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Brad Russ · 05-09-2007, 09:52 PM

At this point in my life, I'm really wanting to be in a long term relationship. For the last three years, I've basically been doing the dating thing, and you might even say I was a serial dater at one point in time. Over the last few months though, after a couple really bad dating experiences I had, I've basically been staying away from the dating world, and have just been taking time to see where I want to go in my life, and what I want to do. On one hand, I know I'm not ready for a serious relationship, just for the simple fact that I'm not where I want to be in my life right now. Not too many women out there searching for jobless, carless guys, who live with their mom's.

On the otherhand though, I am making alot of changes in my life, as I'm getting ready to go back to school, I'm working on getting my drivers license, and I have really made alot of progress in my social life, and in interacting with others. I don't know though, I just really love the idea of having one person who you're absolutely crazy about to come home to everynight, to listen to talk about her day, and to lay next to and hold each and everynight. That's something I'm craving, and really needing right now. It's strange because if you would have told me two years ago that one day I'd be dying to be in a LTR, I'd have said you were crazy, but that's exactly where I am at right now. Amazing how your feelings on these kinds of things can change in such short periods of time.

Anyway, where are all of you in your love live's right now, and where do you hope to be in the future??

Brian Damage · 05-09-2007, 10:12 PM

I am happily married with two beautiful little girls. I would eventually like to have at least one more before I retire. LOL

Janice · 05-09-2007, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Brian Damage

I am happily married with two beautiful little girls. I would eventually like to have at least one more before I retire. LOL

One more what, one night stand?

Number 9 Dream · 05-09-2007, 10:18 PM

Aw, Brad, I hope you find that girl for you

You deserve it--you're such a nice guy!

I'm basically in the same boat you are except I haven't even dated for the past few years. The last long term relationship (or anything really) was in 2001, and I was pretty turned off on dating for a while after that.

Thing is, I really don't have the confidence to just approach guys I find cute or whatever because I'm afraid they'll just laugh at me and tell me to go away. I don't feel like I'm the type of girl they'd want, I don't know. Guys constantly tell me how I'm such an open person, like I'm 'one of the guys'. They tell me about their relationships or girls they want to hook up with. For once, I want to be the one they want to be with!

And it's weird because I know I'm not unattractive, dumb, or uninteresting...I guess I'm just not good enough, I don't know.

But, yeaaahh, I'm single and pretty much missing being in a relationship.

Brian Damage · 05-09-2007, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

One more what, one night stand?

Interested?

Janice · 05-09-2007, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Brian Damage

Interested?

Stop that, lol. I'm old enough to be your hot older sister.

Brian Damage · 05-09-2007, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Stop that, lol. I'm old enough to be your hot older sister.

Mr. Stefani · 05-09-2007, 10:45 PM

I was just in a relationship for 3 years that pretty much killed my interests in them so i'm gonna say i just want to have fun at this point in my life. i'd like to find a nice classy girl i can take home to mom but i cant seem to find one

*CHAD* · 05-09-2007, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Little Mel

At this point in my life, I'm really wanting to be in a long term relationship. For the last three years, I've basically been doing the dating thing, and you might even say I was a serial dater at one point in time. Over the last few months though, after a couple really bad dating experiences I had, I've basically been staying away from the dating world, and have just been taking time to see where I want to go in my life, and what I want to do. On one hand, I know I'm not ready for a serious relationship, just for the simple fact that I'm not where I want to be in my life right now. Not too many women out there searching for jobless, carless guys, who live with their mom's.

On the otherhand though, I am making alot of changes in my life, as I'm getting ready to go back to school, I'm working on getting my drivers license, and I have really made alot of progress in my social life, and in interacting with others. I don't know though, I just really love the idea of having one person who you're absolutely crazy about to come home to everynight, to listen to talk about her day, and to lay next to and hold each and everynight. That's something I'm craving, and really needing right now. It's strange because if you would have told me two years ago that one day I'd be dying to be in a LTR, I'd have said you were crazy, but that's exactly where I am at right now. Amazing how your feelings on these kinds of things can change in such short periods of time.

Anyway, where are all of you in your love live's right now, and where do you hope to be in the future??

Right now i'm not in relationship. I'm just trying to take it day by day. Last year My brother past away so i think about him and my lost family most of the time. I have try to go on some dates this year but they just don't work out and i always get hurt in the end. What i want in the future is to be just happy & in love with someone.

Nighthawk76 · 05-09-2007, 11:16 PM

I'm very single right now. This is the way I want it for the time being though, so I can't complain.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 05-09-2007, 11:18 PM

I'm pretty sure I'm in love with someone I'll never be able to have, and I'm too stubborn to let go. I hate my life.

Brieannas21 · 05-09-2007, 11:24 PM

I've been happily married for almost 5 years now, and we have two little girls.

dawsongirl · 05-09-2007, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Little Mel

Not too many women out there searching for jobless, carless guys, who live with their mom's.

Am I the only girl who doesn't care if a guy still lives with mom? Just curious.

Anyway, I'm in a relationship. Working on a year and a half. Not ready for marriage, babies, anything like that. I'm 27 going on 15.

dawsongirl · 05-09-2007, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by *Pleasant Tomorrow*

I'm pretty sure I'm in love with someone I'll never be able to have, and I'm too stubborn to let go. I hate my life.

That was me for 8 years. It's a very frustrating feeling.

Brad Russ · 05-10-2007, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Am I the only girl who doesn't care if a guy still lives with mom? Just curious.

For my sake, I sure hope not.

05-09-2007, 09:52 PM	#1
Brad Russ Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 17, 2002 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 10,085	Relationships, dating, one night stands, where are you in your love life?? At this point in my life, I'm really wanting to be in a long term relationship. For the last three years, I've basically been doing the dating thing, and you might even say I was a serial dater at one point in time. Over the last few months though, after a couple really bad dating experiences I had, I've basically been staying away from the dating world, and have just been taking time to see where I want to go in my life, and what I want to do. On one hand, I know I'm not ready for a serious relationship, just for the simple fact that I'm not where I want to be in my life right now. Not too many women out there searching for jobless, carless guys, who live with their mom's. On the otherhand though, I am making alot of changes in my life, as I'm getting ready to go back to school, I'm working on getting my drivers license, and I have really made alot of progress in my social life, and in interacting with others. I don't know though, I just really love the idea of having one person who you're absolutely crazy about to come home to everynight, to listen to talk about her day, and to lay next to and hold each and everynight. That's something I'm craving, and really needing right now. It's strange because if you would have told me two years ago that one day I'd be dying to be in a LTR, I'd have said you were crazy, but that's exactly where I am at right now. Amazing how your feelings on these kinds of things can change in such short periods of time. Anyway, where are all of you in your love live's right now, and where do you hope to be in the future??
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05-09-2007, 10:12 PM	#2
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	I am happily married with two beautiful little girls. I would eventually like to have at least one more before I retire. LOL
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05-09-2007, 10:18 PM	#4
Number 9 Dream That '70s Girl Forum Veteran Join Date: Jan 18, 2005 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,875	Aw, Brad, I hope you find that girl for you You deserve it--you're such a nice guy! I'm basically in the same boat you are except I haven't even dated for the past few years. The last long term relationship (or anything really) was in 2001, and I was pretty turned off on dating for a while after that. Thing is, I really don't have the confidence to just approach guys I find cute or whatever because I'm afraid they'll just laugh at me and tell me to go away. I don't feel like I'm the type of girl they'd want, I don't know. Guys constantly tell me how I'm such an open person, like I'm 'one of the guys'. They tell me about their relationships or girls they want to hook up with. For once, I want to be the one they want to be with! And it's weird because I know I'm not unattractive, dumb, or uninteresting...I guess I'm just not good enough, I don't know. But, yeaaahh, I'm single and pretty much missing being in a relationship.
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05-09-2007, 11:18 PM	#11
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	I'm pretty sure I'm in love with someone I'll never be able to have, and I'm too stubborn to let go. I hate my life.
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05-09-2007, 10:45 PM	#8
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	I was just in a relationship for 3 years that pretty much killed my interests in them so i'm gonna say i just want to have fun at this point in my life. i'd like to find a nice classy girl i can take home to mom but i cant seem to find one

05-09-2007, 11:16 PM	#10
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	I'm very single right now. This is the way I want it for the time being though, so I can't complain.

05-09-2007, 11:24 PM	#12
Brieannas21 Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Apr 05, 2004 Location: Texas Posts: 9,792	I've been happily married for almost 5 years now, and we have two little girls.