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Janice Johnson · 03-15-2007, 02:25 PM

Remember the love of my life, Ryan? http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...d.php?t=178190

Well, he dumped me.........................

We're officially broken up............................. He moved to Broward for a little while, and when he came back to Miami, I had to hear from one of his co-workers that he was back in Miami and when I called Ryan, I knew something was wrong when I realized he didn't seem to happy to hear from me. He said, "Who told you I was back in Miami(in not a very happy tone). I didn't tell him the person's name, because with Ryan's tone, I figured Ryan's co-worker could be in a lot of trouble if I named the co-worker. So, I simply said, "Some guy told me." I asked if I could speak to him for five minutes and he said, I'm really busy." , so we hung up. When I spoke to him again, I was excited of the prospect of becoming a receptionist(A job agency had sent me on an interview to become a receptionist), I said, 'Guess what?" he said, 'I don't care what. Don't ever call me again. Have a nice life," and then hung up the phone.

At least I had a little buffer......... The buffer was Ryan's tone when I called him the first day, so that helped with the pain....................(I kind of could see this coming from his tone the first time I spoke to him).

Max Whittaker · 03-15-2007, 02:58 PM

Ouch! I'm sorry. Damn! That's a hell of a way to break up with someone!

Lex Luthor · 03-15-2007, 03:12 PM

Breaking up with someone you love is extremely hard and I am sure it has hurt quite abit. Sometimes you can't help falling for the wrong people and even though they may seem bad for you it doesn't change how you feel.

From reading the previous thread it sounds like there were many warning signs and people offered some good advice but you were blinded by your feelings for him. I am sure that right now it hurts quite a bit but to be truthful, this guy seems like a total punk.

I am sure in time you will find that breaking up with him was one of the more fortunate events in your life. I am sorry for what you are going through now but count your blesings that he did not get you pregnant and then leave.

You will bounce bask and be far better off in the long run

Take Care

AB · 03-15-2007, 03:55 PM

I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time with this guy. Not all guys
behave so badly but you're going to run into a few who do.

Kazza · 03-15-2007, 07:25 PM

What a jerk!

Hope you can move on and heal soon.

mrs.gingerhinkley · 03-15-2007, 08:51 PM

forget loser guys like that! you don't need anyone that's so mean.
single life ain't to bad.
sob, not that i'm dealing with it wonderfully... but that's just 'cause i'm madly in love with someone who i'm not sure thinks I exsist! woe is me.
but, I hope you feel better soon!

dawsongirl · 03-15-2007, 08:52 PM

geez...what an ass.

Hollow · 03-15-2007, 11:43 PM

oh dear....i know how you feel. to not only have someone you love hurt you, but remain in love with them. it truly hurts like hell. remember to respect his wishes though if you still love him...and use everything you have to pull through.

PrettyinPink55 · 03-16-2007, 01:20 AM

Wow! The way he broke up with you....what a jerk!!! I think you're better off without him!!

rusyd · 03-16-2007, 04:51 PM

I'm sorry you are hurting right now. He's sounds like a real jerk! Hope you feel better soon.

Scoobiedoo30 · 03-16-2007, 05:00 PM

I am sorry to here about your Break up

Janice · 03-16-2007, 05:46 PM

I'm sure it doesn't feel like it now, but someday you'll realize that this creep did you a favor. I'm sorry you're hurting. Heartbreak is a bitch.

Nighthawk76 · 03-16-2007, 06:19 PM

I'm sorry, Janice.

Courtnee · 03-16-2007, 06:29 PM

That guy is a dick.

Courtnee · 03-16-2007, 06:29 PM

That guy is a dick.

03-15-2007, 02:25 PM	#1
Janice Johnson Commercial Lover Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: May 30, 2003 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 4,740	Ryan dumped me Remember the love of my life, Ryan? http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...d.php?t=178190 Well, he dumped me......................... We're officially broken up............................. He moved to Broward for a little while, and when he came back to Miami, I had to hear from one of his co-workers that he was back in Miami and when I called Ryan, I knew something was wrong when I realized he didn't seem to happy to hear from me. He said, "Who told you I was back in Miami(in not a very happy tone). I didn't tell him the person's name, because with Ryan's tone, I figured Ryan's co-worker could be in a lot of trouble if I named the co-worker. So, I simply said, "Some guy told me." I asked if I could speak to him for five minutes and he said, I'm really busy." , so we hung up. When I spoke to him again, I was excited of the prospect of becoming a receptionist(A job agency had sent me on an interview to become a receptionist), I said, 'Guess what?" he said, 'I don't care what. Don't ever call me again. Have a nice life," and then hung up the phone. At least I had a little buffer......... The buffer was Ryan's tone when I called him the first day, so that helped with the pain....................(I kind of could see this coming from his tone the first time I spoke to him).

03-15-2007, 02:58 PM	#2
Max Whittaker I want Serenity back Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 30, 2001 Posts: 6,180	Ouch! I'm sorry. Damn! That's a hell of a way to break up with someone!
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03-15-2007, 03:12 PM	#3
Lex Luthor I'm bringing Lexy back Senior Member Join Date: Jun 07, 2005 Location: The Great White North Posts: 2,374	Breaking up with someone you love is extremely hard and I am sure it has hurt quite abit. Sometimes you can't help falling for the wrong people and even though they may seem bad for you it doesn't change how you feel. From reading the previous thread it sounds like there were many warning signs and people offered some good advice but you were blinded by your feelings for him. I am sure that right now it hurts quite a bit but to be truthful, this guy seems like a total punk. I am sure in time you will find that breaking up with him was one of the more fortunate events in your life. I am sorry for what you are going through now but count your blesings that he did not get you pregnant and then leave. You will bounce bask and be far better off in the long run Take Care
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03-15-2007, 08:51 PM	#6
mrs.gingerhinkley Bette Davis Fan Senior Member Join Date: Jan 06, 2007 Posts: 2,478	That really isn't cool. forget loser guys like that! you don't need anyone that's so mean. single life ain't to bad. sob, not that i'm dealing with it wonderfully... but that's just 'cause i'm madly in love with someone who i'm not sure thinks I exsist! woe is me. but, I hope you feel better soon!
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03-16-2007, 01:20 AM	#9
PrettyinPink55 Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 11, 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 24,601	Wow! The way he broke up with you....what a jerk!!! I think you're better off without him!!
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03-15-2007, 03:55 PM	#4
AB Member Eternal Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 26, 2006 Location: The South Posts: 59,428	I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time with this guy. Not all guys behave so badly but you're going to run into a few who do.

03-15-2007, 07:25 PM	#5
Kazza Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 17, 2003 Posts: 3,244	What a jerk! Hope you can move on and heal soon.

03-15-2007, 08:52 PM	#7
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	geez...what an ass.

03-15-2007, 11:43 PM	#8
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	oh dear....i know how you feel. to not only have someone you love hurt you, but remain in love with them. it truly hurts like hell. remember to respect his wishes though if you still love him...and use everything you have to pull through.

03-16-2007, 04:51 PM	#10
rusyd Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 30, 2004 Posts: 13,505	I'm sorry you are hurting right now. He's sounds like a real jerk! Hope you feel better soon.

03-16-2007, 05:00 PM	#11
Scoobiedoo30 Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Jun 27, 2002 Location: KENNER, LOUISIANA Posts: 27,654	I am sorry to here about your Break up
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03-16-2007, 05:46 PM	#12
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	I'm sure it doesn't feel like it now, but someday you'll realize that this creep did you a favor. I'm sorry you're hurting. Heartbreak is a bitch.

03-16-2007, 06:19 PM	#13
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	I'm sorry, Janice.

03-16-2007, 06:29 PM	#14
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	That guy is a dick.
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