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julian bozo · 02-16-2007, 02:37 AM

Do you think it is to controlling for your boyfriend or girlfriiend to want you to call them Sir and Ma'am? I said no. My friend said yes. She would not want to go out with a guy who wanted her to say Yes Sir and No Sir. I kind of what my future significant other to. Would youanswer them if they asked you to?

Hollow · 02-16-2007, 03:14 AM

i don't think it's necessary at all. it's polite, but it sounds too formal and impersonal for a relationship.

Kazza · 02-16-2007, 09:05 AM

That goes a bit too far . There's no need to call someone Sir or Madam unless they want to control you in some way.

Brian Damage · 02-16-2007, 09:58 AM

That is arrogance with a capital A!

FOLrocks1 · 02-16-2007, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Brian Damage

That is arrogance with a capital A!

You got that right!

catlover79 · 02-16-2007, 11:36 AM

I can see calling your special someone sir or ma'am if you are joking around, but if that person is serious, I'd get away!

TVFactFan · 02-16-2007, 01:24 PM

I wouldn't mind being controlled by girlfriend after midnight-LOL

catlover79 · 02-16-2007, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by TVResearcher

I wouldn't mind being controlled by girlfriend after midnight-LOL

No comment.

Czas na Zywiec · 02-16-2007, 05:26 PM

I expect to be called sir, have my slippers ready, cigar cut, laundry done and folded correctly, house cleaned, and dinner on the table on time every night. And nothing less.

catlover79 · 02-16-2007, 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Czas na Zywiec

I expect to be called sir, have my slippers ready, cigar cut, laundry done and folded correctly, house cleaned, and dinner on the table on time every night. And nothing less.

Again, no comment.

Janice · 02-16-2007, 05:52 PM

I'd run for the hills. The person is an obvious control freak.

MsOrange · 02-16-2007, 05:58 PM

am i dreaming, or has this topic been discussed before???????

anyway, yea, I pretty much agree w/ everything everyone has said.

snl 70s show fan · 02-16-2007, 06:27 PM

there is no need whatsoever to call your girlfriend or boyfriend sir or ma;am that is asking way too much

dawsongirl · 02-17-2007, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Czas na Zywiec

I expect to be called sir, have my slippers ready, cigar cut, laundry done and folded correctly, house cleaned, and dinner on the table on time every night. And nothing less.

What about your evening cocktail?

catlover79 · 02-17-2007, 12:25 AM

Dawsongirl, are you going to spit into the cocktail before giving it to him??

02-16-2007, 02:37 AM	#1
julian bozo Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 30, 2001 Location: Cullman,Al,United States Posts: 1,534	Too Controlling boyfriend or girlfriend? Do you think it is to controlling for your boyfriend or girlfriiend to want you to call them Sir and Ma'am? I said no. My friend said yes. She would not want to go out with a guy who wanted her to say Yes Sir and No Sir. I kind of what my future significant other to. Would youanswer them if they asked you to?

02-16-2007, 09:58 AM	#4
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02-16-2007, 11:36 AM	#6
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02-16-2007, 03:14 AM	#2
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	i don't think it's necessary at all. it's polite, but it sounds too formal and impersonal for a relationship.

02-16-2007, 09:05 AM	#3
Kazza Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 17, 2003 Posts: 3,244	That goes a bit too far . There's no need to call someone Sir or Madam unless they want to control you in some way.

02-16-2007, 01:24 PM	#7
TVFactFan Member Forum Junkie Join Date: Aug 17, 2002 Posts: 99,119	I wouldn't mind being controlled by girlfriend after midnight-LOL

02-16-2007, 05:26 PM	#9
Czas na Zywiec what up Forum Star Join Date: Jun 28, 2001 Location: Southwest Side, Chicago Posts: 18,398	I expect to be called sir, have my slippers ready, cigar cut, laundry done and folded correctly, house cleaned, and dinner on the table on time every night. And nothing less.

02-16-2007, 05:52 PM	#11
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	I'd run for the hills. The person is an obvious control freak.

02-16-2007, 05:58 PM	#12
MsOrange Bringin' Sexy Back Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 27, 2004 Posts: 6,133	am i dreaming, or has this topic been discussed before??????? anyway, yea, I pretty much agree w/ everything everyone has said.

02-16-2007, 06:27 PM	#13
snl 70s show fan Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 14, 2005 Location: in the forman basment Posts: 2,454	there is no need whatsoever to call your girlfriend or boyfriend sir or ma;am that is asking way too much

02-17-2007, 12:25 AM	#15
catlover79 God Bless Val Forum Addict Join Date: May 29, 2006 Location: Bewitched in Ohio Posts: 70,392	Dawsongirl, are you going to spit into the cocktail before giving it to him??