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orderandlaw · 03-10-2007, 10:20 AM

I kinda do, I guess. I don't usually automatically hate someone if I just met them, but when I do meet people I often know whether I'd possibly want to date them or not within seconds of being around them. If my mind is fixed on them being just friends or otherwise not datable that's the way they're stuck. Sometimes people who fall into the dating category will be placed in another non-dating category after I get to know them, and then they're stuck there.

Liza · 03-10-2007, 11:43 AM

I don't judge people, but I know from past experience that I'm pretty good at telling if I'll get along with someone or not right away. I knew from a first day at a new job that my boss was going to be trouble, one of the girls I just wasn't going to get along with, and the other one was going to be great. I was right on all three counts. The boss was fired, the first girl decided she hated me, and the second girl and I are now best friends.

AB · 03-10-2007, 12:37 PM

Nope, I'm pretty open-minded.

Number 9 Dream · 03-10-2007, 01:27 PM

Hm, I wouldn't say I judge people per se, but I can usually tell if someone is going to end up being trouble or not. I'm pretty good at sizing up someones' character, but that doesn't mean I won't give them a chance.

Dude111 · 12-04-2025, 01:15 AM

Yes I have judged people..

Like this dude who came to my friends house alot.. (His name is Xaviar)

He is very forceful with how he talks and it makes me uncomfortable...I dont like that in people...

03-10-2007, 10:20 AM	#1
orderandlaw Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 10, 2006 Posts: 125	When you first meet someone, are you quick to judge them? I kinda do, I guess. I don't usually automatically hate someone if I just met them, but when I do meet people I often know whether I'd possibly want to date them or not within seconds of being around them. If my mind is fixed on them being just friends or otherwise not datable that's the way they're stuck. Sometimes people who fall into the dating category will be placed in another non-dating category after I get to know them, and then they're stuck there.

03-10-2007, 01:27 PM	#4
Number 9 Dream That '70s Girl Forum Veteran Join Date: Jan 18, 2005 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,875	Hm, I wouldn't say I judge people per se, but I can usually tell if someone is going to end up being trouble or not. I'm pretty good at sizing up someones' character, but that doesn't mean I won't give them a chance.
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03-10-2007, 11:43 AM	#2
Liza BestYearsofOurLives Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 24, 2001 Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 6,537	I don't judge people, but I know from past experience that I'm pretty good at telling if I'll get along with someone or not right away. I knew from a first day at a new job that my boss was going to be trouble, one of the girls I just wasn't going to get along with, and the other one was going to be great. I was right on all three counts. The boss was fired, the first girl decided she hated me, and the second girl and I are now best friends.

03-10-2007, 12:37 PM	#3
AB Member Eternal Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 26, 2006 Location: The South Posts: 59,428	Nope, I'm pretty open-minded.

12-04-2025, 01:15 AM	#5
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 36,617	Yes I have judged people.. Like this dude who came to my friends house alot.. (His name is Xaviar) He is very forceful with how he talks and it makes me uncomfortable...I dont like that in people...