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Madame X · 09-21-2007, 02:22 AM

Here is a photo of Lucy and Desi's last moment as Lucy and Ricky in 1960. Lucy filed for divorce the next morning.

coffield3 · 09-21-2007, 06:38 AM

Aaww, im choking up here

comedyfreak · 09-21-2007, 08:06 AM

Aww, that is sad that they wouldn't be together again.

*ClassicPinUp* · 09-21-2007, 08:12 AM

I never knew Lucy filed for divorce the next morning! I'll never look at that episode in the same way again.

Did Desi know she was doing this? Or was it a surprise to him? I know they had problems but I'm just curious as to whether or not he knew it was final? (I'm in the process of reading their books but until then.. gotta ask lol).

That's so sad. They really were the perfect couple IMO with that never ending love for each other.

Ireneparalegal · 09-21-2007, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by AndAwayWeGo

I never knew Lucy filed for divorce the next morning! I'll never look at that episode in the same way again.

Did Desi know she was doing this? Or was it a surprise to him? I know they had problems but I'm just curious as to whether or not he knew it was final? (I'm in the process of reading their books but until then.. gotta ask lol).

That's so sad. They really were the perfect couple IMO with that never ending love for each other.

I would like to know as well. Did Desi know?

God, their relationship at times mirrored my own relationship with my ex-husband (late ex-husband). Though we divorced and had a few hard years filled with hate and rage towards each other, we eventually became friends again and when he passed, I was devastated. I know that is how it was for Lucy and Desi. They couldn't remain married, but deep down inside, they had a love that no one could touch. They shared children and they knew that even though they couldn't be a married couple, it didn't stop the love they had for each other. They said some great things abt each other and I think that is a great lesson for people who have divorced and have children.

coffield3 · 09-21-2007, 03:27 PM

I wished theyd of stayed together, i wonder why they divorced?

Madame X · 09-21-2007, 03:56 PM

Here are some excerpts from Lucy's autobiography, Love, Lucy, (in her own words):

"The following spring (1959), I made my last effort towards a reconciliation with Desi."

"Big Desi was restless, uncommunicative and bored. When he wasn't drinking, he spent most of his time on the phone with the studio or checking the Del Mar racetrack, where his horses were running. I was completely disenchanted, bitter, and unforgiving...and the kids saw and heard way too much."

"Desi and I came back from our trip (to Europe) not speaking. He moved into the guesthouse and then went abroad again, alone this time, for several months."

"I was able to accept our situation for many years because it was our secret. Anonymity is a great thing when you're unhappy. But when Desi made it public domain, I knew I couldn't be publicly embarrassed any longer."

"And Desi's conduct toward me in front of other people became more and more humiliating."

It is horrible for us fans to hear this, but that's how it was. I believe they really loved each other but there were too many other things going on. Let's face it, Desi was a drinker, smoker, womanizer and gambler.

Lucy admits she wasn't perfect, but I think she really tried. In later years I saw their home movies and it was evident they loved each other and still enjoyed each other's company. Too bad people make irreversable mistakes.

So you make the call. Was Lucy's divorce announcement a surprise to Desi?

Ireneparalegal · 09-21-2007, 03:59 PM

Well, whether she told him or not abt her filing for divorce, Desi should not have been surprised by it. I mean, he created the rift that caused Lucy to eventually throw in the towel and give up. I know from what I read, Lucy tried desperately to make things work, she really loved Desi. But Desi felt like he could treat Lucy like a doormat. That she would always be there and put up with whatever he dished out. So, in essence I am sure he was surprised that Lucy did finally give up and filed for divorce.

Madame X · 09-21-2007, 04:10 PM

Here is a photo in the last episode "Lucy Meets the Moustache," where Edie Adams sings "That's All." It was so touching. Lucy cried all through this episode because she knew what it meant: the end of her marriage, and the last time she, Desi, Vivian and Bill would ever be together.

Notice Lucy's face and notice Desi's obliviousness.

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Ireneparalegal · 09-21-2007, 04:25 PM

I feel so bad for Lucy and Desi. I mean, these are two people who should have remained together. It was fate. Desi had his faults and issues and paid dearly for that.

Thanx Stacy for that beautiful but sad pic.

NOVARick · 09-21-2007, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by AndAwayWeGo

I never knew Lucy filed for divorce the next morning! I'll never look at that episode in the same way again.

Did Desi know she was doing this? Or was it a surprise to him?

Yes, Desi knew Lucy would be filing for divorce. In fact, they only had one attorney between them handling the whole divorce proceeding. They knew for months they were getting divorced, but because of obligations to CBS, decided they had to wait until those obligations were fulfilled before proceeding with the divorce. They had been separated for months. Desi decided to let Lucy go through with the divorce uncontested.

Madame X · 09-21-2007, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by NOVARick

Yes, Desi knew Lucy would be filing for divorce. In fact, they only had one attorney between them handling the whole divorce proceeding. They knew for months they were getting divorced, but because of obligations to CBS, decided they had to wait until those obligations were fulfilled before proceeding with the divorce. They had been separated for months. Desi decided to let Lucy go through with the divorce uncontested.

Yes, that is why the last episode is so touching. With her listening to that song, and the way Desi nustled her in the final scene, it is gut-wrenching for all who knew what was happening.

*ClassicPinUp* · 09-21-2007, 04:50 PM

Thanks everyone for your answers.

All of it is just so sad.

At least they are together again now.

Ireneparalegal · 09-21-2007, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AndAwayWeGo

Thanks everyone for your answers.

All of it is just so sad.

At least they are together again now.

Oh most definitely. I can imagine Desi with open arms as Lucy entered eternity with him.

What happened to Gary Morton?

*ClassicPinUp* · 09-21-2007, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

Oh most definitely. I can imagine Desi with open arms as Lucy entered eternity with him.

Same here

09-21-2007, 02:22 AM	#1
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coffield3 <3 Forum Veteran Join Date: Jul 23, 2006 Location: England Posts: 7,379	I wished theyd of stayed together, i wonder why they divorced?

09-21-2007, 03:56 PM	#7
Madame X Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 15, 2006 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,831	Here are some excerpts from Lucy's autobiography, Love, Lucy, (in her own words): "The following spring (1959), I made my last effort towards a reconciliation with Desi." "Big Desi was restless, uncommunicative and bored. When he wasn't drinking, he spent most of his time on the phone with the studio or checking the Del Mar racetrack, where his horses were running. I was completely disenchanted, bitter, and unforgiving...and the kids saw and heard way too much." "Desi and I came back from our trip (to Europe) not speaking. He moved into the guesthouse and then went abroad again, alone this time, for several months." "I was able to accept our situation for many years because it was our secret. Anonymity is a great thing when you're unhappy. But when Desi made it public domain, I knew I couldn't be publicly embarrassed any longer." "And Desi's conduct toward me in front of other people became more and more humiliating." It is horrible for us fans to hear this, but that's how it was. I believe they really loved each other but there were too many other things going on. Let's face it, Desi was a drinker, smoker, womanizer and gambler. Lucy admits she wasn't perfect, but I think she really tried. In later years I saw their home movies and it was evident they loved each other and still enjoyed each other's company. Too bad people make irreversable mistakes. So you make the call. Was Lucy's divorce announcement a surprise to Desi?

09-21-2007, 03:59 PM	#8
Ireneparalegal LEGAL SPICE ;) Forum Legend Join Date: Jul 25, 2005 Location: OXNARD, CA - WHERE THE DALLAS COWBOYS TRAIN & PRACTICE Posts: 38,691	Well, whether she told him or not abt her filing for divorce, Desi should not have been surprised by it. I mean, he created the rift that caused Lucy to eventually throw in the towel and give up. I know from what I read, Lucy tried desperately to make things work, she really loved Desi. But Desi felt like he could treat Lucy like a doormat. That she would always be there and put up with whatever he dished out. So, in essence I am sure he was surprised that Lucy did finally give up and filed for divorce.

09-21-2007, 04:10 PM	#9
Madame X Member Senior Member Join Date: Sep 15, 2006 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,831	Here is a photo in the last episode "Lucy Meets the Moustache," where Edie Adams sings "That's All." It was so touching. Lucy cried all through this episode because she knew what it meant: the end of her marriage, and the last time she, Desi, Vivian and Bill would ever be together. Notice Lucy's face and notice Desi's obliviousness.

09-21-2007, 04:25 PM	#10
Ireneparalegal LEGAL SPICE ;) Forum Legend Join Date: Jul 25, 2005 Location: OXNARD, CA - WHERE THE DALLAS COWBOYS TRAIN & PRACTICE Posts: 38,691	I feel so bad for Lucy and Desi. I mean, these are two people who should have remained together. It was fate. Desi had his faults and issues and paid dearly for that. Thanx Stacy for that beautiful but sad pic.

09-21-2007, 04:50 PM	#13
ClassicPinUp ***** Senior Member** Join Date: Oct 28, 2006 Posts: 2,246	Thanks everyone for your answers. All of it is just so sad. At least they are together again now.