makes it even more complex is 4 is my yearbook partner and I'm stuck with her till December