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Theda Bara · 05-01-2007, 10:35 PM

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Janice · 05-01-2007, 11:44 PM

I have had that happen to me a couple of times, and it's always so confusing. There's just no getting into someone else's head. I'll bet she's jealous of you. You're very pretty, and let me take a wild guess here, she's not?

Brian Damage · 05-01-2007, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice

I have had that happen to me a couple of times, and it's always so confusing. There's just no getting into someone else's head. I'll bet she's jealous of you. You're very pretty, and let me take a wild guess here, she's not?

It has happened to me and it hurt bad, but after time, I didn't give a rat's a$$. LOL

Eddie Haskell · 05-02-2007, 02:49 AM

It's happened to me a few times. I just have the person killed and move on. It's quite satisfying really.

ponytail · 05-02-2007, 06:55 AM

In school I had a friend who was nice to me, but one day she invited me over to her house and treated me awful, plus she even told her dog to attack me. She justed laughed. I don't know what I did for her to do this to me.

Belair · 05-02-2007, 08:04 AM

Please, people like that just aren't worth your time. Dont bother. I've known a ton of *******s like that and the best revenge is to say nothing. I dont waste my time with 'what did i do wrong?' I couldn't care less, and thats my advice to anyone else.

Courtnee · 05-02-2007, 01:43 PM

I know it hurts, but you shouldn't worry about her. It might be hard, but just put that lady and her stupid face beind you.

You're a great person and you don't need to be treated this way!

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 05-02-2007, 03:11 PM

I used to be crazy about this one kid...he was a friend of mine and he sort of had this awkward but funny personality just like me. The way he would talk to me and look at me sort of drew me in. I never really knew anyone that would just come up to me and talk to me ALL the time for no reason other than that he seemed to like me as a friend. I thought we had at least a little something, but we probably didn't. Anyway, I always just liked being around him and we would talk a lot in 10th grade, 11th...until one day he just randomly started to avoid me, or so it seemed. It was like all of a sudden he changed his mind about me and didn't feel like talking to me anymore. I thought I did something wrong and it really hurt. We still don't talk anymore. Sometimes we don't even acknowledge each other...and for no reason, and that's always going to hurt me because I'll never know why it turned out like that seeing as we'll be graduating soon. Things like that kill me.

So...maybe it's not even a big deal, people grow apart. But like you I'm sensative. I need answers. In your situation she seems even more cruel about it. I'm sorry

Sharop · 05-02-2007, 07:19 PM

I'm sorry that happened. I know how you must feel; I'd be confused and hurt if that happened to me.

Unfortunately, I don't really have any advice, except to say that you should probably do your best to try not to bother about it.

dawsongirl · 05-03-2007, 01:08 AM

She sounds just like my friends from high school. Women.

Chocoholic · 05-04-2007, 03:46 PM

I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I had a good friend do that to me back in high school. She always acted like I didn't exist when whe were with other girls. I eventually stopped trying.

I hate to admit it, but I recently gave a friend of mine the brush-off. She had other friends drop her like that before, and after awhile I fully understood why. She was the most self-centered individual I have ever met. I hung on for awhile, but eventually I started making any excuse to not hang out with her or talk to her. It was a juvenile thing to do and I feel bad about it, but I just could not get it through her thick head that if she wants to get more people interested in her then she needs to start getting interested in other people. That doesn't sound like it in your case.

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Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	I know it hurts, but you shouldn't worry about her. It might be hard, but just put that lady and her stupid face beind you. You're a great person and you don't need to be treated this way!
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Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	I used to be crazy about this one kid...he was a friend of mine and he sort of had this awkward but funny personality just like me. The way he would talk to me and look at me sort of drew me in. I never really knew anyone that would just come up to me and talk to me ALL the time for no reason other than that he seemed to like me as a friend. I thought we had at least a little something, but we probably didn't. Anyway, I always just liked being around him and we would talk a lot in 10th grade, 11th...until one day he just randomly started to avoid me, or so it seemed. It was like all of a sudden he changed his mind about me and didn't feel like talking to me anymore. I thought I did something wrong and it really hurt. We still don't talk anymore. Sometimes we don't even acknowledge each other...and for no reason, and that's always going to hurt me because I'll never know why it turned out like that seeing as we'll be graduating soon. Things like that kill me. So...maybe it's not even a big deal, people grow apart. But like you I'm sensative. I need answers. In your situation she seems even more cruel about it. I'm sorry
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05-01-2007, 11:44 PM	#2
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	I have had that happen to me a couple of times, and it's always so confusing. There's just no getting into someone else's head. I'll bet she's jealous of you. You're very pretty, and let me take a wild guess here, she's not?

05-02-2007, 06:55 AM	#5
ponytail Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 20, 2004 Location: In Happy, Healthy, Wealthyville Posts: 4,273	In school I had a friend who was nice to me, but one day she invited me over to her house and treated me awful, plus she even told her dog to attack me. She justed laughed. I don't know what I did for her to do this to me.

05-02-2007, 08:04 AM	#6
Belair Back@SO&Loveit! Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 13, 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 5,925	Please, people like that just aren't worth your time. Dont bother. I've known a ton of *******s like that and the best revenge is to say nothing. I dont waste my time with 'what did i do wrong?' I couldn't care less, and thats my advice to anyone else.

05-03-2007, 01:08 AM	#10
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	She sounds just like my friends from high school. Women.

05-04-2007, 03:46 PM	#11
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	I'm sorry that had to happen to you. I had a good friend do that to me back in high school. She always acted like I didn't exist when whe were with other girls. I eventually stopped trying. I hate to admit it, but I recently gave a friend of mine the brush-off. She had other friends drop her like that before, and after awhile I fully understood why. She was the most self-centered individual I have ever met. I hung on for awhile, but eventually I started making any excuse to not hang out with her or talk to her. It was a juvenile thing to do and I feel bad about it, but I just could not get it through her thick head that if she wants to get more people interested in her then she needs to start getting interested in other people. That doesn't sound like it in your case.